Let a new wolf join your wolf pack or protect your flock?

Captain of our fairy band,
Helena is here at hand,
And the youth, mistook by me,
Pleading for a lover's fee.
Shall we their fond pageant see?
Lord, what fools these mortals be!

Protect your flock.

Definitely protect your flock, you invested time and money to build it.

Simple, protect the flock and the pack. A new wolf must prove himself (herself). The new wolf must be accepted in person by the other wolves present. The pack must observe the new wolf's actions with the flock as the pack watches. If the new wolf proves worthy and is respectful of both the pack and the flock then the new wolf might be accepted by both pack and flock.

"Ya hear him howlin around your kitchen door, better not let him in"

Protect them from what? You are not the only customer they are having sex with. Your favorite club sounds like a brothel disguised as a SC. Sounds to me like you are feeding your ego more than protecting your flock. Your sheep are constantly wandering.

I think txtitty's right, how much information is really necessary with some clubs known for extras. Aside from mentioning the club is good, who really needs a detailed map or instructions like that. Most of us who regularly go to strip clubs are more familiar with a club because we go there and the strippers are more familiar with us. You can't instruct that.

I am protecting my investment. 8 years. Probably $100k. A brother wolf just PM'd me this morning. He wanted 2 things. Why did a certain dancer smell so bad. I did not have the answer. It has been 6 months since I have seen her. She had just ended a 10 year lesbian relationship and was now getting dick again. Maybe she has just let her appearance slip. She had never smelled bad to me.He also wanted to know the name of the dancer that wanted $500 for FS. He got it and the fact that she said her normal price was $1,000. He cannot afford it and I will not pay it.I am not the Alpha male but I do good.

Agree there is no reason to give out this information to free to strangers. You had to work, why shouldn't they? Besides it's more fun for them that way than if they are just delivered everything up on a silver platter.

Does Gridget wander like many sheep?

gridget has not worked for 2 years.But takes care of me. Don't ask.You will not get an answer!

If you consider them "your" sheep, then do what you perceive as "protecting" them. Satisfy your own imagination.

I've been PM'ed recently by someone with one review asking for specific information about specific dancers. I have declined to give anything more than very general information for a number of reasons. I've built relationships with my regular dancers over literally years, as S-Cat has described. The level of service I get now in no way resembles what I got the first few times I got dances from these women. I can't guarantee they'd give that level of service to a new customer, and would not want to create an expectation that they would. I also would not want to put a dancer in an uncomfortable position with a customer new to her. I'm not naive enough to think others don't receive the same level of service that I do, but it should be completely at the dancer's discretion to offer it, or not.

There's also the very outside chance that the questioner is LE.

Be clear that I don't hold any particular ill will towards the guy who was asking these questions. I don't know him. I just choose to use a lot of discretion in giving out information about dancers.

Is there any precedent to LE using strip club forums and sites to make busts? I know they have used craigslist to bust escorting but strip clubs, not that I know of.

LoneLurker, We gotta meet some day.

Totally agree with LoneLurker's perspective. I too, have been PM'ed by a few strangers asking strange questions. And have declined to share anything. I don't look at it as either "a lone wolf or protecting a flock", just good common sense. Isn't part of the fun/fantasy developing those "relationships" yourself (he asks rhetorically)? Why would anyone want to bypass that fun?

Your flock has probably developed a feeling of trust in you, which they might lose if some stalker got personal info on them from you. Of course you are not responsible for or to them as a spouse or parent, but friends always know the boundaries that all should observe--without even having to talk about it. First protect the flock. Second, knowledge is power--don't just give it away.