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6 years ago
Reggae = sexually explicit music highlighting prowess, lust and bravado that women love moving there waists to and are expecting a hard penis and gyrating hips to partner with....
The videos speak volumes
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6 years ago
@Ihearvoices Checkout The Hangar in Miami. Never too late
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6 years ago
I've blown thousands in one night at SC. Fun experience but I find it interesting applying the same approach in regular night clubs. In fact, some women expect offers for drinks if they dance. They are no different than the aggressive stripper that jumps in your lap and has a conversation for 20 seconds and demands you pay $40
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7 years ago
LDK happens all the time for me and I've perfected it with civvies as well - ie no need for strip clubs unless in need of a nut without a quality party within two weeks.
I tip the rest of my hand. If I come in with $100, and I finish in 3 dances, I tip the rest. I could finish in 1 dance but I use the first to warm, second to tease. Third to finish
And aside from my death grip on the hips, tock hard erection and tremble on release, theres no wetspot as I put the rain coat on in advance which is the only way girls actually kmow if someone has nutted.
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8 years ago
Samsung- Same happened to me which is why Im starting early this season. Gameday 99 and Madden 2000 were the best.
Juice - 2K was only solid for NBA to me
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8 years ago
It just reset last week. Everyone is restarting clean slate
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8 years ago
I was skeptical as I am with most phone games, but they may killed the demand for PS4 and XBox with this. Plus it's a free download and you can play anywhere.
I have a league of 32 online players that play everyday
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8 years ago
It's PHENOMENAL!!!!!!
And I've been on Madden since 92 with the Sega. It's addictive and you play online with others.
#Death to traditional game consoles
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8 years ago
Whelp this was fun
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8 years ago
@SanJoseGay- Whatever floats the boat. Im sure his wife clearly understands why he pays to say hi to an attractive woman. One could deduct what that implies about history wife's voice, appearance or ability to speak. But i digress and embrace my pathetic life of humping chicks and reserving all other sexual activity for my s/o.
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8 years ago
@SJG - Read the transcript at first usage of the word "pathetic". You attempted to turn a theoretical concept into a personal attack yet only outed yourself.
You came from left field calling LDK pathetic but struggled to articulate your usage of strip clubs (only going with your wife, paying for conversations, paying for AMP, etc).
The topic is simply: can a silent strip club work for your SC needs.
Thats it.
I am guilty of comparing night clubs to strip clubs, civvies to strippers, and challenging TUSCLers to apply their SC approach to civvies in night clubs to save money.
No one is a "chump". I stated I COULD call you "pathetic" but everyone has their own needs at SC. But for you to outright call LDK pathetic (a transaction resulting in a nut) while you pay to say hi to Becky is what triggered my tone.
Nevertheless, to you and your wife, enjoy.
Check my history, trolling is not what I do. In fact trolls are exactly why I stick to messaging LDK and avoid discussion boards.
For what it's worth, I'll forgive this exchange and chalk it as a misunderstanding.
Trolls never cease. I'm done acknowledging your presence on TUSCL.
Just another reason I never liked San Jose. Frisco raised, NYC made.
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8 years ago
@IME - I try hard to avoid the troll train but this whole exchange was highly unnecesary. The topic is the theory of a silent strip club, in which SJG could have his paid conversation out of respect and recognition for and women's time by simply removing her headset.
I just want my LDK which is possible so everyone wins.
Everything is just better left alone
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8 years ago
@SJG - I see exactly why you have troll now
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8 years ago
@SJG - you have gulped the Stripper Talk Koolaid. Im in NYC. Strippers here could make it anywhere easily, especially in San Jose. The grind, hustles, sell, tricks, strategies are on peak levels in NYC.
You are Captain Save a Hoe. A White Knight. An ATM. A person with Messiah Complex. Your open heart makes you a cash cow. These women are NOT your dependents. They chose their path. If you dont pay them someone else will.
The fact you've internalized your moral obligation to pay for a conversation with an attractive woman says alot. She's not a lecturer, counselor, professor, nor attorney. She is whatever she needs to be to get your money for as long as you have it.
You dont need to pay for drinks nor for her time. Is she paying you for a conversation? Is she paying for your drinks? If you go for FS after "opening her up" is she not also receiving pleasure? Yet you're still paying....
