Should I go back?

No one will call the cops on you. If I were you I'd sit in the hotel bar and pick up a civilian. Over the weekend I made a very rare exception to my no OTC rule, because a super pretty black spinner is so unique in today's world of obesity that I was all in...until. Texting and no voice verifying. Too busy to voice verify, then I am too busy to waste another second on you. I would go back and let life come to me. Chances are she will avoid you, so find another. No matter what is said and done you have no chance to replicate the feeling you had the first night. By the way don't be delusional. I have a better chance of growing taller at 68, than any guy does in having a dancer fall for them. Words mean jack shit. Her actions spoke much louder. I have had maybe 1x in my life I'd have paid $1,000 for and that was FFFM (me) in my pool and none of the F's were my wife. Might have spent $1,000 for that, but free was better.

She gave you her number so you could ask when she's working and go back to see her. The first text was fine and opened another door. The second was horny, but im sure they get that all the time. The 3rd was the nail in the coffin. You could go back, but I'd write her off.

Overthinking it for sure though. No one's calling the cops and I doubt she went and told everyone. Even if she did blab to everyone at the club, that might be free advertising for you for the dancer who is down.

yes

Well, I know what I would do. I'd go back and have fun. With her if she wants, without her if she doesn't. Don't ignore her, but don't be in her face either. Tip her on stage maybe, say hi, let her make the next move.

Yes, go back there's plenty of other dancers I'm sure, you'll find someone even better.

If she were interested, she would have texted you. Drop it and move on.

The guys who don't give a fuck get a lot more pussy.

In a shocking change of events she just messaged me back. Very interesting

You didn't lowball, 600 is a healthy slightly-upper mid range for an hour. You are definitely overthinking this though and catching feelings fast as hell, but be in the game for awhile and thatll stop happening

You gotta be careful with shit like this and assume that she is playing a game with you that she has likely played many times before and you are playing it for the first time. Her waiting is likely a 'scaricty creates value' ...by waiting she obviously got you thinking about her a lot. See it for what it is....a game strippers play with the goal of getting your money.

Ok, am I the only one who wants to know what she massaged back? Yes, no, counter offer or just trying to get you to come back to club?

Sorry, typo. Messaged back

Is the feedback given here really not common sense to some customers? Like not trying to be harsh bc I know how you feel. First time I went to the strip in a long time I was 3 yrs ago. I met a girl who was pretty cool and gave me a good vil experience. She asked for my number, I suggested a date, she said yeah lmk. I text her next day and she responded with her stripper name vs her real name (despite us exchanging our real names). At that point I knew what kind of time she was on and didn't bother texting back. Ever since then never texted another stripper again. They all want money. That's it.

Mired in Overthinkistan. I wouldn't read anything into the delayed response. (Also curious about what she said, but that's your business). Many of these dancers are scatterbrained and lead chaotic lives. They don't have the emotional or mental bandwidth to play mind games with every PL who messages, or to have some emotional reaction to every message they get. They don't respond because they forgot about the message. And $600/hr definitely isn't insulting, which isn't to say she won't ask for more

I have to agree with all of the overthinking, and that just might be what she has you pegged for. So instead of her doing of the upselling, you're doing it to yourself, and then when you walk in the door, all she has to do is say, "VIP," and you're off and your wallet's emptied.

There is no correct answer when it comes to how much you should pay a stripper for sex or how much time you should put into getting her to agree to doing that. Everyone here will likely have a different answer. You know your own emotional reaction to how much she wants or how much time you are putting into this. When you start to feel annoyed or angry, just disengage and walk away. This is the standard advice on how to deal with internet trolls and it works in real life too.

Thank you everyone. I am definetely learning a lot from this. Im not gonna get played by no stripper. I do plan on going on saturday but im not gonna get swindled. And for those of you wondering. Her response was "Don't be sorry 🥰 sounds perfect." Giving no fucks this time around. Shes def just trying to keep me on the hook but im already off it

All good advice here, and it sounds like you’re on the right approach. Have fun, play it cool with your girl but don’t avoid her. Interact with her confidently- you’re in charge of the relationship. She’ll get the idea as soon as she sees you with other girls in the club, and she’ll probably come back around. At that point you have choices, and all the leverage.

If a dancer works at (or is new and thinks she works at) a cleaner club, I can sympathize if she gets offended at requests for extras. But, in this case, she clearly invited it. I would guess she's not an extras dancer. But the vast majority of non-extras dancers will try to leave the PL with at least a desperate hope that they will do extras under some circumstances. Some dancers are "low-volume" extras dancers. They are more uncomfortable with it, so it's only worth it if they get premium $. Asking for more $ makes it safer and less scary for them. The less the PL is willing to pay, the more likely he is violent and/or obnoxious.
An important rule to follow is, buy her non-extras dances because you enjoy them. It's a big long shot to think that, by buying more and more dances, you will "get her in the mood" to do extras. No matter what she tells you.
From what I've seen, it's a long shot to seek extras from strippers because you can find escorts that you like in a certain vicinity. If there isn't much escort activity in an area, then it's probably also hard to find escorts there, or even good two-way contact.

find extras there, I meant to write.

@ikb the power balance between stripper and PL see-saws. Yes, you can always be in charge. But you may sometimes only be in charge of the blue balls you drive home with.

I think you’re overthinking it bro. 10 seconds of conversation IF you bump into her again would completely squash it and you’d probably get on fine. You’re a customer you can come and see who you want.