All of them. *Maybe* a little preference for well formed (but not necessarily any particular size) breasts and nipples, and good skin, but pretty much the entire package is important.
Its a combination of things for me. Looks, natural tits, well proportioned, on the petite side, sensual dance style (not nasty/naughty), and personality. I guess we all have different preferences that turn us on.
6. Attitude. I've had the best dances from girls that showed enthusiasm on the stage or a little somthin somthin during conversation. Not that I mean I want a fat ugly chick with a good attitude to give me a dance.
1. PERSONALITY-can't stress that enough. Why am I going to hand her money if she isn't pleasant enough to be with?
2. Eyes. I do look at eyes, even in a strip joint.
3. A nice, natural, figure. No bolt ons please.
4. The bloom of youth. I find 24 year olds to be the most sexy, as long as they take are of themself and don't look older than they really are, or try to use makeup to conceal something.
5. Little to no makeup. The only reason to paint your face is that you're about to go to a college football game, or wage war against Mel Gibson.
a combo..
slender
long shapely legs
natural non sagging titties
dark hair
a tan or olive complexion
fit
tight ass
cute
snart
nice personality
an interest in me.
but.. if i had to choose one.. nice legs catch my eye 1st.
All of the above with the caveat: I don't like fake, don't like fake tits, fake face (too much make up,etc.), fake personality.
Hmm! Would I fuck that? If the answer is 'yes', and she's a halfway interesting person, I'm in like flint.
I know it sounds a bit old-fashioned but I'm really attracted to ladies with pretty faces. It makes the rest of the package just that much more appealing. Even if they are not my favorite body type, if they have a pretty face and smile then I'm interested.
As has been already mentioned, attitude also either makes it all work or not. If they're pretty but stuck-up then I'll pass. No one is that hot to put up with that sh*t.
1--face - I prefer no glasses or nose rings
2--tits - YES!, great for stage tipping
3--ass - yes, great for grinding
4--legs - yes, good at low mileage clubs where leg grazing is the high point of the LD (ie Diamond's Cabaret in Dayton)
5--bush or lack of it - most Columbus clubs are topless, hair stubs on armpits or vagina area though is a no.
6 - none of the above
7 - all of the above
Really no specific criteria for me on whether I'm going to a LD from a dancer. Either (a) I just feel it or (b) I've just seen her give an awesome LD to a guy two tables away.
A couple people mentioned personality. For me, that can be the tipping point if I'm on the fence.
The value of face looks varies. I was just shooting the breeze with one dancer friend, C, on a slow night, and she was noting that there's a certain level of intimacy (for both parties) to looking a dancer in the eyes when she's dancing for you. I kept that in mind with the next few dancers (over a few trips to SCs) and found that it was true for me -- the ones that I wasn't close with, I didn't look in the eye much.
attitude first and always, being at ease with the dancing
pretty eyes, I'm BIG on eye contact
nice ass and legs
not concerned with breast size, some of my best lapdances have involved A-cups or smaller, although my current ATF has a big set of falsies. but who doesn't love getting smothered in tig ol' bitties?
but attitude and friendliness is everything. show me a flawless bombshell with a bad attitude and I'll show you a bitch who ain't gettin' my money.
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