The one vs the many

dannyboy3Illinois
At my regular club I've gotten to the point where there are 4 or 5 dancers that I enjoy and treat me well. The club isn't an extras club, although it can happen. These girls will push the limits for me, although each does it differently.
So here's where I want your opinions. The upside is that there is always someone to spend time with and I get good variety, the downside is that I can quickly blow through my planned spending getting multiple danves with multiple girls.
For those that either have those experience or have a ln ATF which do you think is better and why? Assume I will see a similar level of intimacy either way.
I await your opinions
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last commentI've had the exact same experience and yes it gets expensive juggling several girls.
Best suggestion narrow it down to one or two. Choose the ones you have the most fun with making sure they're not the jealous type.
Plan ahead only see one regular per visit, less stress, money will go further and you'll probably get more attention from that dancer
I've been in a similar situation, once with four extras dancers in one club, all very often working at the same time. I've tended to focus on one per visit, and just tip the others. Next visit, a different one gets my focus. since they were extras girls, and the club was a known extras club, and there were no shortage of dicks to suck, this arrangement worked out.
One night, they came to me and said, "we know you like to see all four of us, so we've decided that's OK."
What I did NOT say in response, but thought to myself, was, "That's good, because anyone who wasn't OK with it doesn't get my money at all."
Gods, those were the days.
I too tend to frequent clubs with low extras girls. My outlay is mostly barside as I don't get anything from pointless LDs, yet I want to reward those who entertain me.
If I'm seeing one of the girls OTC, then I tend to focus my ITC spending on her as well. Getting horizontal with me on a regular basis should have its privileges. Besides, IME, girls who don't do extras ITC tend to get more territorial over OTC regulars who visit the club, no doubt both for discretion and competition reasons.
I know that there are plenty of idealists here who will say, "It's my money and I can spend it how I want" or "If she doesn't like it, I'll find someone who is OK with it" or something similar. Hey, I get it. But in my ample experience on this matter, low extras girls who agree to OTC, often only after multiple club visits, tend to react poorly when they think that the arrangements and/or their privacy are at risk.
But if I'm not seeing anyone OTC at the moment, then it's open season. Though I may start to focus on one or two girls if I sense OTC potential developing.
I would pit them against each other to try to get better deals. Oh $150 you say? well Lexi gives blow jobs for $100 even. Pssst. I hear Kiki's sleeping with DJ, but you didn't hear that from me. And that ain't even the half of it. Lie, cause chaos and just be an overall passive aggressive, sassy drama needy bitch that's at the center of it all. Yeah none of that could backfire in the least.
Treat it like a strip club version of "The Bachelor"
The assumption that the level of intimacy will stay the same seems fundamentally incorrect but either way I would still say prioritize keeping your options open. Especially if you have no other conveniently accessible clubs that you can regularly patronize, ie. no other dancers outside this little posse you've collected, then you stand to end up stuck with one girl after you narrow it down and alienate the others. I can't think of anything worse.
But I also go to the club specifically because I enjoy exploring lots of different body types and dancers styles, and I've never developed a deep relationship with any girls (except the one who runs my life) so what do I know.
Final Answer: Many, because grabbing a bunch of different chicks' asses in one night is the best part of being in a SC.
@rickdugan: "If I'm seeing one of the girls OTC, then I tend to focus my ITC spending on her as well."
This. When my ATF was still dancing, she was the only one in the club who got my money. The bartender and the other dancers knew it. Once in a while anothr girl would try her luck, and I'd politely decline. My ATF always said she didn't care, but she always seemed pleased when I turned them down.
Same thing with my current SB, though with her, as fun and playful as she is, I'm sure that's at least about the money as it is about me "straying".
It's better to have multiple dancers at the club who you enjoy spending time with. How to do this without upsetting them will really depend on the club dynamics and the individual dancer's personality.
You can argue or over think this one all day. There are pros and cons to either side, and in my opinion it really comes down to what you prefer. My experience tends to be more in extras clubs, as that's what's common in my area. But I don't think it makes a whole lot of difference, at least in this particular topic.
Given your assumption that the level of intimacy will not change by focusing on one dancer vs spreading your attention among half a dozen, it really then boils down to your preference. If you value consistency and familiarity, one girl would be better. If you value variety, obviously going for multiple would be better. But I don't think that's a fair assumption. As others have said, loyalty has its befits. I've found that showing some sort of loyalty towards my favorite stripper prompts to her do the same in return.
I tend to walk the line a bit, I'll usually have a favorite at one club that I'll see OTC & ITC, for the most part to the exclusion of all others at least when she's around. Then I'll have another club where I'll kinda spread it around a bit. That allows me to sorta have my cake and eat it too. At one club, I've got a fave stripper who'll go above and beyond to keep me as a customer. In return I show her the same courtesy. And then at another club I've got a handful of girls that I see often enough where they'll treat me well but they aren't concerned about jeopardizing the arrangement and we're not doing anything they'd have significant privacy concerns over.
It serves two purposes. One, I can choose what I'm in the mood for. I have the fave, I can usually call up for OTC or make plans to see ITC. Or I can pop into her club if she's there. I can also go to the other club, have a few drinks, laughs, and if I choose a couple table or lap dances with a few different girls. The second thing is it allows me to have those second group of girls on deck. We've got a rapport, a level of trust and mutual respect. It wouldn't take much to promote one of them to a fave. I have to mostly cut off the others and reestablish bullpen at the other club again to do so. But it works for me.
Well Muddy's approach is....something. I think i might narrow it down and see how it goes. Maybe have 2 regulars and a couple of one dance friends
GMD “One night, they came to me and said, "we know you like to see all four of us, so we've decided that's OK”
I thought they were about to offer you a fivesome.
If your willing to pay more and the girls are bicurious or okay being in proximity to other nudes girls, you could arrange a threesome, foursome, even a fivesome. The skys the limit for a wealthy man like yourself