I've been visiting strip clubs for the past couple years. Joined TUSCL this year.
I have said before - if one is lookin for major league entertainment for 2-3 hours - of all the entertainment options - NFL, NBA, NHL, Wrestling, Nascar, extreme sports, opera, broadway, circus - visiting a gentleman's club is the most cost effective - and if you like beautiful women - the most satisfying of the options. In america that is.
Having said that, these are my views of basic types of dancers.
- FLY BY NIGHT: These girls are curious about the money part of strip club business. They think money will just rain in. Also consider stripping a bit below their dignity, generally are in a relationship and view strip club visitors as perverts and losers - only good as walking ATMs. Their dances are poor quality.
Good news is - they don't last long. Sorry if you ever get stuck with one of em.
- NEED THE MONEY: Well everybody needs the money - but some girls really need it - to support family, habits, college or even a deadbeat boyfriend/father of her kids. These girls also recognize customers are an important part of their income plan. Accordingly - they adjust to like different sort of customers, take the time to improve their seduction skills. One can get good bang for the buck.
A large number of dancers belong in this category.
- HOTTIE IN A RELATIONSHIP: These girls are usually hot (7-10). They have 1 sex partner (boys and/or girl) and are content. Making money is good - but dancing is some sort of a stress relief outlet. They are also checking for themselves if they've still got the "mojo" to hypnotize guys. A bit of sexy vanity here (just like guys are bothered about dick size).
Some of these girls have regular day jobs or even model part time. A customer can usually have a surreal experience if he/she can get the dancer's mojo on. But even otherwise - it can be memorable.
- HOTTIE AND A SWINGER: This final category is a rare breed. Also sadly does not last long. These girls are sexy to hot (5-10) - physically - but near 9-10 in overall experience. They may have multiple sex partners (invariably boys and girls) - and love - no, make that LOVE - sex. They view every customer as a potential lover - and with 1000 ways of consummating a love session - the breadth of their likes is impressive. A customer's poor looks don't turn them off - but hygene and cleanliness may. A customers dirty talk or hands flying around her beautiful body is tolerated - but exerting force against her wishes can turn her off immediately. Once such a girl is turned on by a customer - they can get into a sexual trance - that can sweep a customer off his/her feet. All rules are broken - even if for a few moments.
Why do such angels not last long in the strip club business? For one - they are loose with their money. Sex is their thing. They wished they had a money manager. Second - there are lots of freeloaders and parasites out there. These super girls are helping everybody. Lastly - the "down times" for such super-gals can be quite lonely and depressing. They are way ahead of the conservatives in their outlook and thinking. It's lonely out there in the front. These downtimes can be unhealthy.
Of course - when I visit strip clubs - I long for the Category 4 chicas (!!!) - but have honed my skills to quickly spot Category 3 hotties. And only seldom have to settle for Cat 2 - and now always know how to avoid the Cat 1's.
Please share your experience. Of course - I am a sensitive guy and view a dancer as a human first. From some of posters (not all) - I get the impression that it is manly to always view strip club as a "meat for money" mart. Well - your 1-line comments and snide remarks are welcome too !!! Bring em on.
IMO there are 2 categories:
Dancers with an exit strategy and other job skills. They take dancing as a job, are paying off their school loans, car loans, or home loars. HOT STUFF.
No other job skills and therefor no exit stragety. A sad sad situation. Usually also piss they easy money away since they aren't worried about the future. F-ing depressing.