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Can someone explain how takeout works?

what’s the expectation with takeout? hotels? hers? yours? tip structure? experiences?

i want to suggest/try it but now sure what the norms are here.

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whodey

There are no norms, it's whatever you and her agree you are both comfortable with.

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DandyDan

It's all different with every girl. I done it at my hotel room, her hotel room, her van (she loved doing it on her smoke break) and even the girl's actual residence. My experiences have been everything from awful to awesome.

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tdavidaspd

Make sure you have a solid feel for her. If you negotiate price hard, your experience will be less than amazing.

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elmer

You've been on this site since 2021 and you don't know ??
You can use the app or simply drive up and order at the speaker

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Dolfan

I'd agree, very few norms. Varies by area, by person.

I usually bring girls back to my place, I mean that literally that I pick them up and bring them. Once we get to know each other, they'll often drive themselves though. If I had to describe typical, I'd say most guys have the girl come to their room at a hotel. The kind of hotel varies, some guys use a lower end hotel while other guys will use mid range or higher end joints they're familiar with or even services like dayuse.com.

Tip's are all over the place too. I usually pay right around the price of a room for an OTC visit. The club, the girl, and any tips included. I refuse to negotiate a specific amount of time or specific acts we'll engage in. Other guys swear there is zero correlation between the ITC and OTC rates in their area, and consider it an absolute must to get clarity on what exactly you'll do and for how long. I get agreement on price, but that's it. I don't usually tip on top of the price agree too, but I guess you could consider the entire payment a tip.

Experiences vary pretty significantly too. I've had girls come over, get right to it, and go. Other girls want it to feel more natural, they'll want to have a drink, maybe a bite to eat, some foreplay, and they'll want to snuggle and hang out a while after too. After a few visits, that effect tends to get exaggerated. You can usually get a good idea of what to expect when you're talking to the girl ITC. A mechanical, down to business type isn't going to all the sudden become a romantic OTC. A girl who focuses on talking and building a rapport ITC, isn't likely to turn into a robot outside but it does happen from time to time.

My situation is might be very different from yours though. My risk appetite is certainly different, my life circumstances are probably different, my area is certainly different.

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unclewillSea

Tell her you will pay her xxx an hour to come to your place.

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rickymacrodong

Hotels are often $100 so you can save that if you go to her place or yours. For someone new i prefer her place or a hotel. If ive seen her several times and trust her enough, i would bring her to my place. Some of them wont even feel comfortable coming to your place the first time

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rickymacrodong

The dayuse prices from what i saw are a ripoff. You will only save maybe 20% on price, like $80 instead of $100, $100 instead of $125… and have to deal with very restrictive timings like 10am - 2pm, 12-5pm etc

I would want a nicer hotel only if it was an overnight thing

I do think the price should be comparable to what the dancers take home pay would be for doing the same thing ITC. $200-$300 plus hotel fees

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RonJax2

I do think the price should be comparable to what the dancers take home pay would be for doing the same thing ITC. $200-$300 plus hotel fees

I find the price point of an overnight OTC usually needs to be maybe just a notch higher whatever she would take home from the club if she worked that night. If she can make $1,000 in the club in a night, she'll want more than that for an overnight OTC with you.

For a quicker visit, you may be able to get club prices, but I still think there's a premium attached to getting her out of the club, even for a short visit. $200-300 would be a bargain but some strippers may be willing!


OP, my experiences with OTC have almost all been in Mexico. Shit is just cheaper and the women are hotter there IMHO.

Mine OTCs have ranged from decent experiences to absolutely incredible and life changing. I've never had a bad time or regretted an OTC.

My current ATF who I see overnight every few months continues to fucking blow my mind, and not just with the sex but with the novel experiences. Earlier this year I flew her to Mexico City for a one of the most incredible weekends of my life. (I wrote about it an article I published here - you can find it in my history.) The lines on this relationship have gotten blurrier and more sugary as it's gone on so I haven't written about my most recent adventures with her, even though they've been outstanding.

Anyway, OTC with the right girl can be amazing. My 2 cents is, look at an OTC date as the top of a very wide pyramid:

  • There will be many strippers working in the club.
  • Of them, a small subset would be worth getting a dance from.
  • Of those, only a small subset would be worth getting a VIP or doing ITC extras with.
  • Even then, I'd only consider broaching the topic of OTC with the best ITC performers.

So, you're talking about a percentile of a percentile of a percentile. You really have to hunt and search to find a dancer worth taking out of the club. But if you do find a gem, she'll be worth her weight in gold!

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