Inner Thoughts of a Damaged Mind

Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.

Jan 2, 2016, 12:00 AM

Ok, so I'm realizing there are two types of people in the USA; beggars and choosers

I'm a beggar at the moment.

I have to woo chicks. I have to negotiate price. Often times I have to take a huge loss, and because what?

Economics is about scarcity, supply and demand. But I'm sure there is no short supply of sluts in the US. In fact, I say the slut market is fairly saturated. But somehow guys are supposed to operate like we're in the Victorian age, and believe that good pussy is hard to come by. No way.

Reality Check: I'm in my 30s. I have a decent enough job with a career path and six figure range. I live fairly comfortable. I won't pretend that I'm a big type of alpha male, but won't consider myself a beta either. Guess you could call me a tweener. Nice-guy-asshole, or asshole-nice-guy.

I try to keep it classy, even though often times I find I have to resort to ghetto behavior, because that's what the hot girls are into. I work out. I'm attractive, well based on all the fat bitches that actively hit on me. Why don't hot bitches hit on me?

There was a time when I was a chooser. It was easy, I had what they wanted, I didn't have to put any work into it, girls just liked what the saw. And though it's not that way for me now. I still see other guys reaping the benefits of being a total loser waste of life, and getting with chicks I'd give my right nut to get into the sack, wtf?

Then those same chicks are gonna want to get with me after their baby daddy done spent the rent on thug life. I don't do skanks after they got knocked and have stretch marks and stretched baby having canals. Why are all the girls I want to fuck act like they're hard to get then end up with losers I wouldn't hire to mow my lawn. Man, fuck bitches, this is why I'm an asshole. It's all their fault. I wanted to be a nice guy. I was raised to treat women with respect.

I refuse to accept that because I turned a certain age, the burden of being a beggar fall squarely on me. That it is my duty to display my worth in manner of presentation pleasing to these female judges for them to evaluate and award based on their quirky assessment systems.

Why are bitches so dumb. Why did mom and pop tell me to respect these hoes? God they must have wanted me to be celebent for life. This is entirely their fault, they screwed me at a young age. I'm going to treat this girls like the sluts they are.

I'm sounding like a whiny jerk-off.

I am a whiny jerk-off.

I'm going to whine and jerk-off.

Then go pay some stripper to like me...

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Mate279 years ago

Too bad you don't have any trustworthy woman in your life. Find one who is financially stable and reliable and she won't act like the ones you've purported up above ^^^^! There are good women out their and it is your job to actively search for them. Your search should be a part time job after work duties, and you stay at it until complete, which may take several years of trial and error. Stay focused if you're serious about treating a woman with respect and finding a good girl. Then once the job is finished you won't have this subject to whine about. You'll move on to another topic, usually complaining about your nagging wife.....

Supremeruler9 years ago

Amen.

Papi_Chulo9 years ago

Many of us PLs (myself included) complain about women/strippers going-after the bad-boys that treat them like shit; but then again we PLs often also go after the “bad-girls” then complain they treat us like shit – it goes both ways if one analyzes-it objectively; IMO.

Most likely you won't find a worthwhile woman in a bar; club; and certainly not a strip-club – bookstores used to be good places to find nice-girls but the bookstores have gone by the wayside – libraries may be a good place.

One can also try hitting popular happy-hours that are frequented by white-collar professionals – sometimes one can find a nice girl that is there mainly to hang with her coworkers and may not necessarily be a bar slut.

GACA9 years ago

That post was actually sitting in my draft section from last year. I posted it because boy what a difference a year makes :)

san_jose_guy9 years ago

I agree that the perception that pussy is scarce and hard to come by, and so that one has to work hard for it or pay out precious funds, is contrived. It looks this way, but it actually needn't be so.

However, changing the situation is not that easy, and probably requires more than just the actions of one.

Very good article!

SJG

ilbbaicnl9 years ago

You're missing the simple and obvious answer to all of this: both men and women pick who they want to fuck for essentially dumbass reasons. Chicks who are well rounded human beings will have far fewer guys wanting to fuck them than chicks with well rounded asses. They deserve no more or less respect for wanting to fuck guys who make them wet than you do for wanting to fuck chicks who make you hard.

san_jose_guy9 years ago

"...both men and women pick who they want to fuck for essentially dumbass reasons."

I agree with this completely. But we are always taught to see women as the upholders of virtue, when in fact they are cut throats.

And then, I grew up in a family where there was some serious power manipulation and denial going on. This made me prey for the worst sorts of viciousness imaginable, and coming from all the Good Girls too.

SJG

Meursault9 years ago

Maybe you are looking to get with women that are too young. Perhaps women your own age might be more intellectually satisfying. Unless you treat them like a misogynist ass hat, then you probably are stuck with paying strippers to pretend (which isn't all that bad actually). Strippers are fun and they only take up as much time and energy as you can afford to spend.

rickdugan9 years ago

I'm not saying this to be mean, but guys who are unsuccessful with women are usually the ones who come up with these sociological theories to explain why when the answer is usually much simpler. I'm in my 40s and have been married for over a decade now, but I dated a ton in my late 20s up through my mid 30s and I had no problem pulling dates with attractive girls.

It sounds like you are doing one or more of the following: (1) trying to date girls who are too young; (2) shopping the wrong types of girls; and/or (3) struggling in the interaction department.