OK so I’ve got one of my favorite dancers in my lap, and she knows who my other faves are as well. So she tells me that another customer was showing her reviews from this site that mention her. Since the review also mentioned my other faves, she deduced that it was my review. TUSCL should be like Fight Club, we don’t talk about it with dancers. If they wanna get VIP access on their own, fine. But we shouldn’t be sharing reviews directly. Not cool man. Discuss!
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Loose lips, sink ships. I never mention anything to anyone about this site. It’s an online brotherhood that has a firewall between my clubbing life and personal life. No bueno!
Anyone can read reviews without logging in.
If I mention a dancer's stage name, I wouldn't say anything that could be taken as a dis, unless I thought she deserved a dis.
Sometimes I recount anecdotes about favs, that are unique enough that they'd realize it was about them. In some cases, it might upset them, even though I didn't say enough to clearly connect them to the story. But, so far, no fav has called me on this. Dancers don't seem to see much use in reading reviews of their club. It seems to be especially bothersome to women, when negative comments are made about their appearance.
I thought reading full reviews required VIP membership status. Are dancers being given free VIP access to read reviews?
It has always been the case that there's been this subset of absolute bitches who use sharing reviews as a way to get in with strippers. We were complaining about it 25 years ago. Some guys just use it as their angle because they think it makes the strippers like them. Best to avoidi things like what you did, add in details that would make you identifiable to someone who knows you well.
Never discuss other girls with strippers . A girl asked me not to put this on the internet right before she blew me . I told her I didn’t know what she was talking about
I think it's still the case that people have to have VIP to see full reviews, but that's not a high bar to clear.
These dancers aren't stupid, if you're anything more than worthless club furniture dancers are watching who pick and will try and size up what you're getting from other girls. Even if from review to review or thread to thread you're careful, over time the information just builds up.
@wallanon thats contradictory, the sizing up youre referring to is something that happens only in person at clubs and is based on them knowing the girl youre dancing with then assuming what you got from her based on that
As far as information from review to review and thread to thread, thats not true either. You would have to be very specific in your reviews or threads, for a dancer to actually be able to piece together who you are just from reading your reviews and threads. You would basically have to mention very specific information in the review or thread that you also divulged in person to the dancer. And generally speaking that would never happen unless you are getting extremely specific in reviews or threads
I mentioned this site to only one dancer, and that was because she was planning on moving to another city and wanted some ideas on other clubs she could dance at.
There's a private subreddit where girls will screenshot and discuss the things that are posted on here as well as on USA Sex Guide.
Are you sure it was another customer though and maybe not something she read on a different forum? Unless this is the only forum you post on.
You are posting comments specific to one club and certain dancers on a forum where you have no control who reads them or shares them. I agree sharing them stinks, but you posted them and they are now there forever and out of your control. Just the facts.
Maybe he showed her the reviews to try to ask for the same extras at the same rates. Some on here argue that dancers only provide extras to 1% of their clients or that they have a tiering system where they charge different rates to all their clients based on who they like more.
My review comments were very complimentary, and if I’m including a dancer’s name, I wouldn’t mention anything about extras. I didn’t mind so much that she saw it, but that she figured out that it was me. RTP is right, what we post is out of our control, it just surprised me how it was provided to her.
Yeah this is an important lesson. I think I'm now known at 2 clubs (1 in RI and 1 in FL) because I gave too many details. Mileage shrunk.
(I wasn't sharing details with dancers, just reviews too specific and someone at each place figured it out)
I remember there was a tuscler from a VERY active discussion area (think Phoenix, Seattle, Detroit, Rhode Island) who said he didn’t post on the site anymore because some dancer he has a good rapport with mentioned her contempt for this site and she reads the reviews because her club was one of the “active” ones on here. He only private messages with some tusclers and will occasionally meet up with those he has good rapport with IRL at a club once in a while.
If your review or discussion post mentions the stage name of your fav, why would you write anything in it that you wouldn't want her to read?
Is the point here that, you want to write things that will make strippers, even ones you want further dances from, feel humiliated? So they resent customers more, and perhaps even quit dancing? Why exactly should others support you in being malignant, and fucking up their fun?
Hmm, looks like I was wrong, you can't read reviews when logged out.
I really don't see the need to get into potentially embarrassing or illegal details. Just be sure to call it out when dancers are dishonest or misleading. Then your fellow pervs can find the answers believable, when they ask strippers for what they specifically want.
This is what you'll see if you attempt to read a review not logged in.
^i believe its the same even if you are logged in and dont have VIP.
ibbaincnl has again proven to be one of the most stupid posters on the board and verifies who this poster actually is!!!
I don't share reviews or talk about TUSCL when I'm in a strip club. The only dancers who know I post here as wallanon are the ones I met through TUSCL. If I'm asked about review sites, and I haven't been asked that in years, I just say I'm not sure what they're talking about. What's there to gain by showing a dancer something she could've found on her own with a simple web search?
I personally want to bring more dancers to our community. But yeah just not that dancers we tend to be intimate with, all the other ones yeah come on board. But yeah that can get awkward. Possibly ruin relationships. Especially for you guys who just hang in the same couple clubs all the time, talk about really shitting where you eat. I would maybe type as if your cf could eventually read it.
I will not bring it up and if I'm asked I'll try to be as general as possible or just say I go by friends/associates word-of-mouth. In any case I don't review much lately (just checked: damn it's been years... but then again I have not much new to say about my usual places and I go much less...anyway...) but I generally try at least to be vague enough about anything that could be taken wrong and not get especially personal about any specific dancers. As others have mentioned, why antagonize.
They all read this site.
It’s easy enough to access .
100% agree. If someone is actively sharing information with dancers it's BS. We all understand the Internet is the Internet, and if they make the effort they can access, but it comes off as very feminine energy for a dude to actively provide information.
@MrHernandez602 this only seems to be an issue with dancers, and moreover, only dancers who are either hiding their work from family/friends that know their stage name at a strip club, or dont want management to know she provides extras, or it is that rare dancer who is extremely selective with who she provides extras to.
Some on here have cited law enforcement concerns as a reason why a dancer may not want to be named in a review, but i dont think law enforcement can do anything about review content. If reviews were so actionable then how come nearly every escort, and massage spa girl, actually want reviews posted of them online, including many of the famous pornstars.
Regarding the OP post, if a dancer doesnt want you to review her, you shouldn’t- at least dont mention her by name in the review.
This seems to be a much more common issue with dancers and not as much an issue with escorts or massage girls- many of whom actually want reviews to increase their business
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