HM/VHM version of ITC GFE?

I don't think GFE is really a used or defined term in the non-FS world. I also think that there is functionally no difference between a high mileage (but not FS) dance and a "GFE" dance that is also not FS.

However that being said as an escort I feel like the term GFE is already streched too damn thin over here, we don't need it meaning any additional things 🤣

The typical interaction of strippers with customers goes beyond GFE with an escort. Strippers are expected to make a few minutes of conversation for free, before asking for paid time. Escorts expect to be paid for all the time they spend with you. They may or may not be OK with it if you want them to role play a civie date. They are much less likely to be willing to talk about their background/kids/SO.

GFE in escorting typically refers to BBJ, DATY, kissing, cuddling, some chit chat. Some girls use it to JUST mean "girlfriend-esque conversation", but generally if you put GFE on an FS ad most clients will assume at LEAST kissing is on the table if not everything I just listed. I wouldn't say strippers typically do all of these things with every customer when they provide "GFE", except for certain clubs.