Do you ever try to look at things from the strippers POV?

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No I don't. I don't have a pussy so I have to work for a living.

No. I'd rather not have someone's dick in my mouth.

you got a point muddy...

Yeah. Pretty much sums you up!!😉😂

I try to look everything from someone else's perspective, that's part of both treating people right and making sure you don't get taken for a ride.

GMD what about random women’s pussy in your mouth.

===> "Do you ever try to look at things from the strippers POV?"

Yes and no.

I'll never be able to truly see things through any woman's eyes, nevermind those of a stripper, lol. For example, their innate ability to rationalize almost anything if it suits them is just too foreign to me.

But I do try to understand how they react to different interactions and behave accordingly. For example, I usually know what to say to a girl who is on the fence about an OTC trip and clearly trying to rationalize why it's OK to say yes. I can even deliver this stuff with the seriousness and seeming sincerity that she needs to hear to buy into the rationalization. 😉

But to actually be able to look out through their eyes? Fuck no lol.

Fuck no. I'm just there to get my rocks off. lol I'm not an ass hole to them. Except if they are too persistent or annoying.

The strip club is for them to entertain you. That's what you are paying for. As long as you are respectful, I don't see the problem. They aren't girlfriends or broads you should be trying to emotionally connect with.

Seeing things the way they do is easy. Empathy isnt hard. Its easier and more raw than seeing shit through a delusional republitricks eyes

Yes and no. I can understand their pov and motivations but our lives are radically different and so i don't grasp the emotional substrate that puts them there in the first place.
That is, I get the concrete but not the abstract.

I dont think sucking dick for a girl as equivalent to sucking dick as a guy. A more proper comparison would be sucking grandma pussy or middle aged woman pussy. I wouldnt suck a hairy unwashed pussy and would never demand someone suck my cock if it was hairy or unwashed. If its clean, id suck it for $150.

So you admit youd suck dick for $150

No, middle aged or older pussy

You said youd suck it for $150. You dont suck pussy you eat it. You suck dick

funny...

Over the years I have discovered that strippers look at their customers in the same way I look at my clients. There are some I detest and serve, there are some that I like so much that a day in court feels like a day off whom I serve, and yet, EVERYONE pays. It's a job. I do not strip club locally very often because I do not want to see 99% of my clients in a social setting.

Maybe it's just me, but I don't usually "hate" that kind of guy when I encounter them in the club or while escorting. As long as they aren't assholish with their requests, unhygienic, or cross clearly stated boundaries, I'm pretty neutral on most of my clients and don't get annoyed that they're just focused on getting their dicks wet (pays my bills at the end of the day..) And a good chunk I actually do like seeing. I'd say the split is 30/60/10, 30% i like, 60% i'm neutral on, 10% i actively dislike.

@skibum609 - Have you ever run into a client at a club?
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I take them and their words at face value. They're service providers, same as my mechanic or barber, and I'm their customer, same as I am to my mechanic or barber.
I like them, I wish them the best, but I don't see a duty to be their friend (or sugar daddy), and I don't expect them to really think I'm the most handsome guy with the biggest cock they've ever touched.
I have cash, they have titties, we're making a consensual deal.

Icey thats semantics. You can suck pussy too. Youre being too nitpicky

Suck is honestly more accurate verbiage than Eat for pussy anyway since no chewing or swallowing is really involved

I don't know how women do it. If I was a male stripper working at a women's club, where women came in to have their pussies eaten and to get fucked, I wouldn't be able to do it. There are so many women I find unattractive, and so many pussies I find unattractive (to say the least), I'd have to drink heavily.

Plenty of women don't have good hygiene, and smelly pussies/asses is nothing I'd be willing to deal with on a regular basis. Not to mention all the boring and repetitive conversations that I'd have zero interest in listening to.

Yes, it would be fun having sex with women I found attractive, but most women that would come in to such a place, would make me gag.

Count me in the yes and no camp.

I'm not a psychopath, of course I've got some degree of empathy. And to some degree understanding the perspective of people you do business with is critical to a successful transaction, even more so for ones involving physical intimacy. But I don't spend a whole lot of time thinking about it. I don't think all the strippers love me hope I sweep them off their feet and take them away, but I don't think hate me either. @apieceofsausage's split of 30/60/10 seems like it would fit me, I probably spend 90% of my time with that first 30% of strippers. The majority of the rest is figuring out if we'll get along. As soon as I determine I don't like her or she doesn't like me, I move along.

Dolfan said it well, I don’t really think about strippers from their pov, I tend to see the same few girls at the clubs I go to over again, I assume they enjoy my company the same as I favor girls whom I like. Occasionally I’ll spot someone who attracts me and I’ll have a drink with her, if it goes well I try to fit her into my group of girls I’m friendly with.
I believe that most of the girls I like like me as well, they remember things that we’ve talked about and done, and they all text me if I haven’t visited with them in a bit, also I tend to get a bunch of messages from them regularly at holidays and personal events like birthdays, so I assume if they take the time to remember these things they likely fee about me similar to what I feel for them.

Puddy not only have I run into clients at the club, I ran into my weed dealer of 28 years who pretended he didn't know me and back in the day I went to Mario's and the bartender was the ex-wife of a client and we did far better in court than she did. She had me removed from the club. To be fair, a couple of years later she did say hi and buy me a cold one.

I mean... yes?

It's still a job being if do venture in the club have money but also you gotta dress a little well, clean up a bit and bring some good vibes. No one wants to hang around bum even if they've got money.