Again, try your approach with civvies and save yourself some money and have a shot of reality. If you cant chill with them during non work hours without payment, you are being hustled and dont even know it.
How do you go from looking for a conversation to open them up, to a counselor/attorney, to a sex retailer, to now mistress mismanagement????
This is why I asked specifically why do you go to strip clubs? I went for a guaranteed LDK then found regular parties to be more cost efficient and natural. But paying for a mistress in a SC....yet claiming you "only go as a couple with your wife".....
Strip clubs are designed for variety, newness, fresh meat. You already have a wife. Why pay for GFE when one night stand experience is right there.
Newsflash, she's not your mistress, she's your pimp. You go to work and she gets a portiom of your hard earned cash....
Whose marriage has a problem? My s/o knows fully what I do, when I do it, why I to it. And endorses it because 'it's just dancing in her eyes'. Yet you're playing sugar daddy for a conversation....
SJG, I think you should worry more about your troll. LDK is the only reason im still on this site
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8 years ago
@LDK - The only advantage of not serving alcohol is if the SC attracts a college crowd 18-24. It's not really a nudity vs alcohol debate.
Nevertheless, the thrills of the kill (LDK) is ripping off their clothes or it sliding to the left. Visuals aides and props.
We differ on the price of an LDK in a SC. Yet we bothers value it above masturbation and as such should be priced there as well. Especially now with my staple Reggae nightclub, I find less purpose in paying for an LDK.
$30 at a nightclub with $5 shots with a civvie could lead to FS.
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8 years ago
@Dominic77 - The evolution is inevitable. It's not just about volume. Space utilization, optimization, product/service expansion and differentiation, building ordinances etc are impacted by this epidemic. Not all clubs are the same. My SC doesnt have back rooms. Money is made on stages and booths. Some SCs are dives or former theatres in which money is made in the back room instead.
Such hole in the walls could benefit by pulling in more business (think sports bar with naked women that can be taken to a back room). For spaces that are full nude, with silent head phones such venues could be closer placed to restaurants with full bars. Thus business collaboration. Theres always loopholes, and now there are more.
For larger SC, using silent headphones diversifies music offerings for multiple girls on stages at a time. Back rooms could be used for conversation (removing headphones) as a club policy to speak with dancers so now theres a price for conversation. Many ways to spin it.
A silent club is a step closer to organically unleashing inner inhibitions.
As per the nudity vs alcohol debate, SC without alcohol are missing out on business. As a visual stimulated person, a naked body is boring. A nude color Gstring or see through bikinis intrigued the imagination more. Its easier to find loopholes in clothes than it is with alcohol. You can pay for nudity. But alcohol helps facilitate more spending than naked bodies
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8 years ago
@SJG- I am in fact making generalizations, though not all directly applicable to you. LapDanceKing82 and I endure the same plight when it comes to many TUSCLers viewing LDK as pathetic while they spend excessively on GFE and FS in SC or OTC or AMP.
LDK is a fetish. Consensual frotteurism laced with exhibitionism. To avoid being registered sex offenders, deviants or jail time, LDK in appropriate settings satiates the greater urges.
We both have s/o. LapDanceKing is married with a child. Our s/o are active participants in our appetites. It's safe, sexual interactions with others free of drama, disease, and paternity. Hence why we primarily seek civvies of the same mind.
Strippers arent your friends nor confidantes. I could call that pathetic but that is your core need. My need is a safe nut with minimal conversation. It's a transaction. Respect end recognition could be exchanging contact informatiom and conversing outside of business hours. But if you're spending money 80% of times you interact, you are a victim of classic stripper talk.
I've been a victim of it too. I prefer strippers who act like civvies. Buying their own drinks, and dancing on my dick just because they like the song and find me attractive. There's no panhandling and even when money is passed, theres no counting. It's just thrown in the bag. But it's not something I verbalize, but thats my litmus for CF.
Same applies to civvies. If while dancing she reaches for my dick or puts my hands between her legs, it's just her in the zone. I like civvies acting like strippers and strippers acting like civvies. I now treat strippers like civvies, and civvies like strippers. It shakes the tree so Im left with the freaks.
