Comments by Winterblack

I’ve found being “nice” gets me a lot of perks. Free dances, Itc drinks, hang out with staff after close, invited to parties etc. each their own.

Always ask what you can and can’t do? Sexual assault is the same no matter what the girls profession. Strippers are just people (maybe a bit more fucked up) with the same issues as all of us. Would you want someone coming into your job and groping you without consent all the time? I mean as a guy i wouldnt think that so bad, but what if the person revolted your was a gnarly smelly asshat? A big troll of a dude that you couldn’t stand and always grabbed your junk when saying hello and leaned in so you could retch because they smelled like death? I’ve always found being polite and nice got me farther in clubs than being a jerk. The girls talk when in the back and will not hesitate to tell others to stay away from you because you are hands-y or rude. I’ve seen many a friend be a dick because they thought they could act that way and they were not invited to any after closing parties.

I’ve found it’s usually because they want to pay rent (if they have it) quickly and get a better deal than shitty 20$ dances. They can make money faster in less time and thus either leave early or if on a roll get that sweet cash for bills etc. and maybe take a day off.

I’m polite to a fault which is why i was asking for experiences or advice on this particular girl. I hate being an ass and generally have found that looking nice ( dressed way up - hey they dress down for us. The least we can do is be well groomed for them) being nice but firm and having manners gets you a long way. I’ve had plenty of otc and Itc before from various places around the world. But any information is helpful especially when you like someone and don’t want to offen them or upset them by saying the wrong thing. And if one is trying to be a regular for someone i always make sure that I’m not completely viewed as a bank account. I know that’s part of the deal since we are paying for the attention, but it makes thing so much easier when they genuinely like you. Again thank you all for the tips, info, and generally warm welcome to the forums. Anytime you’re in Seattle feel free to pm me and I’ll show you around and introduce you to some dancers that I’m friends with. ( not from lds)

Noticed yes. But some conversations have been very pleasant.

Thanks all, I’ll just wing it and use my experience from other places to figure it out. I know new to board and all that. I’ll try and just share some of my experiences from the last 8 or so years first and get to know people on here. (Yes she still works there for now). Again thank you for all the messages and conversations. Hope for many more in the future!!

Again if people have particular experiences with said dancer or even the club I’m open to just private messages. The ones I’ve had have been helpful to a point. I’m more than happy to share my 10+ years experience around the world for clubs etc. thank you all for the responses and glad to have found this place (recommended by a dancer no less) to share stories and have discussions with like minded individuals. Happy hunting.

Again more of asking about a particular dancer so i don’t get my head caved in rather than how to go about asking for things. Not a newbie for clubs. Newbie on this board yes. And if i need to drop some stories or reviews i can totally do that. There. was Amsterdam, Kiev, Russia, Germany etc.

To alleviate some fears. At deja vu lip location I’ve known the manager there for years, met Ariel when she just started, Penelope, Logan, and a few others that all were regulars when i would stop in. Usually mon-wed. I also know Bo and car**^ who worked Sunday through tuesdays. Also old school dancer Tiger who doesn’t work there anymore was a friend of mine.

I did a review to get access to other reviews. Yes I’m new to the board but have been an active regular at several places around Seattle. Go to the lfp deja vu or lds and ask about “the 3 piece suit” and generally they know who i am. Names Ian if that helps. Not vice, just found a board with like minded peeps and a community i didn’t know about until recently.

Quite the feat @jackslash since I’m looking at her right now from afar in a bar.

Awww. Lame. I’ve been out of there for at least a year. But thought she was still there. Explains why I haven’t seen her in a long time.