So me (M22) and my ex-girlfriend (F23) broke up last month but me and my best friend have 4 tickets to the Antagonist Tour by Carti in December as we were gonna go with both of our girls. Well since we broke up, I have moved to a strip club capital of the US and I have been going to this one place I absolutely love for a while. I have gotten dances from this one beautiful lady about my age a few times and really vibe with her. I was thinking about seeing if she would interested in being my date for the night and go to the concert with me. No sex: purely concert, food/drinks, and a vibe for the night. Anyone got an idea on what something like this may cost (not counting what I spend on her during the night such as food, drinks, tix, etc.) Atlanta cost of living. I’d say all in all 6-7 hours(5p-1a) not counting her get ready time. Also assume she is a fan of the artists performing.
Thanks! (Also I know I could just take any other girl out that is a fan but I wanted to hangout with this girl OTC anyway, even if not for sex)
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last commentI don't have any idea what price it would be for her time (assume you'd replace her income for that shift at least, with a weekend being higher). In terms of your expectations, be REALLY clear and clinical communicating what your expectations of her will be, so she KNOWS what she is walking into....and don't stray from it. Good luck, you're playing with fire......based on what you wrote, you're "catching feelings" for a dancer (which we all do at some point)....
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Could be anywhere from free to $10,000+, depending on how much you two are actually, mutually vibing. But if it's free (or she asks for much less than what she feels her time is really worth), you'll be getting the real her. Which may not be someone you feel any vibe with, and may be someone you feel the urge to flee from. The other two members of the foursome might not be too happy with you. You shouldn't be confident, from paid time with her in the club, that you know what she's really like.
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Do you really want to expose your friend and his girlfriend to this scenario?
I suspect the friend's GF may be a bit judgey. Think long and hard about this.
How much will it cost? Only way to know is I ask her. But, I would simply ask if she would like to join you and your friends. She won't be shy about disclosing expected compensation.
I wouldn't be willing to pay to have her join me, unless she plans to engage in some extra fun afterward. Sell the extra ticket on StubHub, and avoid aggravation:
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