Strip Clubs Visits: Couples vs Individuals
So we decided to try to understand the differences in going to SC as a couple vs. individually. What we found is that we both had an easier time attracting attention alone than we did as a couple going. Although going as a couple allows us to have the experience together which makes it that much hotter, the ability to interact with the girls individually got both of us extremely hot and bothered and has made for some very hot nights together later.
So he went to a club in Atlanta by himself during a business trip there and found that where as a couple we had to actively pursue girls and request that they come see us (and even then never had that be a sure thing), as a single guy he had none of these issues. In fact there were girls coming over that he had to send away more than once. The dances he got were much more intimate, than those we typically get as a couple. Lots more touching and lots of grinding. Zippers were pulled and hands were used that don't happen as much going as a couple - at least not together. Of course this really didn't surprise us, we expected that as strip clubs are male customer dominated, that this would happen.
But when she went to a club in Minnesota by herself, she found that while she may not have been beating the girls off, she also didn't find it necessary to be chasing the girls. They were coming to her freely and offering dances. Usually as a couple the girls concentrate on her much more than him anyways, but on the night that she went alone, the level of touching and intimacy of the dances went up considerably as well. As a couple, most girls touch and rub her boobs - but alone, they were investigating what lay under her bra more thoroughly and even using their mouths to explore. It was by far one of the hottest times she has had in a club yet. Going into that night, we didn't know how the girls would react, but in hindsight we should have realized that with a single girl in the club, the risk of a scene goes down as she obviously wants to be there and so the dancers are more likely to come up and offer dances.
As a couple we find that when it goes good - it is about as much fun as we can have, but there are times that it can also be frustrating. We find it is harder to get the girls to come to us. We tip and ask for them and sometimes they come, sometimes they don't. The touching depends as always on the girl, but generally is limited to touching Mrs. MN_Couple when it happens (with a few delightful exceptions). Of course this is by no means bad - especially for Mrs. MN_Couple, but we like both getting pleased.
It was very insightful and while we may try going alone again in the future, it isn't what we really want. Meaning that we will have to continue to find favorites and earn the girl's trust to show them that we are not a couple that is going to flip out if they get more intimate with us as a couple. There were a couple girls during Mrs. MN_Couple's visit that we are going to try to get to know better (or at least give more money to) during our next visit. Our hope is that with the experience that she enjoyed their much more intimate dances alone and with telling them exactly what we are looking for that that will lead to a bit more fun going forward.
Overall we both had a lot of fun going by ourselves to the clubs. We both came back with lots of stories to share and led to lots of very hot sex later. Having said that we both get turned on not just hearing the stories later, but seeing it happen too. There is nothing so hot as seeing another woman climbing onto Mr. MN_Couple's lap and grinding as Mrs. MN_Couple watches or in seeing the girls running their hands all over Mrs. MN_Couple's body and allowing themselves to be touched as Mr. MN_Couple watches. So going as a couple won't change, but it was very cool seeing it from a different perspective.
Mr. and Mrs. MN_Couple
So he went to a club in Atlanta by himself during a business trip there and found that where as a couple we had to actively pursue girls and request that they come see us (and even then never had that be a sure thing), as a single guy he had none of these issues. In fact there were girls coming over that he had to send away more than once. The dances he got were much more intimate, than those we typically get as a couple. Lots more touching and lots of grinding. Zippers were pulled and hands were used that don't happen as much going as a couple - at least not together. Of course this really didn't surprise us, we expected that as strip clubs are male customer dominated, that this would happen.
But when she went to a club in Minnesota by herself, she found that while she may not have been beating the girls off, she also didn't find it necessary to be chasing the girls. They were coming to her freely and offering dances. Usually as a couple the girls concentrate on her much more than him anyways, but on the night that she went alone, the level of touching and intimacy of the dances went up considerably as well. As a couple, most girls touch and rub her boobs - but alone, they were investigating what lay under her bra more thoroughly and even using their mouths to explore. It was by far one of the hottest times she has had in a club yet. Going into that night, we didn't know how the girls would react, but in hindsight we should have realized that with a single girl in the club, the risk of a scene goes down as she obviously wants to be there and so the dancers are more likely to come up and offer dances.
As a couple we find that when it goes good - it is about as much fun as we can have, but there are times that it can also be frustrating. We find it is harder to get the girls to come to us. We tip and ask for them and sometimes they come, sometimes they don't. The touching depends as always on the girl, but generally is limited to touching Mrs. MN_Couple when it happens (with a few delightful exceptions). Of course this is by no means bad - especially for Mrs. MN_Couple, but we like both getting pleased.
It was very insightful and while we may try going alone again in the future, it isn't what we really want. Meaning that we will have to continue to find favorites and earn the girl's trust to show them that we are not a couple that is going to flip out if they get more intimate with us as a couple. There were a couple girls during Mrs. MN_Couple's visit that we are going to try to get to know better (or at least give more money to) during our next visit. Our hope is that with the experience that she enjoyed their much more intimate dances alone and with telling them exactly what we are looking for that that will lead to a bit more fun going forward.
Overall we both had a lot of fun going by ourselves to the clubs. We both came back with lots of stories to share and led to lots of very hot sex later. Having said that we both get turned on not just hearing the stories later, but seeing it happen too. There is nothing so hot as seeing another woman climbing onto Mr. MN_Couple's lap and grinding as Mrs. MN_Couple watches or in seeing the girls running their hands all over Mrs. MN_Couple's body and allowing themselves to be touched as Mr. MN_Couple watches. So going as a couple won't change, but it was very cool seeing it from a different perspective.
Mr. and Mrs. MN_Couple
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My favorite profile that I got from one dancer is that because I'm fat and have a dark complexion, I'm probably in the Mafia.
Didn't know that Fat & Dark Complexion = Mafia.
I could be slotted into a number of "Profiles" by uninformed & VERY short sighted dancers. It would end up costing them a LOT of $$$ should they choose to bypass me based on their erroneous profiling.
All that being said, once the two of us went just us, I have never had a better time. She says that shes loves that she knows I look at other women and yet still choose her. She says it makes her feel even sexier than the way her ex made her feel. We have no problem getting attention because we usually sit at the stage and in plain view of the dancers, I hand her stacks of ones and she tips freely. I think this lets the girls know that we are there to have a good time and that there is no pressure or anything awkward like that.
We do have about 5 clubs in our rotation and by now, they all know us by name. When new girls come that we are interested in, we just ask our bar server to get find out if she is down with couples. Neither of us are very shy and we know that the hotter and more intimate the dances are at the club, the better the sex is back at home that night, sometimes not even making it home first. Now, whenever we go to dinner and have the normal, "so what do you wanna do" conversations, she is the one that talks me into going to the strip clubs. I love that she is comfortable as being bi, as long as she stays 51% straight, I'm all good.
And I definitely have to agree with some of you guys. Good dances = great sex later.
Sure, April Flores and Sierra Skye can make some great porn, but what strip club would hire them?
Does anyone know a place with a bbw night or just a good bbw on staff?
I am definitely not forcing her into anything, but I would want her to have a good time and a bunch of skinny flat girls would entertain me, but bore her. We are in brooklyn, would do a little travel for a good fitting spot.
Interesting stuff... , my wife recently expressed interest in going to a club with me while in Atlantic city. She saw the advertising for scores and felt comfortable with scores being an upscale, unsleazy venue. But when we found scores isnt actually opening til september, contrary to all the adbertising, she was not interested in going elsewhere.