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Accepting the Bottom Line and Moving On . . .

jablake

My main protection when dealing with highly skilled dancers is paying even if it is less than the going rates. The "free" services, by this I mean offers of totally free where the situation appears too much like a normal relationship, have to be foregone.

Doesn't matter if the "free" is offered in good faith or is just an advanced con. Let me repeat that: Doesn't matter if the "free" is offered in good faith or is just an advanced con. Of course, this only applies if you actually don't want a real relationship. :)

Gambling dancer is only willing to provide "free" services. :( As difficult as this is to do, for me, I just have to accept that and move on to either a platonic relationship or no relationship. Do I believe she is on the level after all these years? It may sound harsh, but I don't care. I sure as heck wouldn't be a good boyfriend or catch, and she definitely isn't the sweet loving girlfriend in non-customer relationships. LOL! :)

Also, it didn't escape my notice that she provoked such harsh reactions by her appearance alone. Contrary to what neighbors and friends (and perhaps even gambling dancer) may think, I'm not some naive school boy. If anything, I'm too cynical and non-trusting.

She is a skilled actress and she is also a huntress that loves the game. Her sole reason for taking this action of insisting on "free" may be simply to up the stakes. :) The money being a much more secondary consideration because she can make significantly more with almost any other customer.

I will DEFINITELY be missing her services, but it looks like the long dance has come to the end game and it is time to pass.


I hope this little post has been of some helpful interest especially to those who might be too tempted to not only test a dancer's trap, but more importantly take it too seriously. By too seriously, I mean if she calls the game you feel hurt and cheated.

I LOVE DANCERS!!! :)