With AMP, I understand paying for a legitimate massage, but if the extra needs anything more than permission than it's a hustle. I personally cant pay for anything beyond an LDK, because I philosophically feel that they should be paying me for them to suck my dick or ride my dick. Thats why I see payment as pathetic. And have also divested in SC outings
A slow night at a SC is the best time to talk. At my SC they only pay if they are in your lap. Everything else is a tip. Every club is different, so again not calling you pathetic.
My SC also has no private rooms so everything is out in the open with high friction and touching.
I completely agree with the friends with benefits dynamic, but philosophically disagree with the price tag. Again, civvies in NYC look better than strippers in most cities.
Interactions with other women in my case are purely a physical transaction (LDK). My s/o understands and embraces my lifestyle. The anonymity, no strings and discretion are her wishes provided everything stays at just an LDK. There are no conversations, contact info exchange or even eye contact in most instances grind and go.
Any marriage counselor is fundamentally a mediator. But when transparent communication and empathy are tools of the foundation of the bond with a s/o, you dont need a marriage counselor nor a divorce lawyer.
Your notions of "pathetic" are moot as you arent my s/o.
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8 years ago
@LDK - It will be new owners breaking into the market and owners of struggling clubs rebranding.
Silent events are the wave
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8 years ago
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ReJOJR-DImU
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8 years ago
@SJG -You're also in a unique with your needs from a SC. You seem more like the watch games at the bar type so the headphones wouldnt apply to you.
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8 years ago
@SJG - what is your purpose for strip clubs (The bar, the food, the hookah, the visual of naked women, the physical interaction)? It'll provide more context as I've stated my purpose.
Marriage doesnt mean another woman cant make your dick hard. LDK is my in-between of a new sex partner without actual sex. My s/o understands my exhibitionist appetite, frotteuristic needs and preference for newness so this is a consensual compromise.
My theory on LDK is why masturbate when theres a perfectly willing stranger happy to grind on my dick til I bust and the process can happen without sneaking off to a corner, paying for a hotel, or even having a conversation. The sane exact transaction as10 lap dances I'm a strip club without the price tag.
Have you experienced a caribbean silent club?
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8 years ago
@mikeya02- A decade long fad that is internationally embraced and taking over outdoor, rooftop, cruises, and backyard parties????
3D movies may not have taken off, but higher definition and surround sound have. Yet the market is driven by upgrades to bigger and louder speakers.
Before cell phones, there were pay phones. Early attempts at cell phones were large and a hassle. But overtime, the craft was perfected. These silent headphones/events will be the same way in another 10 years.
Watch the trends
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8 years ago
@SJG - It's evolution. If you want music blasting in your ears the whole time, that option is not being eliminated. Thats the beauty of the phenomenon. The status quo is preserved but more options are provided.
The music is still playing, optionscare expanded. So perhaps are sectioned is designated for private talk. Again nothing is being eliminated except oversized speakers and amplifiers.
As stated on various occasions, LDK is a substitute for masturbation and satiates exhbitionism without a prison sentence. Not to mention you're paying for sex which is pathetic. Im merely having a hot stranger grind on my dick til I bust for no other reason than she finding me attractive. If I elected, I could bag the number fuck later.
Every dollar you spend in a strip club is for something a civvie would do. I can do everything in a regular club with civvies that you can do in a strip club. Only difference is mine is free and Im willing to bet the selection in San Jose doesnt contend with NYC in the slightest.
I enjoy strip clubs before 9pm because it's a time efficient transaction. However, I can facilitate the same Quality interaction in a regular night club, then I'll do for the newness and freeness.
Respect and care for a stripper????? Epitomizes pathetic. It's systemically desgned to be a Fantasy with no strings. A selfish transaction. You're here catching feelings on a chick that is there til your dollars are gone.
The beauty of stepping into regular nightclubs and persuading civvies to do the same shit as strippes is thatand you remember laws of attraction. Money is what attracts a stripper because it's business transaction. Charm and sex appeal are what keeps girls around. If you posses charm and appeal, a stripper will flock to you on a slow night just because.
If the only way you can maintain a female's attention is with money, then you have embodied the essence of PL
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8 years ago
Gotta love Ying Yang Twins ....hanh
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8 years ago
@LDK - It's the truth
The silent headphones wouldnt eliminate the DJ. It would actiually add more DJs since they are playinh simultaneously. The silence allows the bar to thrive for game watchers so expenses can come down because the revenue streams are diversified.