Comments by papides

Looked at some of their links out of boredom. Check out the pawg on the left... https://x.com/scarlettcabaret/status/1368637593181708289

Rather than suppress** ( that may have been a phone typo rather than a parapraxis)

Nice poetry. And nice heroism. ... Also on the psychological level. It might be worth pointing out there's a difference between loneliness and neediness. Meaning we are social animals and everyone gets the sensation of being lonely. But it only becomes an unpleasant or "unbearable" (alcohol inducing situation) when you don't have YOURSELF on your side. That's when you're truly lonely because then you're bereft of your inner self and inner resources. The solution to this is, of course, to learn to lean on your own inner motivations and act from them (rather than suppose and deny them). It's why people say life is adventure ... That is the adventure/journey of getting to find out who you are. Cheers brontosaurus man.

^^^Great point.

@Icey thank you. What about hanging out in front of the stage? Is that universally okay?

Forgot to mention. I don't drink. (Just don't like it.) But clubs tend to have drink minimums right? What are my options there? I feel like I will look like a clown or the club won't like that I'm not buying their expensive drinks? Personally I'd be fine with soda water mixed with lemon juice or perhaps vermouth at the very worst. Thoughts? How do you all handle the buying drinks for girls situation? Only if you like them or already know them?

Maybe they're a paid promotor?