So I'll start of by saying I'm a bit of a newbie. Went to SCs a handful of times in my early 20s. Haven't been to one in 7 or 8 years.
I'm on a work trip and decided fuck it, let's go. Went Friday night and had such a great time that I went back Saturday. Well Saturday night, one of the girls I was getting a dance from had me hooked. I was niave to stripper talk at the time (I've done my research now) and she was really good at it. Compliments, calling me hot, moaning, ect. Anyway after I called it quits on the dances, she gave me her number. This really got me thinking.
After I got back to my hotel room, I sent her a text saying thank you for the great time and I asked if she ever did any "extra services." She replied saying something like "hell yeah tell me your wants and what you think I'm worth." Idk if it was because I was horny and/or drunk but the way her text was worded really got jr going. I did what any moron in that state of mind would do and sent a questionable response. "I want you to sit on my face." I didnt add any monetary value cause I really had no idea how much I should offer. I layed in bed for a few and eventually passed out. I woke up to no reply and immediately texted her again saying "sorry I was really drunk" or something. I tried to leave it at that but I just kept thinking about it.
Unfortunately it doesn't end there. For few days I kept thinking about it periodically. Kept thinking to myself, "why did she give me her number?" "should I try to get extras again?" ect. This is what led me to doing research and discovering that she was just doing her job really well.
Anyway, Tuesday afternoon I sent her a text. "1 hr $600" Beforehand I quickly googled how much girls usually cost and the answer I found was "$300-$1000+" so I thought ok 600 is surely a good offer.
Obviously she never responded and after more research I realized that I definitely low balled and probably insulted her. I'm not going to text her again.
So that's it. My problem is that my work trip is coming to an end. This upcoming weekend is my last and I really would like to go back one last time as I know it'll be years before I get this chance again. I'd love another dance from her too but wouldn't want to make her uncomfortable. I learned a lot from my experience so I'm confident I won't make the same mistake of getting hooked.
Questions I have: -would it be stupid to go back? -What would you do if you were me? -If I go back, should I avoid her? -should I just go to the inferior(supposedly) SC down the street? -how likely is it that she told every other stripper there about this? Would that cause them to avoid me? -am I completely overthinking this? Am I being a little bitch? -should I just say fuck it and go since I won't be back here for a long time if ever? -what are the chances that they call the cops on me for solicitation?
No one will call the cops on you. If I were you I'd sit in the hotel bar and pick up a civilian. Over the weekend I made a very rare exception to my no OTC rule, because a super pretty black spinner is so unique in today's world of obesity that I was all in...until. Texting and no voice verifying. Too busy to voice verify, then I am too busy to waste another second on you. I would go back and let life come to me. Chances are she will avoid you, so find another. No matter what is said and done you have no chance to replicate the feeling you had the first night. By the way don't be delusional. I have a better chance of growing taller at 68, than any guy does in having a dancer fall for them. Words mean jack shit. Her actions spoke much louder. I have had maybe 1x in my life I'd have paid $1,000 for and that was FFFM (me) in my pool and none of the F's were my wife. Might have spent $1,000 for that, but free was better.