How a Club Makes All the Differences in the World
DFreshPalace
California
As I sit here thinking about a lot of different things from my latest visit to my favorite club to the reviews I've read in the recent days and to the knowledge I've gained over the years I couldn't help but think What do you look for in a Club? Do you go for a Single Dancer? Several at a time? When you're looking for a Club what makes that Club your favorite? What makes that Club think Why am I here? Over the next few paragraphs I hope to bring a little insight to those questions and more.
If you've been able to read my other articles then you know that I started attending when I was 21 because at the time it was the age limit as the clubs then were only topless and served alcohol. Since that time many of those clubs have gone by the wayside but a few remain. I know that Deja Vu who owns several clubs up and down the State of California have a mix of both with the closest to me in Stockton were it is still Topless Only but in LA and SF they have several of each so perhaps that is what you look for in a club and that is okay as long as you Drink Responsibly or have a DD with you. I don't drink anymore so that doesn't make much difference to me but I don't judge. The Club I first attended was a club that opened for lunch and did well in the Downtown area until it closed. After that I had to start going to Biker / Pool Type Bars that offered Topless Dancing.
The first club I attend had a jukebox during the day at first but would change to a DJ at night. I know having a DJ was better for me because then it wasn't customers picking your song and at times during the day you may get one customer playing the same song over and over with the Jukebox. The girls here weren't bad but looking back I've seen a lot better although they did have one girl at this club that could do some pretty awesome tricks on stage with pole. But it's not all about the Dancers it's about the staff as well. I said it was a Biker type bar so you would have a lot of BIG Guys working the room some made you feel less comfortable than others. The other club down the street was similar to this as well but here the girls were not very pretty all but one who ended up becoming my BEST Friend in LIFE! But the management here didn't care about the customer at all nor did they really care about the girls working there.
Once the All Nude Clubs started to come into play one opened in the same area of the 2 Bike Type Bars and did okay for awhile and it was fun but they had a lot of issues that would occur and it would meet it's demise when the area closed all clubs in the area which left only 4. One of those being Downtown and this club changed management a lot but would also see it's share of Local Celebrities attend. It wasn't a bad club and the girls weren't terrible until one night all hell broke lose. I walked in and felt very strange. I didn't feel like I belonged at all. It was as I walked into a Ghost Town. When I arrived around 8pm I was the only customer with over 20 Girls. It was the most uncomfortable I ever felt and it would be the last time I was there. The vibe of this Club has gone downhill so much and based on the reviews it doesn't appear to have gotten much better but without being there I don't want to pass judgement.
The other 3 clubs are located in the same area of each other and one of them gets A Ton of Porn Stars and they have a HUGE Store just off the club as well. Perfect for your needs at home or if you want to pick up a great outfit for your GF, Wife, etc. The club itself is huge. It has changed a lot but it has always been the GO To Club in the area. For me however in my recent visits I never really felt like I belonged so it made it hard to go back. The other club in the area is also known for it's Porn Star it gets as well as Balloon Popping Waitresses. However I will say I found one club in Hollywood who has a Waitress that does that and that girl is gorgeous and the management team are all off the hook and always have made me feel comfortable during my interactions. They have been able to give me a lot of insight on the business of clubs and help me understand why some do things more than others.
Finally the Club as I deemed my Home Club. Had they never invited me and kept inviting me I may have never gone nearly 2 years ago. It's a Store by Day and Club at Night with the store open as well. When I first went in 2016 it was a Monday in March when I beautiful AA Girl showed me around and made sure I had good time that night. I would return the following week to see her and then the next time she was gone never to return. I wanted to give up and I almost did but then..... What happens next is HUGE when it comes to management and how I feel about a club and what they can do to make you want to come back.
On the night I almost gave up the Club Life for good I called to see if the girl who gave me the tour was there and when she wasn't they told me to come check out a different dancer. I did and I am so glad I did because after over 20 years of Club life I found what I was looking for in a girl. Beauty, Friendly, Caring, and a girl who you can just trust with your life. Not only that but over the course of my time of going I've gained so many friendships with the staff and the dancers that I feel like I am just home when there. Yes they are all there to make money and I get that but the Vibe of the club, the atmosphere of club makes me feel like I am finally home and this is key when it comes to helping me with my depression because I have found so much happiness here and this is so important because I'm pretty sure no one wants to go out to have a good time and get treated badly. I'm sure if you attended a dinner and didn't care for the food you wouldn't like if they didn't take care of it right away. This club stays on top things. They are Small and don't do much advertising and just now getting back into the Social Media game to compete with the others but this is what I look for when I go.
I look for those who go above and beyond to treat the customer with respect to make your day/night one that you will always remember and want to come back to. So for me the keys are Friendly Beautiful Dancers with a staff that treats you with respect as long as you don't go out of your way to have them ask you to leave.
