Any married people frequent clubs? I just started visiting clubs and can’t stop lol anyone else married and doing this? Has muons been caught? Any issues you ran into? What type of service do you ask for? I only get HJ and I rub pussy over panties and JO afraid of FS or kissing? Share experiences?
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Married Mongers
Nov 16, 2025, 5:06 PM
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I do the laundry if that helps.
If getting caught would legitimately ruin your life then you should stop. Just my 2 cents.
Avoid clubs that allow smoking. Carry change of clothing in car. Use separate bank account for funding the activity.
Strip clubs wouldn't exist if not for married men. So, you're far from the only married guy doing it.
Move to Massachusetts so I can represent you when she finds out and divorces you.
@skibum609 don’t be a buzz kill lol
My wife lost interest years ago, I go looking for high mileage and to hear Billy Joel music. I enjoy every minute of it.
Wife and I had great sex last night for our 45th anniversary. This morning I told her about the realistic lap dance dream I had last night. She knows.
I'm happily divorced.
Yes it is expensive paying spousal support but I don't have to hide my strip clubbing anymore...
Smoke, perfume, stripper glitter have been issues for some in the past. Some guys have had memberships at 24 hour gyms and showered before returning home. Kept spare clothes in a bag in their trunk.
I frequent poker rooms (inside casinos) so it’s not uncommon for my clothes to smell like smoke.
^ Identify a hobby that can be used as an excuse for getting out of the house. A common one is "watching the game".
In the past I would get lapdances only. It was good entertainment and fun for a while, but at some point it just became routine and I could no longer suspend my disbelief that it's all just a hustle and rip off. Over the years I got caught multiple times, and my wife would always let it slide, but it did create friction in our relationship. Now I don't go unless she wants to go too, and we'll just stage tip and maybe get a few dances. We recently celebrated our 25th anniversary this way. She had a few drinks at dinner and got in the mood to go. I wasn't going to complain!
I think the biggest thing to work out is whether or not a married PL is going to go in secret or do it openly. I recommend the latter because eventually you will get caught.
Wife and I used to go together periodically. She had fun. She doesn't much anymore, but enjoys herself when she does go. Last time was three or four years ago when she watched me pump my load down a stripper's throat and then slimed the stripper's face herself.
^^ O-kaayyy Good date night
I only get lapdances.