Good Girls vs. Bad Girls

Good girls behaving badly

Sweet girls.

Either, as long as they have a firm grip on the matter at hand.

Sweet girls as they yend to be better mileage. Bitches are just out to make money by trying to rip you off or generally doing nothing.

Good girls, who are bad with me...

Only good girls make it to my favorites list.

the good girls some times bring up what is against the "rules" and "law" when I'm getting a LD from them. As if they are worried about getting in trouble with club management.

I do love the southern friendliness some of the good girl dancers have though.

Good girl every time for me, but they can be 'naughty' during a LD :-)

It seems like I haven't run into many "bitchy" dancers lately. Maybe I've just became better at avoiding them. The last one was a dancer who sat down uninvited and basically demanded I get a dance from her. Several awkward minutes of conversation/arguing followed, until she gave up and left. Curious, I kept an eye out for her. A few minutes later I saw some guy meekly following her to the lap dance area, so I guess her approach works with some customers.

There are women that can make either work. That said, it just depends on the woman.

I didn't know good girls worked as strippers. Constantly smiling/friendly girls are so phony sometimes that I find it a turnoff.

good or bad is only part of the equation for me. far more important: I like 'em really beautiful (the type I would never have a shot at outside the club) and at least somewhat sophisticated.

Bad girls turn me on more. Just a hint of bitch in her eyes or the way she moves her hips. They can be unreliable, of course, and aggravating as hell, but they can be worth it all, too. Lower lows and higher highs. Good girls are low maintenance, but they don't keep me interested. I might have a great time one night with a good girl stripper, then start to feel kind of bored about seeing her again. She's too predictable. It takes a bit of a bad girl to make me obsess a little, wanting to come back and see what she's got for me next.

chandler: sounds like your overactive failed writer imagination at work again. Most normal people don't go to strip clubs for the drama. Guess you're different.

Philip A. Stein says:

[ignore]Posted: 08/04/09

Either, as long as they have a firm grip on the matter at hand.

I like the way you put that :)

I really don't take into consideration if the girl is "good" or "bad".. I judge it as "smart" or "dumb". If the girl is smart and carries on an opinionated conversation with me then I will become suspicious and assume she is a ROB. She will be well educated on the strip club rules or state and city laws, and give air dances. If the girl seems dumb then I'll have a hunch the mileage will be good, which it usually is.

Interesting take, samsung1. I typically prefer the smart ladies, and enjoy meaningful conversations with them. They still go all the way when the time is right.

Think I disagree with how on this one. If the girl has some real life ambitions and is in school, she is less likely to want to think of herself as a whore. Are there girls so horny that they are exceptions? Yes, definitely. But as for "good" versus "bad", "good" definitely works harder to please.

I also disagree with samsung that the very smart ones are more likely to be ROBs. Again if she has ambition she does not want her self image to be "thief" so she is less likely to ROB you, or generally feed you a bunch of SS.

Under Dougster's explanation I like Good, Bad-girls but no ROB (or bitches without the RO)

Gals who give my money's worth - GFE.

I've never used the good girl/bad girl system to rate strippers. Like some, I prefer a girl who appears smart, can converse about a variety of things and has a sense of humor. But mostly I like the absence of BS and drama.

I think some of you are making too much of this. It's not meant to be a system or the secret of life or anything, just one way of looking at personality types.

Back to the BJ versus fingering thing. The first is active on her part the other passive. Besides the possibilities already mentioned, it might be that she likes being the one "in charge" or, possibly from experience, she doesn't trust customers to finger her well, or maybe some have done it so poorly she felt uncomfortable.

^^^ Sorry, wrong thread