Comments by Cougar289 (page 3)

dudester - I actually came to the same conclusion that having some separate time might be helpful. I saw her Saturday, but just to say high an give her a couple of things. I was supposed to meet her Sunday, but told her something had come up. We talked today and I will see her at the club on Thursday just for a short while and no sex. We plan on getting together again on Sunday which will end up being close to two weeks since we had sex. I hope that much time will make a difference.

clubman2 - great comment. I have felt that I needed to change the sex up again back to the wild sex compared to the sweet sex we've been having lately. So I have been thinking of things to either talk about or do that lowers her again as just a great ass with the hope of getting sweet again after the sex. Last time I had her rape me but when she got into her tough talk I started laughing and it ruined the whole effect. I feel like I'm attempting to trick my mind to get the desired results. I do believe she is a rare diamond because I've been clubbing for 20 years and never came close to getting emotionally attached and having a relationship.

My experience has been between $125 and $150 for escorts and the OTCs have been between $175 and $200. I generally have a lot better time with the OTC because they normally are more attractive and have better communication skills and I usually have a lot better time with an OTC.

Turtle77 - Although she's frustrated I think she takes it as a knock against her. She says it's her #1 goal to get me to climax. She said if it will turn me on we can have another guy or girl in here to shake things up. Not sure if I'm ready for another guy to join in.

Deogol - You may have hit a key point because I don't trust her and I don't know if I ever could. She's beautiful, fun and sexy, but trust is certainly not high on the list. I never thought about a link between climax and trust. You've given me something to ponder.

Book Guy you difinitely have some serious skills in writing critiques and so if I head down south I’ll need to brush up on your reviews. – good job. I probably should have added the value aspect of what you actually have to pay to get what you want. In ESL you can pretty much get the whole deal between $50 and $100 if you have a clue of what you’re doing. No serious negot skills needed here. I expect that in most locals in the country you can get anything you want if you have the cash, but in ESL it appears to be a poor mans haven for being able to get it all for not too much. Of course at these prices the deal is done inside of 10 minutes and so it is definitely carry out service - no prolonged encounters. Many girls will go out with you to the local inn for $150 - $200.

I'm an old pro and still fell hard and got bit. I actually developed a school boy crush on one recently and brought her flowers for valentines and the whole bit. We had a few great times away from the club (some of the most passionate sex I've had). When ever I came to the club the other dancers would remind me to stay faithful to this one dancer (privates only with her), but in the end it was as stated at the top all business. Very acurate post here is the need to keep it real and not let your ego or imagination get in the way.

Never go after 6 because dancers really fall off. Even afternoons is a trap shoot but you have better odds in the afternoon