The fall off posts prompt this question--assuming we are talking about you as a regular in your favoreite club--would you buy shoes for a dancer? For just one, or more than one? How special would the girl have to be, or would you just be generous without any regard to a relationlship, if asked?
I've bought shoes on several occassions, but only for someone I have a special relationship with. My feeling is if I go beyoud that, things can get out of hand. But it might be something to try to get something going.
Buying shoes seems difficult unless she is with you and then my main objection would be the cost. If I could afford it, then I might if I didn't think it would negatively impact her. Shoes definitly aren't my thing and unless she has ugly feet, then I'd rather see her barefoot. A barefoot dancer at Angels was always getting chewed out even after I told the manager that I preferred barefoot. He liked his women all fancy----I prefer non-fancy.
Anyway, some women aren't nearly as nice the more you give. Some are much nicer the more you give. And, some are much nicer the less you give.