So we decided to try to understand the differences in going to SC as a couple vs. individually. What we found is that we both had an easier time attracting attention alone than we did as a couple going. Although going as a couple allows us to have the experience together which makes it that much hotter, the ability to interact with the girls individually got both of us extremely hot and bothered and has made for some very hot nights together later.
So he went to a club in Atlanta by himself during a business trip there and found that where as a couple we had to actively pursue girls and request that they come see us (and even then never had that be a sure thing), as a single guy he had none of these issues. In fact there were girls coming over that he had to send away more than once. The dances he got were much more intimate, than those we typically get as a couple. Lots more touching and lots of grinding. Zippers were pulled and hands were used that don't happen as much going as a couple - at least not together. Of course this really didn't surprise us, we expected that as strip clubs are male customer dominated, that this would happen.
But when she went to a club in Minnesota by herself, she found that while she may not have been beating the girls off, she also didn't find it necessary to be chasing the girls. They were coming to her freely and offering dances. Usually as a couple the girls concentrate on her much more than him anyways, but on the night that she went alone, the level of touching and intimacy of the dances went up considerably as well. As a couple, most girls touch and rub her boobs - but alone, they were investigating what lay under her bra more thoroughly and even using their mouths to explore. It was by far one of the hottest times she has had in a club yet. Going into that night, we didn't know how the girls would react, but in hindsight we should have realized that with a single girl in the club, the risk of a scene goes down as she obviously wants to be there and so the dancers are more likely to come up and offer dances.
As a couple we find that when it goes good - it is about as much fun as we can have, but there are times that it can also be frustrating. We find it is harder to get the girls to come to us. We tip and ask for them and sometimes they come, sometimes they don't. The touching depends as always on the girl, but generally is limited to touching Mrs. MN_Couple when it happens (with a few delightful exceptions). Of course this is by no means bad - especially for Mrs. MN_Couple, but we like both getting pleased.
It was very insightful and while we may try going alone again in the future, it isn't what we really want. Meaning that we will have to continue to find favorites and earn the girl's trust to show them that we are not a couple that is going to flip out if they get more intimate with us as a couple. There were a couple girls during Mrs. MN_Couple's visit that we are going to try to get to know better (or at least give more money to) during our next visit. Our hope is that with the experience that she enjoyed their much more intimate dances alone and with telling them exactly what we are looking for that that will lead to a bit more fun going forward.
Overall we both had a lot of fun going by ourselves to the clubs. We both came back with lots of stories to share and led to lots of very hot sex later. Having said that we both get turned on not just hearing the stories later, but seeing it happen too. There is nothing so hot as seeing another woman climbing onto Mr. MN_Couple's lap and grinding as Mrs. MN_Couple watches or in seeing the girls running their hands all over Mrs. MN_Couple's body and allowing themselves to be touched as Mr. MN_Couple watches. So going as a couple won't change, but it was very cool seeing it from a different perspective.
Mr. and Mrs. MN_Couple
As a former Strip club employee. I found that the wives have had as much or more fun than there husbands