Comments by dddchick

I have to say I think it's 90% of a mans fantasy to see his SO with another woman. It took my husband 10 years to get me to go to one. We talked about our boundries and that I would be - I guess you could say in charge of how far things went. My husband knew going in, it may or may not work to his advantage. However, There is not much more that turns him on than sitting next to me while I'm making out with another woman. I'm very lucky because my husband doesn't mind if I'm the one who gets all the action. He only gets the action from me. We've had some great times in Philly and South Carolina clubs, I think the dancers and I have given more of a show for the others in the room too.One of the last clubs we went to I think the guy accross from us paid more attention to the dancer I was with and me , than the dancer he was getting a dance from (lol). I always just make sure That my husband is taken care of in every way when we get back to the hotel. I also learned to talk to some of the dancers to find out who likes dancing for other women this way I know, because theres nothing worse than getting into a room and halfway thru the dance the girl is making her way onto him instead of me, because she just wanted the $$$ for the dance We've walked out on 1 -2 dancers who did this and not tipped them. We are completely up front as a couple when we ask for a dance. I don't like being scammed, and I play games, so I don't like it when they do. I'm paying good money for good dance so I don't have to put up with it either is the way I look at it. P.S. Bones never let um leave ya High and DRY! especially if they got all the action!

I'm on the east coast , NJ. We've been to a few clubs in the Philly Area. One of our Faves is Club Risque (on Delaware Ave), The girls are really nice (most anyway), and friendly towards women. We went 2 doors down to Show n Tel but it was nasty. Total meat market, Guys screaming ,yelling and chanting throwing balled up dollar bills at the dancers crotches like it was a boardwalk game! We went down to South Carolina and went to Platnum Plus in Columbia had a great time there too.

Hey Duchess, I another female friendly club goer! I too go with my husband. What Clubs have you been too that you liked and disliked??

I don't know any in CT but Club Risque in Philly is great for couples. Flashdancers in NYC is pretty good too. In South Carolina Platnum Plus in Columbia is good too.

It deffinately depends on the dancer and the club. My husband and I went to a club several weeks ago and the girl we go a private dance from had pulled two other girls up on stage that were there with their husbands and brought them into the dance/show a little bit, and she walked away with $300 just for that 5 minute spotlight. The guys in the club were throwing money at her!

I would just like to say I love going to the strip club with my husband. I enjoy getting lap dances from beautiful women.I had never done anything like this before. I enjoy giving my husband a real life fantasy. The great thing about the strip club envirionment is that it has it's limits. We talked about the limits for ourselves as well ahead of time. This way I didn't have to get pissed at the dancer for doing her job . When we get private dances we talk to the dancer about the type of dance we want this way theres no problems . I did have a dancer who definately pushed my buttons puposely so we got up, left the room and didn't tip her. As for the dancers making less money thats far from the truth. We spend more than the average customer because we have to pay " per person", therefore if your ld costs $30 ours is $60. As far as citiqueing dancers, I would never say to my husband "did you see the rack on that bitch", "I would love to nail her everywhich way" or my favorite "now thats a nice piece of ass" all of which I have heard many times out of the mouths of men standing around me. I scope out the women I feel are my type just like any man looks to find his type. In fact my type have to be interested in women as well, so at times it's a bit harder. But I don't go looking for trouble and I enjoy talking to the girls as well. We have our favorites at a club in Philly and wehn we come in she comes right over even just to say hi if she's busy with another customer.

Club Risque on columus ave in Philly is fantastic (and take it from me , I'm the wife!) They will charge you for ""per person" so dances can get expensive. Flashdancers in Nyc isn't bad either. Risque gets a handfull of female clientle with husbands, boyfriends, etc. So you won't feel uncomfortable either. We've read alot of reviews about the Playhouse in Burlington N.J., but haven't been there yet and I'm not sure how couple friendly they are? Good Luck!!!

I did put a review in but I put it under Lace in nyc (topless). You read all about it there .Thanks!