dddchick

I have to say I think it's 90% of a mans fantasy to see his SO with another woman. It took my husband 10 years to get me to go to one. We talked about our boundries and that I would be - I guess you could say in charge of how far things went. My husband knew going in, it may or may not work to his advantage. However, There is not much more that turns him on than sitting next to me while I'm making out with another woman. I'm very lucky because my husband doesn't mind if I'm the one who gets all the action. He only gets the action from me. We've had some great times in Philly and South Carolina clubs, I think the dancers and I have given more of a show for the others in the room too.One of the last clubs we went to I think the guy accross from us paid more attention to the dancer I was with and me , than the dancer he was getting a dance from (lol). I always just make sure That my husband is taken care of in every way when we get back to the hotel. I also learned to talk to some of the dancers to find out who likes dancing for other women this way I know, because theres nothing worse than getting into a room and halfway thru the dance the girl is making her way onto him instead of me, because she just wanted the $$$ for the dance We've walked out on 1 -2 dancers who did this and not tipped them. We are completely up front as a couple when we ask for a dance. I don't like being scammed, and I play games, so I don't like it when they do. I'm paying good money for good dance so I don't have to put up with it either is the way I look at it. P.S. Bones never let um leave ya High and DRY! especially if they got all the action!

I'm on the east coast , NJ. We've been to a few clubs in the Philly Area. One of our Faves is Club Risque (on Delaware Ave), The girls are really nice (most anyway), and friendly towards women. We went 2 doors down to Show n Tel but it was nasty. Total meat market, Guys screaming ,yelling and chanting throwing balled up dollar bills at the dancers crotches like it was a boardwalk game! We went down to South Carolina and went to Platnum Plus in Columbia had a great time there too.

Hey Duchess, I another female friendly club goer! I too go with my husband. What Clubs have you been too that you liked and disliked??

I don't know any in CT but Club Risque in Philly is great for couples. Flashdancers in NYC is pretty good too. In South Carolina Platnum Plus in Columbia is good too.

It deffinately depends on the dancer and the club. My husband and I went to a club several weeks ago and the girl we go a private dance from had pulled two other girls up on stage that were there with their husbands and brought them into the dance/show a little bit, and she walked away with $300 just for that 5 minute spotlight. The guys in the club were throwing money at her!