discussion comment
16 years ago
Just asking the question "is it worth it?" probably means you're getting bored with this dancer and you want to move on. Variety is the spice of life. Try another club for a few weeks or split your time with her and another dancer.
discussion comment
16 years ago
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
"...a bit salty." "...she continued to giggle."
She's giggling because her boyfriend shot his load in her before she left for work.
ROTFLMAO!
discussion comment
16 years ago
It could be that you're getting real close with her and deep down you don't want to be committed to her. Either you fear commitment in general or you don't want to be committed to her. You get off with cheap whores because there's no commitment there.
I've had this happen before in a way. I would cum but it would take me forever. This would happen with women who I just wanted to fuck, but they started to push me towards more of a commitment that I didn't want. As we grew closer, I "withheld" more affection from her. When this starts happening, the relationship starts to fall apart.
discussion comment
16 years ago
I'd try to discourage her; tell her about what goes on in the SCs (drugs, drinking, prostitution, etc.). Then, she'll probably ignore your advice and do it anyway, but I'd at least warn her.
If it's a relative or a good friend's relative, I'd scream to the mountain tops about the pitfalls of dancing.
discussion comment
16 years ago
In the SC, you're essentially paying for affection/intimacy just like you'd pay for sex.
It's forced affection by the dancer, but it's still a form of affection. This "affection" from the dancer is real in the sense that it emotionally drains the dancer the same way as if it were real. Customers always say it's fake, but forced is more accurate.
Dancers always talk about how they're emotional and physically drained by their customers. The affection is still real, it's just that it's forced. If these affections were totally fake, then the dancer wouldn't become drained by it.
So, to you, it feels real, and in a way, it is real, it's just that it's forced or sold to you for money, just like sex would be. The more you spend, the more the dancer will sell you emotional intimacy.