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5 years ago
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CristobalI give in to sin because you have to make this life livable
I saw research that showed real thing increases oxytocin while porn does not, so I think you are really having a very different experience biochemically.
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5 years ago
In the very least the culture of throwing bills on stage will probably never go away, as it's too ingrained in our media, and is part of the experience. So to at least that degree, they will need to keep accepting $1s. They will probably want to continue accepting cash in general because they know their customers don't want a record of it, so the competitive economy will stop it, because any club that forces you to use a card will lose customers.
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5 years ago
I wouldn't say sad, but definitely when I need a distraction from boredom and a feeling of general unsatisfactoriness or loneliness. I do generally come out feeling better for a few days, but it's probably a crutch, and I probably need to address something underlying for the long run.
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5 years ago
It's tough to know how to respond. In most clubs, no matter how much rapport you build up, they will still treat you superficially like an atm. Even worse, because they will try to extract as much money that night as possible, instead of playing the long game. I have met dancers in vegas that are real, in that they were themselves and we became friends, even OTC, but almost everywhere else, they decided to never let it become anything other than transactional, and I've never been able to crack it. Bottom line, if he behavior patterns are unappealing, find someone else, because she has probably already gone into transaction mode.