Boomers retiring from strip club hobby

In my case, I just can't connect with the dancers the same way as when I was in, or at least closer, to their age group.

Although a couple years ago I ran into a dancer who got into it despite my white hair. My guess was she was flashing back to an early sexual experience of hers. Surprising she was into it instead of freaked out by it. There really are all types.

Nowadays the attention comes from Latinas who are definitely focused on my wallet. Kinda fun, but there is no fantasy that they are attracted to me. I know better.

Technically I belong to the Silent Generation but I associate with mostly boomers. I'm still going one or twice a week and if I find the right dancer I take her to VIP. I find the clubs in my area cater to the night time urban crowd and I do not fit there. I only go during the day time. I have no trouble attracting dancers. Unfortunately most of them don't appeal to me. I only go to clubs that have VIP rooms. Yes, I take Viagra and I'll keep doing it as long as my health allows me to so so.

Daytimes appeal to older guys, while late nights cater to young guys and groups. Someday, the current nighttime contingent will convert to daytime PLs, and the cycle will continue has it has for decades.

Also, certain clubs will continue to cater to certain demographics.

I've backed off of my favorite club because of the police. Bandits with badges.

I'm quite a bit younger than most here, and I don't think clubs should do anything in particular to attract younger demographics.

Although, I'm certainly the odd one out as I don't like pointless conversation especially in strip clubs. My mindset is very much "I'm here to screw you or get a nice grind from you and have a few drinks. We aren't friends". While "hi, want a dance?" is too little effort, anything more than a little small talk is usually annoying to me.

Of course, there are and have been dancers I have interesting or amusing conversations with, but even in those cases, while I don't mind them sticking to me for a bit, I still don't enjoy it.

I'm a Boomer, too, and I've cut way back on clubbing. Not just because the appeal isn't quite as great as it was way back when, but I like those silly things like food and a roof over my head.

Steep, post-Covid price increases and more for the money in other countries eliminated my USA visits. I used to be a regular in USA clubs. Drove trucks across the country for a little while and visited clubs almost every night.

Now retired with over 70 years on the planet, and with a recently developed love of Latina women, all of my stripper monies go to them.

Recently I had a threesome with two Tijuana bar girls for $100 each and $42 for the room. Previously, I would spend $300-$500 a night in US clubs and hope I would be allowed to touch boobs. Occasionally I did get laid in US clubs or met girls OTC, but the complexity of finding the right girl and being found out by the wrong people just isn’t worth it.

Not a boomer, but I've observed a really steep decline in the club experience at several of the clubs near me. Four of these are currently in the TUSCL top 40, and one is in and out of the top 40. Club management has made one club untenable: hookah smoke and ID scans. I'm actually a bit worried that that club will continue as an on-going entity. Others have restocked their lineups with dancers I'm not attracted to. I don't know if that is due to a lack of spinners willing to dance or management's tastes not aligning with mine.

Topless stage sets have become the norm where naked was the norm as recently as this summer, and in some cases fully clothed stage sets are even occurring in clubs where topless was the norm until recently.

At one good club there has been a shift towards GPS. Some dancers would rather use the test dance to try to sell a $500 HJ than provide a dance that makes me want to keep spending. As someone who isn't going for extras and doesn't like being ripped off, it simply doesn't appeal to me. If that particular model is working for them, then good form them, I guess.

Prima facie, I first thought the OP was lamenting boomer strippers retiring from the trade.

I am the outlier here, because although I find disappointing times are more frequent now, the last 2 months have been insane as far as I am concerned with both contact and value. I agree the Desire lineup is limited lately, but all my favorite are still there and the economy made last Saturday vacant, so despite the generally mediocre lineup, there was one dancer whom I have never seen available when I have been there. Not once. I either go all the time or never. Its been that way for almost 5 decades. Now I am in a go all the time streak. Lucky means Rhode Island Dolls had 2 dancer I have never seen on 2 Saturdays ago and was a lot of fun.

I've always enjoyed the freedom to visit strip clubs during the day, rather than the evening. The clubs that are closest to me are closed 2 days a week, since the Covid re-openings. One of those clubs no longer has a day shift and the other has a limited day shift.

The only appeal to a nighttime strip club visit to me is to check out the other line ups that are not typically seen by me. As a retiree, I do keep my strip club expenses tighter than as a working man.

Day shifts are great, but I have to go out of my way to engineer an excuse to go during the day.

@blahblahblahs, we can always write you a doctor's excuse. "Take two dancers and call us in the morning. And remember, no video or it didn't happen."

I refuse to do anything with Amazon and as such I have stopped watching Thursday night football at home. As there is no Thursday poker, I have to watch it out. Wild wings or the Boardroom Cabaret? Not even fucking close.

Wild Wings? I've only been to the ones in airports, but I'm pretty sure you can do better than that.

^ I could hang out with my buddies and watch the game at their house, but Boardroom makes for a better halftime show.

Tonight’s game is also broadcast on Channel 5 in Boston (ABC -one of our original 3)! It’s not broadcast on Channel 40 - Springfield) - the nether region!

There'll be time enough to retire from clubbing when I'm dead.

Trying to think what, specifically, a SC owner could do to appeal to a younger clientele. Younger, hotter women are pretty much everybody's gold standard. I like me my MILFs but it's not like there's ever going to be a shortage of them, as younger dancers age into the role. Dayshift customers tend to be retired guys, guys in the workforce who are close enough to retirement that they can regularly say fuck-all and show up in the afternoon when they want to, and other guys in the workforce who have the odd opportunity to dip into a SC during the course of or at the end of a work day. None of those constituencies are likely to say they want fewer young hotties and more MILFs at the club. The greater proportion of older dancers and the relative lack of competition makes dayshift ideal for Boomers on the prowl for extras. OTOH, when I hit extras clubs in the evenings, which is almost always in connection with out of town travel, I generally don't experience any apparent reluctance of dancers to engage based on age. It's all about money, and odds are that older patrons are going to have more of it to spread around to appropriately motivated dancers

Not sure I've seen a drop off of Boomers. Although, I will say that most clubs seem to already be reaching out to younger patrons. They only play (c)rap, push hookahs, tolerate weed, and hire overweight and heavily tattooed/implanted/pierced dancers.

If they cared specifically about my Boomer sensibilities, they'd play that old time rock & roll, ban drugs, and aim for that Cheryl Tiegs look in their dancers (the hot GND type).

Plenty of boomers like weed too, I think that might be a you thing?

I think they are hiring so many girls like you described because there simply aren't as many un-inked natural fit girls that are willing to dance.