Oneitis
There is a condition, sometimes referred to as "oneitis", that a number of younger males succumb to that involves thinking that some girl is so special that they can only be happy with her. Usually as guys get older they realize there are a number of women they can be happy with.
While this condition often happens in romantic relationships, do you think this also applies to strip club customers? I will see someone here starting a discussion looking for some lost favorite stripper. Rather than spending effort trying to locate a girl here where the chances of finding her are small I would just pick another girl from the strip clubs here in Indianapolis. Many of my favorites have sadly left but I realize this is not a lifetime career for them and am prepared for them leaving at some point.
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I think oneitis is about ego and jealousy and isn't about being happy at all. Its about wanting what you can't have or worse wanting what you think you should have. It ABSOLUTELY happens in clubs and I'm stunned how much of that is out there.
Now the "lost fav stripper" posts are goofy, its 2025 she has a IG that will show you where she is if she wants you to know. if you don't know she doesn't want you to know. I'm like A Pimp Named Slick Back, I know where all my bitches are.
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It depends on the reason behind it. If its a genuine missed connection or even just that grail. Or if its obsession or weird shit.
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