discussion comment
18 years ago
In my experience, females that attend strip clubs come in 3 groups...
1. The couple. The female comes in with a guy, and lets him take care of the tipping.
2. The friends. A few females will come in together, are generally bi or lesbian-oriented and will both throw down money and have a good time.
discussion comment
18 years ago
ahhh submitted before i was done....
the third group is the girls who come in big groups with guys, usually bringing a "party" along to the stage. These can be rather intimidating, because only a few of the large grioup will feel like they should throw money, and the majority will just sit and watch.
I'm not stereotyping here, I am just sharing what I have seen as a dancer.
discussion comment
18 years ago
It seems to me, the majority of guys who ask to see me outside of work are looking for more then just a platonic friendship.
As a dancer, you get so many guys, everyday, saying how good they can treat you, trying to "save" you, or my personal favorite, "i just want to get to know you better" etc. etc. I always tell my customers that they can get to know me better at work, because honestly, I don't know you, you don't know me, and its really not safe these days to just take off and chill with a random guy (who is usually drinking) from work.
Sure, you can be friends with a dancer who doesn't want to go out with you after work. Respect her lines.
discussion comment
18 years ago
Not sure if I should be answering this or just letting you boys continue arguing back and forth...but personally, I don't think about what the customer looks like one way or the other. If giving a lapdance is my job, then i'm going to do it the best that i can, regardless to them. Now, if they aren't tipping at all, or are making me uncomfortable, then it may be different.
And i don't do extras. period. its not worth it to me.