If you've been able to read my other articles then you know that I started attending when I was 21 because at the time it was the age limit as the clubs then were only topless and served alcohol. Since that time many of those clubs have gone by the wayside but a few remain. I know that Deja Vu who owns several clubs up and down the State of California have a mix of both with the closest to me in Stockton were it is still Topless Only but in LA and SF they have several of each so perhaps that is what you look for in a club and that is okay as long as you Drink Responsibly or have a DD with you. I don't drink anymore so that doesn't make much difference to me but I don't judge. The Club I first attended was a club that opened for lunch and did well in the Downtown area until it closed. After that I had to start going to Biker / Pool Type Bars that offered Topless Dancing.
The first club I attend had a jukebox during the day at first but would change to a DJ at night. I know having a DJ was better for me because then it wasn't customers picking your song and at times during the day you may get one customer playing the same song over and over with the Jukebox. The girls here weren't bad but looking back I've seen a lot better although they did have one girl at this club that could do some pretty awesome tricks on stage with pole. But it's not all about the Dancers it's about the staff as well. I said it was a Biker type bar so you would have a lot of BIG Guys working the room some made you feel less comfortable than others. The other club down the street was similar to this as well but here the girls were not very pretty all but one who ended up becoming my BEST Friend in LIFE! But the management here didn't care about the customer at all nor did they really care about the girls working there.
Once the All Nude Clubs started to come into play one opened in the same area of the 2 Bike Type Bars and did okay for awhile and it was fun but they had a lot of issues that would occur and it would meet it's demise when the area closed all clubs in the area which left only 4. One of those being Downtown and this club changed management a lot but would also see it's share of Local Celebrities attend. It wasn't a bad club and the girls weren't terrible until one night all hell broke lose. I walked in and felt very strange. I didn't feel like I belonged at all. It was as I walked into a Ghost Town. When I arrived around 8pm I was the only customer with over 20 Girls. It was the most uncomfortable I ever felt and it would be the last time I was there. The vibe of this Club has gone downhill so much and based on the reviews it doesn't appear to have gotten much better but without being there I don't want to pass judgement.
The other 3 clubs are located in the same area of each other and one of them gets A Ton of Porn Stars and they have a HUGE Store just off the club as well. Perfect for your needs at home or if you want to pick up a great outfit for your GF, Wife, etc. The club itself is huge. It has changed a lot but it has always been the GO To Club in the area. For me however in my recent visits I never really felt like I belonged so it made it hard to go back. The other club in the area is also known for it's Porn Star it gets as well as Balloon Popping Waitresses. However I will say I found one club in Hollywood who has a Waitress that does that and that girl is gorgeous and the management team are all off the hook and always have made me feel comfortable during my interactions. They have been able to give me a lot of insight on the business of clubs and help me understand why some do things more than others.
Finally the Club as I deemed my Home Club. Had they never invited me and kept inviting me I may have never gone nearly 2 years ago. It's a Store by Day and Club at Night with the store open as well. When I first went in 2016 it was a Monday in March when I beautiful AA Girl showed me around and made sure I had good time that night. I would return the following week to see her and then the next time she was gone never to return. I wanted to give up and I almost did but then..... What happens next is HUGE when it comes to management and how I feel about a club and what they can do to make you want to come back.
On the night I almost gave up the Club Life for good I called to see if the girl who gave me the tour was there and when she wasn't they told me to come check out a different dancer. I did and I am so glad I did because after over 20 years of Club life I found what I was looking for in a girl. Beauty, Friendly, Caring, and a girl who you can just trust with your life. Not only that but over the course of my time of going I've gained so many friendships with the staff and the dancers that I feel like I am just home when there. Yes they are all there to make money and I get that but the Vibe of the club, the atmosphere of club makes me feel like I am finally home and this is key when it comes to helping me with my depression because I have found so much happiness here and this is so important because I'm pretty sure no one wants to go out to have a good time and get treated badly. I'm sure if you attended a dinner and didn't care for the food you wouldn't like if they didn't take care of it right away. This club stays on top things. They are Small and don't do much advertising and just now getting back into the Social Media game to compete with the others but this is what I look for when I go.
I look for those who go above and beyond to treat the customer with respect to make your day/night one that you will always remember and want to come back to. So for me the keys are Friendly Beautiful Dancers with a staff that treats you with respect as long as you don't go out of your way to have them ask you to leave.
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Sorry, but Deja Vu is the anathema of this.
SJG
For me the particular dancers at a club make more of the difference. The club makes the rest in that it enables a girl to do what i like. At a more strict, lower mileage, extras unfriendly club, i know that the girls regardless of how into them i am, won't be able to do or provide what i really want or give the experience i'm looking for except on maybe very rare occasions, but mostly miss instead of hit. I can't call them ROBs because this is usual and expected behavior, but it still feels a bit like that. As such, it's more of a "waste" of money to me, especially when i compare those experience to my "memories" of my experiences with the ATF at her club.