Comments by Excalibur205

Quite frankly what some of you find as a mood killer I find as a turn on. For example, when a girl tells me she's wanting to do something else with her life, like going to school. Or if she can have a real discussion with me about real topics and not just say a couple sentences and talk about money and dances like a machine.

By the way CNN is no where near as biased as MSNBC and FOX come on now lol.

I know that it's a fantasy but some guys do like honesty and that goes into the decision of who they give the money. Not only that, but as crazy as it sounds, some of these lonely guys like to feel like they are helping the girls even at just a minimal level it makes them feel good about themselves and hopefully the girl feel good too. and I know it might be lies, but when a girl tells me she's ambitious and trying to better her life it makes me want to be with her even more.

I honestly over time have thought that women like to feel "motherly" to their boyfriends or men. While there are a LOT of great single men who make a living, go to school to further there lives, are ambitious, and girls aren't interested in them. I don't understand it but I've seen it happen at a high enough volume of times to make that assumption. SOME girls like guys that LOOK big and smart and tough but when it comes down to it they aren't.

The first time I ever saw a girl with her top off or nude was at a strip club, I'm too shy to ask any girl in the real world for sex since I'm still a virgin lol I try very hard to be polite and responsible.

All I can say is that as a single man who has tried in vain to get into a real, committed relationship who only wants female companionship, it's a nice stress reliever when my life is consumed with work, school, and other things. Just because men go there doesn't mean we are bad, and just because women dance there doesn't mean they are all bad either. I'm willing to pay for intimate female companionship when I cannot get it any other way. It's a fair, legal, and honest way of getting that companionship too.

I just think there are a lot of lazy guys out there, but a rare few have the pride to take care of themselves. If we expect women in these clubs to want to be around us, we should look and smell nice as well, even if we're not genetically gifted to have good looks.

So I guess I shouldn't feel guilty for enjoying going to a strip club? I mean, I'm single I certainly wouldn't go if I were in a committed relationship. I just didn't want to go my whole life without seeing a naked woman lol I don't really think that's a seriously bad thing.