Tips for how to figure out what girls are up for what

Do your research. Find clubs known for their extras. Look for girls who are known for their extras. This information is on here if you look.

Fly to Colombia or Thailand

Fly to Seattle. They all suck dick during the daytime. Same goes for Detroit.

I generally just tell them I need a blowjob. They say yes or no.

I wouldnt pursue ITC extras unless you want a HJ or BJ. Also if youre tipping for an extra, dont tip until after you get the extra.

Definitely dont book an expensive, $300+ room just because a dancer offers extras. She could just do lapdances and youd be screwed.

$600 or $800 is way too much even if you get everything you want. If thats what the hot dancers are charging for full service, better to just go for escorts

'Ok im a younger guy (23)'

Honestly this isn't the answer op is looking for but my advice is get out in the world beyond strip clubs, parks, stores, wherever regular females are apt to be and practice/learn how to pick up civie girls and get laid for free. There are countless women out there looking to casually hook up and a 23yr old guy is in the perfect age range to take advantage of that.

Agree with Viking... go get life experience and save/invest. Sex work will still be available to you later on when you have more disposable income

Cmon guys we don’t need more simps in the domestic market

OP is obviously not in south Florida.

Simps in the domestic market shouldn't be an issue to anyone that has some game.

Ok, I’ll bite. The best thing OP can do is
pay attention to how she dances on stage. Is she really working it? Or just going through the motions? Lazy or scammers will do bare minimum on stage .

If I started blowing $at SCs at age 23 I’d be destitute by now

👍 ' For pvt dances/vip, all I can say is sit & talk with her for a good while first, see if she is spirited & fun to talk with. You don't wanna rush for pvt coz some girls could scam ya' with little or nothin' if they think you don't know them & they can get away with it, her just wanting to push you off & skim ya' to be naive if she doesn't favor you for money, likes, or whatever reasons. | If she is shy, or picky about club rules, I wouldn't risk her for big money. I mainly just sit in the club & chill, pole dance stage tip, eat, drink, go outside & smoke & come back in. I will occasionally pvt dance. You can also do a "combo trial score" like seeing her smaller pvt dances first before spending more in $VIP & seeing if she is really likeing the club through her stage dances & atmosphere interaction. If she turns out to be really good, you can bring up the otc option & cover both of ya' for working out at the club, strippers like that off club cash as well, but I would work with her for a nightly discounted rate, not hourly, & if she really likes you, it shouldn't be a problem! 🔺@ Reachme, good point on that dance stage info!

@reachme i dont agree my friend. I dont think good stage dances equate to extras being available. It might even be negatively correlated meaning non extras dancers work harder on stage because they want more stage tips and dont make much from extras

It’s not 100% one way or the other, but I’ve definitely met dancers who perform well in VIP and therefore make most of their money there who just go through the motions during their obligatory stints on stage, so I don’t see stage performance as a barometer of whether they’ll put out in VIP. You either have to ask them or they need to tell you in unambiguous terms, or you take a leap of faith

I strongly advise against going into debt to have $ for paid sex. But it's questionable whether having blue balls in your twenties will seem worth it, no matter how much you've made spending the money on tech stocks instead. Maybe consider escorts, look at the reviews on theeroticreview.com . Have you considered weekend road trips to TJ?

Your odds are much better if she says something that could get her arrested for prostitution. Or she clearly says yes, when you ask for something that could get you arrested for solicitation. (Only a hypothetical, I've never heard of undercover cops working as strippers.) If she says something more vague, like "you'll be totally satisfied", that's just the sort of bullshit that's routine when someone's trying to sell you something. Note that many stripper will show offense if you ask them for extras. Bottom line, don't spend money on a stripper you don't know, if you can't accept the risk that you'll feel like you wasted it. Even with a stripper you do know, it's common for them to get complacent. And as others have mentioned, if the club is not known for extras, getting them is a long shot. And, be a stand up TUSCLer, if a dancer crosses the line between bullshiting and straight up lying, call her out as a ROB on the club's forum.

First thing thanks to everyone for the info its good shit. No im not in south florida. Im not going into debt haha i go with like 600-800 but only go like twice a year. i go in between relationships im just trying to get some other stuff in the club for the experience ya know.

@Reachme

"pay attention to how she dances on stage. Is she really working it? Or just going through the motions? Lazy or scammers will do bare minimum on stage"

I think this is a good point.

The hotter the stage show, possible indicator she'll do more, not a guarantee, but increased likelihood.

If she's really going for it and add even more so if she's going fully nude while most of the other dancers are going only topless, you might have found an extras dancer.

My experiences and encounters that led to this thought.

First ever encounter of a dancer offering extras...She went fully nude, I'm tipping up close, she's bending over giving me a really nice view of her pussy.

There are two couples, male with female sitting together. She goes over to both of them, does this move where she puts one leg over the man's shoulder, the other over the woman's, and proceeds to ram her pussy into the woman's face.

This is hands down the hottest, most arrousing thing I've ever witnessed in a strip club.

When her and I got to the lap dance area she said "Now it's my turn to get hot and horny."

She suggests V.I.P. and offers "a handy, some head, and some kissing."

A dancer I met around six weeks ago, then got back in contact with, offered OTC, hasn't happened yet, but it's good to know the offer is still on the table.

With her stage show, she was continuously fully nude, playing with herself on stage, spreading her legs, displaying her pussy.

It's like she was telegraphing the message... this is available.

You'll want to be conscious of any vibes you might giving off, too.

On the one hand, if you're slobbering like a dog in heat, ready to hump any leg that stops by your table, she'll probably want to avoid you.

On the other hand, if you're acting to coy, like you're trying to get her to explicitly do any offering, she might think you're a cop.

And, for no other reason than you're a guy trying to score in a strip joint, she might think you're a creep and perv and give you a very wide berth, possibly even sharing gut feelings with other dancers.

It's really a very fine line you need to walk. Practice first -- with both civvies and strippers -- then when you're confident -- not pre-pubescent cocky, just confident -- see what you can do.

If your goal is just to get through unpaid sex droughts, have you considered settling for strippers who can get you to nut by grinding on you?

@ibbaicnl ya I've tried that once. Got a very good looking dancer to grind on me but just couldn't get there even after 5 songs.

If you are early 20s, have disposable income, and not in a relationship, you can travel to wherever whenever you want.

"what tips do you older Strip club vets have to figure out what girls wont just rip ya off or is it just an experience thing?"

It's just an experience thing. But if I had any tip to offer, it would be to start with strangers in places you're not likely to see them again if things go badly. There are things that work for me that don't work for other guys, and the other way around. Things that didn't used to work for me now work, and other things don't work quite like they used to now that I'm older lol.

Its not an experience thing. Many or most people figured out the methods with time and experience, but those people can then share those tips they learned from experience with others.

The biggest thing as far as if you can straight up ask dancers for extras is the club culture. In some clubs its the norm and in others it isnt.

I wouldnt even bother asking a white girl unless youre cool with a more restrictive experience just a HJ CBJ etc. better to go for a latina or just fly to germany or elsewhere in europe.

Go to clubs where it’s possible privacy wise, and that have a reputation for being extras clubs. Don’t be a psychopath and have good hygiene and dress decently. Meet as many girls as possible. It’s kind of a numbers game, and the more you meet, the more high mileage girls you’ll end up meeting. You’ll meet them eventually, and you’ll be very happy you did, trust me, I know all too well.