Reading through the Discussion section I ran across a thread with the title, “will alcohol kill STDs”? In reading the responses I discovered that there is still a ton of misinformation out there. So I decided to write this article for the benefit of everyone in this audience.
First of all realize that strippers who perform ‘extras’ are by definition considered ‘sex workers’. They perform a sex act for money. So engaging in any extra behavior with them is considered ‘risky’. All extras have different risks associated with them. I visited one club where the dancers all carried around little hand towels to lie on the vinyl chairs because a couple of them had caught something from the chairs. But the “RISK’ to a guy wearing pants is almost zero. You can get crabs, unlikely though.
Typical SC activities I will specifically address are normal LDs, HJs, DFK, BBBJs and DATY. Listed in order of least risky to most. If you participate in FS type activities, mish, Greek, etc… keep that puppy covered. However know that the “juices” sometimes drip below the ring on the condom and you are at risk for a number of things.
LDs: basic risk is pubic lice, scabies, Molluscum Contagiosum , and CMV. Usually there is a really low risk and if you do get the crabs it’s easy to treat. Now if you suck on the nipple and you get a little discharge in your mouth, that’s a little different story. That is fluid from her body into yours. May be milk, after all some strippers have kids to feed, I have the “I support single moms” t-shirt. You are at risk for anything in which exchange of body fluids are involved. See DFK.
DFK: I’ve read theoretical risks usually regarding bad bleeding gums (why would you want to kiss that?). And most authorities agree that kissing carries very low risk. THAT DOESN’T MEAN NO RISK. Have you ever heard of getting a cold sore (Herpies I&II) from kissing? Rare but you can.
HJ: considered pretty safe from everything I read even if she uses saliva as a lubricant. I still look for bumps on the hands. There are sources on the net that state rare and theoretical risks to HPV. Of course you still get the LD risks as well. I heard of a case where the stripper was straddling the leg of a guy whose pants were down getting a HJ and he got a yeast infection on his leg where her kitty was touching his bare skin.
Oral sex: It is better to receive than to give as a general rule. That just means that the odds are different.
BBBJ: carries all the risks of traditional sex: chancroid, Chlamydia, cmv, gonorrhea, Hepatitis B, Herpes, HIV, HPV, molluscum contagiosum, NGU, syphilis, Trichomoniasis, warts. I am not going to list the exact risk of each because this would get to long. Most of the listed above is rare, BUT is a risk. I’ve heard a lot of guys say that it was safe and they have been doing it for years. Think about it, there are plenty of people who have been driving for years and never been in an accident but we all know it’s just a matter of time and luck. And these same ‘dudes’ may in fact have something that doesn’t have symptoms, yet, or carry symptoms for the guy.
CIM: this activity does not carry any additional risk because you are giving not receiving.
DATY: Same STDs as BBBJ except that the risk is higher. Bacteria and virus are microscopic and if you can wipe it off easier you are safer. Plus the skin on Mr. Happy is different than the skin on the inside of your mouth. Virus and some bacteria can easily penetrate the mucus membrane (skin inside your mouth). Dentists are very careful to protect every bit of skin and only leave tooth exposed when doing work to prevent diseases, hello….
Everything in life carries risk, but going to a SC isn’t a Sunday drive in the country. These girls by the nature of the business carry more risk. Some clubs require regular testing for basic STDs
Basic “rule of thumb” if it’s not yours and it’s wet, you can catch something from it. I try and watch the girls dance on stage first. I am watching the dance sure to see if she has little inhibitions. But I am also checking her out. If she is dirty (not in action), smells funny, or has bad oral hygiene I usually pass. Plus If their teeth are terrible they have probably been doing meth and that means doing anything to get a fix, including blowing a guy without a condom that you would feel weird shaking his hand. I also look for little non-achne, bumps that signal genital warts. Look up some pictures on the net of these and you will second guess.
If you don’t understand an acronyms look it up on urbandictionary.com If you have more specific questions please write and ask. I am not online all the time and sometimes not for months at a time. Also any information you received cannot be construed as “medical advice”. It’s just info from one guy to another. Other references:
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Thanks for the info.
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