You know AzRay, I agree with you. Once you are interacting at a very personal level with incredibly pretty women, you tend to do it more in real life. The only thing you need to be careful of is that crossover thing that you mentioned. That can get you in some incredibly uncomfortable spots if you're not careful what you say when. I was on the crowded subway one afternoon standing next to a pretty young thing who smelled incredible. I almost commented on it out of habit....then had a quick flash where we were and realized that I would sound like some perv on the train. Close call there. Not to say that I'm NOT a dirty old man, but I just don't have to prove it. <br type="_moz" />
AzRay's point seems to be that the familiarity with beautiful (nearly naked) women you get in SCs can carry over well to "real life". The waitress obviously thought he was being sweet. CCRiderm's warning that you have to be careful not to be inappropriate is also true, but it depends on what you're trying to accomplish. If you're trying to pick up women, the ease you can learn in a strip club can come in handy. It's especially handy if you just want to have some fun flirting (and maybe more). Of course you might get slapped from time to time, but that just means you're not being subtle enough or that you don't truly understand the game yet.<br />
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I read someplace that the only compliment you can give a woman in a work environment without fear of getting sued for sexual harassment is "you look very professional today." Of course if you say "Wow, that dress really accentuates your tits to great effect" or "you look hot today!" you're going to get into some trouble... but there are much more subtle ways to let a woman know you're aware of her beauty. Just saying "nice shoes!" in passing if they're unusual, or "nice change" if her haircolor or style changed, let her know you notice and appreciate these things. And no, CCRiderm, you don't have to sound like a perv on the train... you can say something like "Excuse me, I really like the perfume you're wearing. Can you tell me what it is?" or just "nice perfume" with a smile as she walks by to the door, or you walk by to the door.<br />
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I think the most important quality you need for flirting is confidence and comfort in a beautiful woman's space. If you can make and hold eye contact with a smile, you can make a very good impression. Hanging out in SCs can definitely give you a chance to "practice" this skill.<br type="_moz" />
<p>You're totally right. I tend to be pretty quiet outside of my comfort zones. I'm in the medical field, so I have to be able to talk to patients. I'm good at the gym, because it's a comfortable place for me. Other than that, I'm not sociable. I've gone whole weekends without talking to another human being. Since I've been going to strip clubs, however, I find myself more willing to initiate conversations with people. I flirt with girls, just like I flirt with dancers. <br />
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A dancer I know is a really cool girl. Veteran dancer, rock chick, and has really lived life. She's been giving me plenty of good advice about women. And she's a pretty good therapist, actually. So for $40 bucks and some drinks I get to ask advice on improving my social skills. And she's hot. LOL</p>
Thanks for the comments. You know when I was on my quest to find words to say to a stripper to get her attention, I realized that there were not much information on this subject. Oh yeah there were the,"How to lay a Stripper", and "How to take a Strpper home". but really nothing that was to me REAL answers. I admit that I have not layed any stripper, but outside the stripper scene I have been getting some pretty good nights to remember ever since my newly converted confidence. <br />
Here I was a normal Joe (I am no fabio), who could not look at a beautiful girl in the eye, now holding conversations up the wall making them laugh....shit yeah. <br />
I agree that "eye contact and humor make great impressions". Oh and good hygene, not too much colonge I wear "Joop", it's sweet and does not smell the house up when you enter. For those on the same quest like pothead wrote the hardest step is out of your comfort zone and into the challenge zone. <br />
KOOL
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I read someplace that the only compliment you can give a woman in a work environment without fear of getting sued for sexual harassment is "you look very professional today." Of course if you say "Wow, that dress really accentuates your tits to great effect" or "you look hot today!" you're going to get into some trouble... but there are much more subtle ways to let a woman know you're aware of her beauty. Just saying "nice shoes!" in passing if they're unusual, or "nice change" if her haircolor or style changed, let her know you notice and appreciate these things. And no, CCRiderm, you don't have to sound like a perv on the train... you can say something like "Excuse me, I really like the perfume you're wearing. Can you tell me what it is?" or just "nice perfume" with a smile as she walks by to the door, or you walk by to the door.<br />
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I think the most important quality you need for flirting is confidence and comfort in a beautiful woman's space. If you can make and hold eye contact with a smile, you can make a very good impression. Hanging out in SCs can definitely give you a chance to "practice" this skill.<br type="_moz" />
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A dancer I know is a really cool girl. Veteran dancer, rock chick, and has really lived life. She's been giving me plenty of good advice about women. And she's a pretty good therapist, actually. So for $40 bucks and some drinks I get to ask advice on improving my social skills. And she's hot. LOL</p>
Here I was a normal Joe (I am no fabio), who could not look at a beautiful girl in the eye, now holding conversations up the wall making them laugh....shit yeah. <br />
I agree that "eye contact and humor make great impressions". Oh and good hygene, not too much colonge I wear "Joop", it's sweet and does not smell the house up when you enter. For those on the same quest like pothead wrote the hardest step is out of your comfort zone and into the challenge zone. <br />
KOOL