Dancers don't want to continue lap dances

Looking for a bigger fish maybe? When you declined champagne room, she decided to try and find a champagne room customer?

I think sometimes they just prefer customers want less contact.
If she's pushing something more expensive, and you take a pass, presumably she thinks she can sell it to someone else.

I experienced something similar. Dancer said that the VIP room was a better buy because for the same money spent on dances the time in the VIP would be greater than the time she would spend doing those dances. She discouraged more than two dances. It's a mystery to me.

Looks like they want champagne room.

@59 both dancers pitched for vip champagne room, but did not mention multiple times.But that's the hidden agenda I guess. I went for vip with a different girl on a diff Saturday because of this exp but that became horrible experience

FOMO - fear of missing out Busy nights good chance somebody wants to spend 300-600 for 30 mins in VIP. That’s better than $200 giving 10 lap dances. After finding no whale, dancers wise up and gladly take sure money 😊

Someone may say guy is smelling bad. That’s seldom the case. These dancers are ninjas who have seen it all. For money, they can tolerate and put up with a lot of crap

Judging by what you have said your dances were like I have two theories not mentioned.

1. Do the dancers get paid less by management for consecutive dances? That could be one theory.

2. I have witnessed and experienced a similar phenomenon at a club on the east coast. Dancers were watched like a hawk by management (cameras and bouncers everywhere), all dances -pre-paid upfront to a man outside the lapdance area. During lapdances (in a dim but still well-lit common area) some dancers almost seemed afraid to dance too seductively which I always figured was because of fear of management. This club was a successful club in the middle of nowhere so I'm sure the dancers didn't want to get let go because some PL got too handsy during a lapdance. Lastly some people just aren't good at math and can't figure 12 lapdances my net them the same as 2 VIP trips.

Yeah, but wouldn't the 12 lap dances wind up being "more" work for the dancer. And from what I've seen anyway, guys who go with the dancers to VIP are typically more likely to buy the dancers drinks (which they might be jonesing for) and more likely to tip (which won't go to the club).

In my experiences, the girls seem to want to go to the VIP-champagne -fantasy rooms more than entry level dances.

I know a bunch of dancers who just hate dancing for 5, 10, 15 or more minutes straight. It's not physically easy.

Probably gets a bit tiresome and tedious for the dancer, especially if she finds the PL unappealing (smelly, dirty, creepy, etc.).

Also agree if she is a high earner and sees no chance her upsell is going accepted, she rather try to find another PL who will.

I’ve had dancers pretty much indicate they were done after 3. If the dancer suggests “that’s enough”, I always agree.

Could be a ton of things. Too handsy, too smelly, too old, too cheap, they were too tired, bored or looking for more money elsewhere. Maybe they have regulars they wanted to check on. Bathroom break. Existential crisis...

Lap dances are $30/40 a song around here so a lot of dancers (correctly) suggest a VIP so your money goes further. If a song is 3 min, and 30 min VIP is 300/400, you are getting the same value for more privacy. Plus more tips and the house cut could be less for them. The dancers tend to be less stressed and able to focus on you more in a closed door vs open as well.

I don't mind a few test dances to start but typically opt for a 15/30 min room if the vibe is there

Most dancers are not hard workers. If you gave them a choice working at a club that charges $50 per dance, with their cut being $30, or working at a club that charges $30 per dance, with their cut being $15, and they consistently walked away with the same amount of money at the end of the night but had to sell twice as many dances at the $30 club to do so, most would choose the club that charges $50 per dance. Half the dance work for the same amount of money.

In VIP, they can make more money for less work. That's why they push it - especially if they do extras. With extras, they can make substantially more money.

How many times have you read reviews from guys on this site complaining about dancers hiding in the dressing room or sitting off to the side staring at their phones like zombies?! Countless times. It's one of the biggest complaints of guys who go to strip clubs. They're screwing themselves financially through their laziness ... and pissing off us customers.

Most dancers want to make the most amount of money doing the least amount of work.

It also could be you were a fill in customer while waiting on the whale to arrive or get ready. Then she spent too much time in the back with you and she got rebuffed by the whale because he had to wait too long. It happens.

When I was at Dean's Gold a couple weeks ago, I gave the dancer a break after 5 Lap dances. She had literally worked up a sweat. It's common courtesy to acknowledge that this is physical exertion for the girls, and everyone needs a breather.

At least I can count on the Taco Bell drive-thru to sell me those 10-packs, even when there's nobody else in the vehicle.

I agree with LL that it's the same phenomena as girls hiding in the dressing room. Chances are they're on the phone looking for a whale or checking the floor with a camera (do they have those in dressing rooms?) waiting for a big spender they know.

I had one in a topless club that quit because her G string broke.

The only time I ever had a dancer quit giving a lap dance, I was 99% sure drug usage had everything to do with it. Some girls just can't keep it together for long enough.

I don’t think I’ve ever experienced this, but like others have stated, it’s likely all about opportunity cost. She believed that she was missing the opportunity to sell more lucrative VIP sessions than she was getting with OP lap dances.

The answer is a combo of all the above .