Dating Strippers

I would say I don't date them in the traditional sense. Some may want dinner afterwards but its mostly meeting for sex sessions at a motel.

The one I have been seeing over a year is married so running around with her on dinner dates in her area is just not on the menu. The sex is really great with her and thats what matters to me. We do have a really good friendship and she is one of the most drama free gals I have seen.

My ATF and I went out many times, but I never considered it a "date". Just friends doing things together.

When I was much younger I dated a stripper. It was wild and fun. Fortunately I didn't fall in love with any and I lived to love another day.

Yes they can be dangerous. Background check recommended.

I am dating a stripper. Actually a retired one. She is a paramedic now. But will have lunch and hang with me at the club whenever I am in town. And still dances for me. It is a platonic relationship. I'm 67. She is 32. We look out for each other. Father/daughter? She is single and not dating. She is the only one that has my address/phone number.We are planning a trip to the zoo. She will drive the 200 miles to attend my daughter's wedding with me. She has reviews on here and has posted on here. She is having surgery today. Will be in the hospital for 2-3 days and will need 2-3 weeks to recover. I will not be making my usual trip to PP this month. Without her, I am just not interested. Wish "gridget" a speedy recovery!

Best to "gridget" for a complete recovery.

"...head.....was never found."

If I was ever going to date the blonde, bimbo stripper, I would make damn sure I knew I wold be findin' frequent head.

Again, the wise old man of the family, my Dead Uncle Jack always told me: "Don't ever marry the stripper."

Day into night shes with me
How sweet is her warm embrace
Safe in the scent of jasmine
So safe in her gold and lace

Mornings I find, shes left me
So cold so alone, but aware
I try to escape, she finds me
Oh run though I may, shes there, there, there, there, there...

Luck is a lady whose smile is as cold as a stone
Shell bring you things, many things you might never have known
But when your die is cast shell have the final laugh at you
Shell lock you in a duel, where you come out the fool

Beware of the queen of spades
Her black widows curse might find you yet
Beware of a love that you will regret
Her love means only your death

Day into night shes with me
Turn of a card, shes there
The first time is free, you know
But from now on, pay me, me, me, me, me...

Beware of the queen of spades
Her black widows curse might find you yet
Beware of a love that you will regret
Her love means only your death

After conducting several background checks on strippers I have found one trend: the shy strippers tend to have clean backgrounds while the outgoing ones tend to have some sort of problem whether it is traffic or criminal.
Traffic offenses such as speeding ticket, dui, accident, etc. is not something that raises red flags...but a criminal offense (especially stealing) makes me think twice before going to meet with them.

I hope Gridget doesn't turn out to be a fraud. And, for the record it isn't just strippers who are frauds. I got taken this weekend for $250 by a man who really shouldn't need the money----the fraud was just for jollies or ego most likely. I be tempted to tell the gentleman to fuck off (when the demand was for $400 that was the answer in politer form, btw), but I had the government breathing down my neck and a seeming deadline. Better to bow to the fraudster and the government, then make a moral stand.

Also, 2 women who've known me for many years were surprised that I was opposed to fraud! Both are Bible thumpers. One is a hooker and the other is prude. Somehow they don't comprehend the idea that some crimes have a victim or victims and thus it isn't very nice to commit the crime. Reminds me of my boss of decades ago who believed that without the firm guidance of legislators it was impossible to know right from wrong; also, if you broke one law, then you should be willing to break all laws. A real hard man.

jablake, your posts continue to amaze and amuse. Merci. And mercy!

Glad they amaze and amuse. :) And, nice alliteration. :)

After a long series of flirting conversations, my ATF wants to start dating. She has a criminal record which includes a DUI and fleeing to avoid arrest in a second DUI. She's gorgeous, in her mid-40's, looks late 20's and is a C.P.A. But I don't trust her or any dancer as a date. Criminal behavior, theft, crazy ex-boyfriends or ex-husbands, drugs and escorting are just part of the baggage. Maybe I'm an overly cautious wimp. So be it.

My GF of 4.5 years is a (probably) ex stripper, 27 years old. Over the first 6 months of our relationship I learned about her past in short installments. If she had told me all at once, I would have run for the hills. To summarize: 1) mother died of heroin overdose when GF was 5; 2) Grandmother and extended relatives vied for custody over next 3 years; 3) Grandmother won, then used GF as slave in fish store; 4) GF's dad fathered 7 kids by 4 women, and never stayed with mother to raise kids; 5) despite this, GF went to live with dear old dad at age 14; 6) Age 17, GF takes up heroin, moves to Philly; 7) GF spends thanksgiving with other addicts living inside abandoned boat in boatyard next to river; 8) GF has several boyfriends and living arrangements; one boyfriend sucks dick to make drug money; 9) GF prostitutes on the street at height of heroin use; 10) New Russian boyfriend abuses her; she threatens to leave; he tries to stab her; she jumps out 2nd floor window, shatters leg on sidewalk; 11) GF goes with Grandma to Arizona to recuperate, gets clean for 2 months, then takes up with drug dealer and lives out of hotel; 12) Everybody gets arrested at hotel; GF gets free on bail and skips around town; 13) New boyfriend is actually a nice guy, an ex drunk who takes her in and they live in a 5th wheeel trailer at a car body shop; 14) I meet GF at strip club; we arrange OTC; 15) GF is arrested on warrants; 15) I spend the next year pulling her off the street, helping her through her probation; and otherwise convincing her she has better life waiting.

It was holy hell for a while. Now she is at ASU, majoring in Biology (no jokes!). Clean for 3.5 years. Sometimes I wake up at night and worry about her relapsing.

So what was that you asked?

Like harrydave she just grew on me over 6+years. Not as dramatic as his ATF. She was never a drug user and abhors it. She was not abused. Her parents are still married. Her dad, now 76 will probably not see next Xmas. I have met her sister on several occasions. She started dancing because her loser husband could not support their family. Yes, I did help her financially through her divorce, custody battle and launch her new career. I don't regret a dime of it.

Well done, Dave!

I tried dating a stripper in Detroit for the first time. Three bites into dinner, she got sick and thought she might throw up. I asked if she needed to go outside and she said yes. I asked her if she could walk and she shook her head no. So I offered to carry her. She jumped up and wrapped herself around me "stripper style", and I carried her out from a moderately busy and nice restaurant.

I am very glad I didn't know anyone there...

Dating a stripper includes; lots of expenses (whatever they need - they need RIGHT NOW - and too often they are broke), high drama (the ex, the baby, the family issues, the suspended license, the "asshole" running the club), strange friends (wash hands after you are introduced) and occasionally really, really hot sex! Since I am married, dating a stripper also includes making excuses for trips and strange phone calls, trying to cover the additional expenses and time away. Life around a young woman who chooses to dance in a strip club (or otherwise ends up dancing near naked and being pawed by strange guys) will be wild and a little dangerous.
OTOH, I have been dating a stripper for most of this year and though the pocketbook is thinner I am not complaining. I feel younger, I've experienced some great times (and more to come), got to know a strange but darling person (who loves lots of sex with me - man, that strokes my ego) and even my relationship with my wife is better (she says I'm more fun when we do things together). The lady I'm dating is not Shadowcat's lovely Griget, she's not past all her problems, but she is priceless.
Yes, strippers usually have more problems than many others. Yes, drugs, violence, crime and emotional problems are common in their environment. Still, a beautiful young woman who dances in a strip club is a beautiful young woman - and some of them are well worth knowing!

Dang, harrydave, that is quite a background! I join you in hoping she does not relapse.