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I agree with SC . More that it elevates the expectations. If you're not doing a VIP you're "cheap". The tales of spending ( $ 500 cash as a birthday present) and $1000 in VIP for someone she saw one weekend 6 months ago is difficult to compete with. Good for the girls bS for the customer.

Interesting thread. Happened to me a few months ago. Latest ATF is with me on the dance floor going to the "reserved section" and a guy comes up and she tells him she'll get to him when she's done with me.We go up and We're just talking in prep for some laps when he comes up grabs her arm and says he'll bring her right back. Takes her to the VIP for 1 1/2 hrs. Waited 45 min and left pissed. She emailed me the following day very sorry and promised she'd make it up to me the next time I came in and she did! Bottom line:Very rude behavior and you may be "their favorite" but they're there to make money. Get over it. Not worth fighting over it. Let her make it up to you next time . You'll end up ahead

I agree with gk. Having been on both sides of the regular fence I will ask for a dance and if its someone I know I'll wait 30-45 min(there are other things to do). If its someone I don't know but asked and they go sit with a regular: 10 min. I never understood that if you have people waiting to dance with you why you won't "move your regular along"i.e. "Lets dance now I've got someone waiting." It can be done nicely and the new guy may be someone with money/potential new regular.

Thanks for the help just curious how of ten it happened top others. Clubber I agree and have always been supportive of her making money. It was just strange since I had told her we'd dance again just before the other guy showed up. Steve Never was in a funk. Just tipped some of the girls on stage talked to a couple of waitresses then left. All others. I would never get in a fight or verbal confrontation. Too old. Lifes too short. I've had multiple ATFs over the last 10 years(is it still an ATF?) I get to know someone over a few months (usually pick the most attractive girl and has to have a personality/brains) and visit several clubs at home and at my second home so may be two ATFs at a time at different clubs. Usually get preferential treatment but understand its a business. Maybe I need to lower my standards? Ah no. Interesting she emailed me an apology today saying she thought the guy only wanted 1 dance but ended up with her for 1 1/2hrs in the VIP and was sorry she couldn't get back to me. She apparently had talked to him early but then was busy with another custie then me and he'd waited about 1 1/2 hrs for her!! Anyway thanks again always enjoy the banter but usually not an active party.

Tanga closed for about 5 years. Mons has beautiful women but small place all in open. Don't expect any conversation. Ybor Strip still my favorite but fewer 8s and 9s. More like old time clubs. Private booths $10 and they'll sit and talk. Good luck.