Healthy cynicism in the hobby

Mar 6, 2026, 12:22 AM

You just have to always be ready to for things to go south in these clubs. At any moment. I'm not at all surprised went it does. I don't start off all ghetto, I'm friendly going in every time, very polite, all that but then again I'm always ready. All that goodwill you started with goes right out the window when they have the gall to try you as some easy target.

These dickhead staff members and these ripoff bitches can't help themselves. I think newer folks have to understand these people are not your friends and things can and sometimes do completely implode. You just don't want to be a deer in the headlights when it does. It always in the back of my mind. You notice how they turn on you real quick when you say yes to everything, well I do likewise. I got zero issues getting banned from any club in this country. I think there is a lot of weakness in trying to save certain situations/relationships, you know leave with nice feelings, I say fuck all that be than ready burn it all down, fuck it burn every single bridge. It was not meant to be.

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Muddy2 hours ago

I think I'd just rather hated and despised every stop along the way then be bilked night after night. I couldn't live with myself.

rickdugan2 hours ago

Shit dude, when I read the first couple of sentences I was ready to agree. You never know if the other customers are going to be fucktards, or some girl is going to be drunk or drugged out of her mind, etc., etc.

But then I saw it turn into a rant about dickhead staff members and ripoff bitches and you lost me. Not they they don't exist, but tbh I don't interact much with club staff and nowadays I find the ripoff bitches are pretty easy to sniff out. Idk, but usually these are way down on my list of worries compared to some other things.

docsavage2 hours ago

It is a mistake to view any stripper as a friend. This is particularly the case if you are past the age of sixty. Except for a possible exceedingly rare exception, young attractive women would have little interest in any guy that old. They do not want to have sex with him or socialize with him when there are so many young men interested in them. If you are old, they are tolerating you as long as they see you as a potential source of income. I am not sad or angry about this. When I was young, I had no interest in much older members of the opposite sex. Strip clubs are businesses, the strippers are employees, and I am a customer they have to satisfy if they want my return business.

southerner11 hour ago

Docsavage and Rickdugan speaks the truth. As for me, as an old fart, I am not looking to make friends or have relationships outside of the club. but I always try to be friendly and upbeat and polite for as long as I can. I have been doing this long enough to more times than not to detect ROB early in the night. Even if I get burned, I try to act cool, but I make a note about them and never give them a chance to do it again. On the other hand, If a cute little thing clicks with me and does a good job, I will always try to see her again and again. Sometimes the magic works and sometimes it does not. Not use to get bent out of shape when it does not. Munddy makes a good point, far too many young dancers go to the quick score and do not try to make men into regulars. That's is stupid and too bad.