So what do you prefer? In my opinion, as they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But I would say "cute" and "pretty girls are kind of in one group with "Beautiful" and "Gorgeous" being in a different group as such. I go for the cute girls and pretty girls. Now I'm not going to turn down a beauty, but I guess I feel more comfortable with cute/pretty girls?


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last comment^ you mean the big girls right, icee, you like em large we know.
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Often the most attractive stripper in the club puts in less effort to be friendly or do good lap dances than the other girls. I will usually pick the most attractive one but if it does not turn out well on the next visit I will try the second most attractive stripper in the club. After multiple visits, I might end up with a regular who is not the most attractive one but who has lots of other good qualities.
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More than once I have had a 5 or 6 sit down and start talking. Her personality has bumped her up a couple notches and ended up being a 9 in VIP. Also I have taken a 9 for some private time only to get essentially an air dance with little personality I have learned that judging by looks alone is terrible strategy.
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I like them hot!
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Agree with the OP. My club rarely has a stunner; too much beauty can somewhat intimadate me. But cute or pretty with a sweet body, known to give decent laps, let me at 'em 😋
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What's generally considered a pretty face is pedo. Proportionately larger eyes, with smaller nose and mouth, are typical of children. I find big eyes hot, but a big nose or wide mouth doesn't bother me.
Long legs relative to overall height is typical of adolescent females.
It's mostly about looking healthy and youthful. Since I'm not bi, attractive means hips/booty noticeably bigger around than her waist. RBF is a big negative. Short and/or abstract art hair is not my thing. All else being equal, proportionally larger booty/boobs/nipples are tie-breakers.
Obviously, if somebody is a flake, they tend not to be businesslike enough for it to work out being their customer for a paid service. All my favs have been the type that think of lap dancing as getting paid to get a massage, as long as you touch them reasonably affectionately. Typically they've been hotheads, but, since I'm polite, they are generally willing and able to rein it in around me. I don't see any big need for us to have compatible personalities.
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✅ ' I'm More Focused On Skinny---Medium Body. Cute vs Pretty vs Beautiful vs Gorgeous Is Really Irrelevant.
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I like a good looking woman. But cute really grabs me. Especially if their personality is right there with it.
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A "girl next door" level of cute/pretty, although I do like the more cerebral ladies. Mmm, gotta love that gray matter.
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I have a definite preference for cute and pretty versus the hot and gorgeous end of the scale. Since I am fat and ugly, the gorgeous ones tend to treat me like I'm not worth their time. Understandable, I guess, given the nature of the business, but still off putting.
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I don't know what to call the female the equivalent but when women describe a man as cute, he's usually short, fat, bald, and smells bad.
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@georgmicrodong thats a severe generalization of the hotter girls. I have found the hotter ones to offer better service and even be more likely to offer extras, not have restrictions etc. i think uglier ones are more likely to have self esteem issues and be pimped. Also im sure youre not as ugly as you think. Its in the eye of the beholder and theres likely some chicas who find you attractive even being old and fat
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HAH, in my area of the world over the last several years i've barely seen any dancers that approach mildly cute with even a lower percentage that would qualify for a higher rating.
Cute pretty and above have been replaced by sloppy, fat, grotesque, and drug addicts. It's very sad, disappointing, and the major reason that I barely go clubbing anymore.
But all has not been lost since I paid a little more attention to civie girls since i slacked off on clubbing and recently ended a 7 month relationship, on good terms, with a lady i met in January that easily qualified as cute and pretty in my book.
Yeah I know this is TUSCL which depends on strip clubs but just keep in mind that female company, hooking up, etc is available through other sources if you're inclined to explore a little.
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I posted a similar discussion topic a long time ago. My strong preference is the cute, girl next door type. They might also be considered "pretty" but typically don't need heavy make-up to look good. I've found they often have a "down to earth" personality to round out the package.
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"beautiful" and "gorgeous" almost never give great dances but sometimes their beauty makes up for it. i almost always go for the 6s to 8s for dances.
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If you’ve clubbed long enough you’ve had great interactions with all the above, but I find the ones that fit the “cute” category are usually the best conversationalists.
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Marketing has brainwashed you guys to be chronically dissatisfied. I am something of a "size king". The bigger the better booty/hips/boobs as long as she looks healthy. Other guys have pedo tendencies. Sorry, but fixating on spinners seems like it has to be pedo. People are typically slimmer as adolescents, then fill out as full grown adults. If you don't have some pervy fixation like this, most any healthy woman under 35 or so should be an 11 on the hot-o-meter to you. It's only because we are constantly bombarded with marketing, that we think some women are Lambos, that only guys who are movie stars and/or multi-millionaires have a chance with. Sydney Sweeney probably has nice skin, but it's not fine Corinthian leather.
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I'm not sure I follow the cute vs beautiful vs gorgeous. Are these different looks or are they different degrees of hotness? I'd see GND vs slutty or cute vs glamorous as a clearer distinctions, but therein lies the issue where we will all have different understandings of these terms.
That being said, I prefer Ana De Armas (cute and GND in my book) to Gal Godot (glamorous). Another example would be Angouri Rice over Sidney Sweeney.
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@ibbaicnl by all means, have your preferences, but there are plenty of 35, 40, and older women out there with spinner bodies. I don't see the appeal in the disproportionate hips and butt that you do, but I won't cast aspersions on your tastes.
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I like the girl next door look. Which reminds me of the time I told a dancer that it was too bad that the club wouldn't let the girls wear sneakers because it would give them that girl next door look. She replied that she didn't want to look like the girl next door. Too bad for her.
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@blahblah... the point is, if you think unusually slim women are much more attractive than more average women, seems likely to be pedo. Studies show that curvier figures correlate with higher intelligence and fertility.
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I prefer GNDs which I guess would be cute/pretty. More down to earth, more innocent. Very sexy.
While it is a novelty to get a hottie completely out of your league, I think the ROB/no extras/full of herself/excessive makeup/still thinks she's the most popular cheerleader in school potential goes up with her alignment to conventional beauty standards.
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We should stay away from equating "no extras" with "full of herself". The main reason most of us want to stay out of prison is, if our cellmate is bigger than us, we'll be doing extras.
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@ilbbaicnl I'd be far more wary of equating a preference for adult spinners with being a pedo, as you've done 4 different times in this post.
Associating petite/daintiness with femininity isn't a new concept. And I say this as someone who's not even attracted to skinny chicks! 😂
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@PP It isn't morally wrong, as long as you don't actually seek sex with non-adults. It's typical of the human condition. We all get the urge to knock someone's lights out at times. But we don't because it would be morally wrong. So we watch people doing it in UFC and the NFL instead. My hypothesis (about attraction to spinners) could of course be wrong. But it doesn't help much to say no, wrong, slimness is just more feminine. Being a childlike adult is also often considered more feminine.
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Only a despicable closeted pedophile would equate spinners with being a pedophile. They pretend otherwise by going after fatties and attacking men who like normal women. Ibb is a classic example.
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The main thing is, we all should remember that our tastes in women's appearance is not a reason to dis someone or judge who they are. It won't matter after Google uploads all our brains into the cloud.
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Yet you dissed and judged guys with different tastes than your penchant for old fat ass matronly women. Many of us can do better than you when it comes to attracting and connecting with hotter women. Your constantly equating guys with different tastes than you as being pedos just enhances your reputation as a creepy fuckhead!
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Interesting, 3 TUSCLers want to do extras for their prison cellmate.
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