Exactly what the title says.
You can feel bad for any reason. Maybe you like her even though you know she just wants the money or you know she will go the extra mile because she is low on customers.
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Do you feel bad when a fav texts you to come in but you cant?
Dec 16, 2025, 12:41 AM
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Nah. And if it happens too much I tell them I'll text them if I'm available
No. A woman who is not my wife or not FWB is not going to whistle me over like I'm her pet. She has to work on my schedule if I am paying her.
How many other guys are getting those same texts? Feeling bad? You are going to be poor very soon.
As someone close to seventy, I never developed the habit of sending or receiving texts and have never felt any desire to start doing that.
I personally make it a habit NOT to share my phone # with these girls. Too much potential for problems.
Do I feel "bad"? No. Disappointed maybe, if I can't make it, but not bad. How disappointed I am depends on how she asks.
"I'm working tonight." Not very bad. "Hey, you need to come in tonight so I can suck your cock." Probably very disappointed.
^"Hey, you need to come in tonight so I can suck your cock." Probably very disappointed. lol that’s a good bitch
“I’m omw” is the appropriate response
Don’t really text them because all you have to do is show up to the club and see who’s there. The club does the work for you.
Don't feel bad. It's a good thing not to be at a dancer's beck and call.
I text her when I want satisfaction, not come running every time she needs $$$.
No, I club when I want to not just because they want my money.
I inform them when I'm available. Don't text me, I'll text you type of thing.
A dancer in Indianapolis tried to do that with me (doubtlessly a slow night). Told her, "Sorry, but I'm 900 miles away."
A masseuse did pull that on me three or four times, and, like the idiot I am, I went in (when I already didn't have plans). The last straw came when she called me at 7:45am on a Sunday, a day that they're supposed to be closed and a day that I already had problems getting to sleep before my 1pm work shift. I still went in, got a good massage and some sleep on the table, and managed to get to work on time, but afterward, I left a message on their machine to not call me anymore and blocked both her number and the business's.
"The last straw came when she called me at 7:45am on a Sunday, a day that they're supposed to be closed and a day that I already had problems getting to sleep before my 1pm work shift. I still went in, got a good massage and some sleep on the table, and managed to get to work on time, but afterward, I left a message on their machine to not call me anymore and blocked both her number and the business's."
LOL still went in anyways but still blocked them after. PNC must have hit hard enough
I go when I am in the mood and always look for new. The idea I am a dog who comes when called isn't me.
I do.
If she's just down the street I'll go, but usually I'm quite a long distance away.
Just tell them you can't make it but are open for her coming to you.
Naturally, everyone feels bad for any gig worker when things get slow for them.
I typically spend with my favs once a week. They might let me know they're working. If she says it's a big crisis that I miss a week or two, it's probably a scam, and/or she has a pimp, or is the type prone to ending up with a pimp. So, now my ex-fav. Sadly, not a problem I can or want to take on.
Nope. And I'm sure she doesn't feel bad when I ask if she's working and she is not
When you come in when texted you’ll be texted more. It can be fun but you will find yourself going in a lot if you try to respond to those texts. I get them constantly.