Talking is free. The only way to score me as a regular is if you will talk for free. With that said, if I'm enjoying your company and I can tell the club is busy and you'd be making money with someone else, I will probably tip you quite well for hanging out with me and not pestering me for money. My wife and I have tipped a girl over $100 + drinks just for chilling with us for a couple hours, and when one of her regulars came in she would let us know, go give a dance or two, then come back. Keep in mind this is a $10/dance club. Our tips for good company are completely voluntary. If the girl asked for or demanded a tip for small talk, we wouldn't go see her again.
Some girls don't get this. They think if a guy isn't buying a dance within 2 minutes, then he is a waste of time. Sure, some guys are a waste of time. But don't burn any bridges by assuming something. If you approach a guy, be willing to spend a long while chatting with him. Don't hesitate to leave and come back, just make sure you let him know why you're leaving and that you are coming back. Leave something there so that he knows you are coming back, and so the other girls know it too. And ALWAYS come back, and in a reasonable amount of time.
Another thing you can do is ask a guy what he likes. You may not be his type, but if you get him hooked up with someone he does like, then you are quite likely to get tipped for playing the middleman (err, middlegirl). Plus, unless your coworkers are total bitches, they might do the same for you.
The clubs I go to are in Kansas. Generally, the house rules are: 1) you can touch anything that isn't covered, and 2) keep your mouth off the girls. There is also the implied rule that if a girl says "no," then you better stop or you'll get your ass kicked before they throw you out of the club.
At my fav club, I know the girls are regularly lectured about prostitution, and what amounts to prostitution is posted on the wall in their dressing rooms. There are two clubs in the area with a rep for allowing everything up to and including FS ITC, but I haven't been to them (for other reasons). The rest of the clubs, including my fav, have a rep for not allowing much of anything.
Of course, I know FS OTC is happening even at my fav b/c girls are regularly getting fired for it when they get caught.
I guess my question is that if it isn't illegal, why prohibit it? Let the girls make the call and/or monetize it like the clubs do with bikini/topless/nude dances at different VIP levels. That is also why I'm wondering if it is legal to begin with.
And yeah, I know the whole "between consenting adults" argument, but if it is illegal, there is still a chance you can get fucked over.
As jayhawker pointed out, this review is not accurate. Paradise has always been $10 for full contact floor dances (for at least 10 years). The VIP is only a few years old and introduced $20 dances. Unless a specific dancer is trying to screw you over, no one would say a dance is $40. Management has been known to kick dancers out for over quoting the price. Mixed drinks are occasionally weak, but all drinks are very affordable here compared to other strip clubs. There are occasionally cheaper drinks at the bars on Mass, but you don't get to see tits there.
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