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14 years ago
this is a funny thread. btw what is scl?
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14 years ago
I used to live in Orlando. All the clubs in o-town are strictly pasty clubs (waste of money imo). I havent been to any of the clubs in Tampa but I've heard good things.
I suggest you take a trip down to cocoa beach. I don't recommend Lidos though. i went there once and was not too impressed. if you drive a couple blocks south of lido's i recommend you stop at cheaters. the girls at cheaters are much better and so is the mileage.
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14 years ago
UPDATE:
Got a call from her yesterday. Basically called me up to tell me she was thinking about me and missed me. This was the first time I ever talked to her on the phone but again, like I've said previously, our conversation was always good so talking to her on the phone was not awkward by any means. She asked me when I was coming into town again (should be in the next 3 weeks) and asked me if I wanted to go to the beach. I figure going to the beach is a good middle ground to feel her out and see what she's like outside of the club. Plus, I used to surf a lot (something she wants to try) so this coincides with my interests.
This should be a lot of fun, she seems like a cool chick to hang out with. I'll keep everyone updated and also try to snap some pics for the pervs :P
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14 years ago
@steve229
- Haven't lived a sheltered life by any means. I've been in numerous long-term relationships, but for the first time in my life, since 16, find myself single and intrigued by SC's. Hence the reason I decided to check out a SC. Just been sort of lonely lately and was looking for something different then the bar scene. :)
@georgmicrodong
- I live GA and the club I went to was in FL. I come through FL once a month, give or take a few weeks, for business. I guess I just over thought the breakfast invite. Not sure what I was really thinking, going to public place with her shouldn't be a problem. Was just a bit paranoid I suppose. Next time I go in to the club (maybe in like 3 or 4 weeks) if she invites me out to Breakfast again I'll take her up on her offer and see where it goes from there. If things go well I'll invite her back to my room and take it from there. Wouldn't mind having a fuck buddy in FL.
@Timbuck12
- The typical girls I attract and hook up with tend to be quite attractive (range between 7's - 10's in my opinion). Yea the comment about not needing to spend money to hang out with her and the whole out of the club talk sort of threw me for a loop. Wasn't aware that people met with dancers outside of the club. But I'll take her up on her offer next time I'm in town and take it from there. You hit the nail on the head with the whole not dating customers comment. She said something to that effect but told me she was interested in getting to know me outside the club. Also, I definitely don't give off a Cash-cow vibe and I think she realizes that. I haven't spent much on her, don't wear anything really flashy, and was even honest with her when asked about my career (told her I've only been out of college for a year and employed for six months, all of which is true).
Thanks everyone for the solid advice. I'll keep everyone updated as things progress.
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14 years ago
She so far has not been pushy at all about dances. Last time I was in I maybe paid for 3 dances from her but ended up getting around 7.
I watched her interact with a few other dudes the last time I was in (my 2nd time in a SC, it was a Fri night). She approached them, talked to them for like 3 minutes tops, then took them for dances. Each time she was done she came back and hung out with me for 45 minutes to an hour, again not pushing for any dances.
Just sort of stand-offish considering like "troop" said, it is there job to tease guys and separate them from their money. She is however very direct about wanting to hang out outside of the club. She wanted to go out for breakfast last time I was in but I declined considering I'm still worried about alterer motives or the possibility of being setup for robber. Maybe I'm just over thinking this but like I said I'm new to the SC scene.
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14 years ago
I'm going to have to agree with what you all of have said so far. I'm worried that if I show up I'm going to to get robbed or jumped and I'm definitely not interested in being someone's personnel walking talking ATM machine. Just thought she might be into me and not my wallet (not that I even spent much on her).
Sorta lonely, just got out of a 4 year relationship...
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14 years ago
Maybe try contacts. I used to wear glasses and switched over to contacts. You can see a lot better with contacts (no blind spots) and I'm sure you'll get better mileage.