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dallas702
Wandering
OK, so now I have a stripper girlfriend. What's next? I stopped in a bikini bar not too many miles from home the other day. It's a bikini bar because local laws prohibit nude and topless dancing where liquor is served. I'm in there because I wanted a beer, not JUST ogle coochie. Before I even have time to order - a hot latina with an east coast accent, a 7, or maybe even an 8, walks up to me in her tiny tube top and barely there G-string. She teases, she talks in complete sentences, and she “accidentally” brushes against me several times. We sit at the bar, continue our conversation over drinks (of course, I bought) and laugh at each other's bad jokes. After a while she convinces me to go in the back for a lap dance (like THAT was difficult!) where she ditches the stripper shoes and the top and forces her all natural tits into my face. There's not much hand action downstairs but it really is a hot LD. After 2 more I call it quits and she very gracefully lets me out of her grasp and after taking my money, with only a $10 tip, she says she'll join me after she gets dressed.

That was pretty much a normal SC experience. But then she did join me at a table, asked me to come to the bar with her when the waitress said her food was ready, and shared her light dinner with me as we talked. A couple of times she mentions that she is really, really, horny and she wants my “bod.” At this point I'm wondering how to let her know, kindly, that I'm not buying any more lappers. Before I can say anything she says she off work soon, like in 10 minutes, but the “last song, wanna dance” line doesn't come. Instead she asks if I would be interested in coming by her place. I say, ”sure!” I'm thinking, “How much does she want for OTC?”

Turns out, what she wanted was good company, and a little bit of fun. Without the details, I had a lot of fun for a few hours, paid nothing, promised very little, and I really do want to see her again – which is ALL she asked of me. Honestly, that's never happened to me before. Certainly, I've picked up women in bars, and had any number of OTC offers from strippers. But, I've never been picked up by a stripper!

So, I'm wondering, has this ever happened to any of you? If so, did it turn out good? Bad?

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Dudester
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16 years ago
I've been to a lot of clubs. The only time something similar happened was when I clicked with a waitress. She had a major exam in the morning, lived outside of town and my hotel was five minutes from her college. She stayed overnight, but it was platonic.

I've had a couple of friends who were strippers. We had great conversations, but they made sure I never saw them nude (they respected me???).

Your pickup of the girl almost sounds like a letter from Penthouse. You either:

Scored a one in a million girl, or
Scored a nymphomaniac, or
Scored the girlfriend of a guy just tossed in a joint and she's either trying to replace him, or get even with him.

Good luck. I hope y'all have a great time together.
Clubber
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16 years ago
Who cares how others turned out? What matters is what you wish. I say go with the flow and see how it goes, but on your terms.
how
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16 years ago
Only you can judge this lady's sincerity, and even you may misjudge. But from what you wrote, I'd say "Be Thankful." You may have found either a friend with benefits or even a girlfriend if you want that relationship.
jaxman5150
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16 years ago
Buy a lottery ticket or put some money on a number. Sounds like you already hit one jackpot. Maybe you got more luck in ya LOL.
casualguy
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16 years ago
Good luck while it lasts. My luck seems so strange at times I don't know if it's good or bad. With my luck if I had a lot of fun with a girl I just met, the next thing you know she's giving away hints that she wants to spend the rest of her life with you.
SuperDude
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16 years ago
If you want her as a girlfriend, can you handle her giving the same hot LD to other guys? What happens if you get emotionally involved and all she wanted was a one-night stand? Can you keep your perspective or will you lose yourself in what you think is a relationship? Just enjoy the ride, but be careful.
deogol
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16 years ago
Whats next? Prepare for heartache.
lunabird
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16 years ago
I don't quiet understand why a stripper, like myself, is always considered to be out for money. I dated a guy for a really long time while I danced. I never asked for money. We need love too. What you have to realize is that it is a new lifestyle and that you have to have alot of trust in us girls... not all of us are whores, we are dancers not escorts. And if she is a good dancer, she wont need your money. However, some girls are both, you need to find out which she is.

There is no reason this wont work out if she is doing her job the legal way and if you both set up agreeable boundaries. just like in any other relatiobship not involving a stripper.
Clubber
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16 years ago
lunabird,

I don't know a single soul that works in any field that isn't "out for money." Many years ago humans bartered for what they needed. Now, we trade money instead of corn, cows, pigs, etc. We are all mercenaries, other than volunteers.
SuperDude
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16 years ago
Lunabird may not appreciate how hard it is for guys to believe that strippers can be sincere in a relationsip, given all of the games we see them play. Yes, each person should be respected as an individual, not typecast just because she chose "a new lifestyle." It does seem that many dancers are trying to milk guys for money and "love" has nothing to do with it. that's why we tell dallas702 to watch out.
lunabird
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16 years ago
I am just saying that not ALL dancers are out for YOUR cash, when in a relationship... thats why we have the job in the first place, so we can make money for ourselves. Although granted there are many girls out to play guys, however, its unfair to suspect all strippers are out for YOUR money... THen you might also want to consider: why do YOU want to date a dancer? Is it because... gee we are so nice? or is it because you want to know what it is like to date and take home a stripper and perhaps show her off to your friends to say 'lookie what I got'? It is a two way street really. Perhaps we are both being used in the relationship. I don't really like to think so though.

However, I must add, without the relationship, yes, we are out for your money. go figure right?
SuperDude
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16 years ago
Lunabird:
So the 45 year old dancer I have taken to dinner four times, no sex, has started to ask for money. Last year I "loaned" her rent money. She's forgotten it even happened. I now know I got played. Enough said.
lunabird
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16 years ago
why would you loan someone you do not know that well a large sum of money..? (trust me sweetie... 4 dinner dates and a few club meetings don't mean anything)sounds silly to me.. but thats the risk with lending ANYONE money. Thats why judge shows exsist (you know Mathis, Judy, etc...) and day time tv. lol. Are all those people strippers? no, their shitty people. Not all of us are shitty people. although I do find your predicament sad, KNOW that could have been ANYONE.

It is VERY narrow minded to believe that ONLY strippers will take your money and run. It is also narrow minded to think that all strippers want everything from you.

A word to the wise don't lend anyone money. I thought this was, however, common sense.

Your 45 year old friend could have made her rent in a night or two if she worked hard. Duh. Most girls could make rent in a day at the right club. YOU should know this being a regular to the club circuit.

As you put it... 'enough said'
how
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16 years ago
Lunabird, your post in reply to SuperDude might be the best and most sensible yet seen on these discussion boards. Common sense and intelligence are sexy...as is your red outfit. ;)
shadowcat
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16 years ago
Don't lend anybody money if you really need to get it back. 2 years ago I GAVE a dancer $1,000.00 in cash. No strings attached. I had known her for 3 or 4 years and knew that she was really up against it. She never asked me for anything. No loan. She asked "are you sure" as she wept. So where are we today? Still friends. She has her shit together. She has a very responsible job that would shock most of you and has only worked 2 days at the club in the last 60+ days. 1 was for charity. The other was because I was there. We have lunch/dinner whenever I am in town. When I was in alcohol rehab last month, she said that she would have come to visit me except that she didn't know where I was. "200 miles is not that far". Any one that attends the convention in May, will probably meet her. Some of you already have. It was money well spent.
lunabird
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16 years ago
(slighty off topic)

How, thank you so much! <3

I think I am enjoying the discussion boards more and more.

and I agree with shadow. Don't lend money you need!

jablake
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16 years ago
Glad to hear it turned to be money well spent actually money well given. :)
jablake
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16 years ago
Glad to hear it turned to be money well spent actually money well given. :)
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