Strippers who look down on other strippers

My general experience is when a stripper sits down she’ll tell you all the girls here get along so well whether you’re at club A B or C. My take on that it is for some reason they think it’s good hustle to say they all get along so well. But You’d have to be two kinds of naive to believe it. there’s money on the line, it’s very serious competition, and there is going to be resentment or even anger between strippers (those who swoop in on a customer first,those who generally just make more/get more attention, room vs pole, day vs night). There’s probably a general female element to it too. Now add in the Inter club element of reputation, cleanliness looks quality etc. yes there will be some I’m working at A and it’s better than B etc. IME there’s some truth to that for everyone whether it’s stripping, car salesman, engineer, waiter or generally what company you work for (you work at Acme while I work at Apple).

That just sounds typically human, not anything particular to strippers.

Seems like high-income women still want an LTR. They don't necessarily seem to care if they're with somebody who makes less than they do. They probably don't want someone making minimum wage But that's probably not about money, it's about not being attracted to someone who lacks talents and/or doesn't set and achieve goals.

Once in a while this can really work in your favor. It doesn’t happen often but when it does it is beautiful. I was getting a LD at LUST from a 8/10 brunette Jersey college girl type who told me a story about how disgusting Delilah’s Den was because of how much some of the girls do there. She told me that she left after working there one day after what she saw. I agreed that sounded disgusting and the proceeded to look it up on tuscl. Had one of the best LDs in my life from a 7/10 blonde Jersey party girl type at DD.

@ilbbaicnl: There's plenty of evidence that women do care about finding someone who makes more than they do. It's a status thing. Woman are wired to look for high status men and a woman who makes a big income will be hard pressed to see someone who is less successful by traditional metrics as high status.

To socialize women compliment women and are lying. To socialize men insult men, and are joking.

I use an example such as that cited by StripClubXpert as a lead to better girls/activities? "Oh, yeah???? DD girls are filthy whores, you say?". Hey, where are you going, fun???? "To DD; thanks for the lead".

Ultimately, it's all about the $ to the girls. They look down their noses at those providing more action, as it means they need to do more to get your funds, or forego those payments.

I like when girls bad-mouth the action girls, as I use the information as my indicator that it's time to stop feeding funds to the low-action girl.

I've had girls remark at their repulsion toward commando guys, not knowing that I am often one of the commando guys. I even had one girl make the comment while I was currently commando while she was on my lap. I called her out on it, and she played it off as "yeah; I know you're commando....I don't mind it...I just wanted to mess with you". As she was a favorite of mine, I allowed her to continue, and she performed quite well, so it didn't impact quality of dance.

Girls will do as little as they need to get our funds. They will crank up their participation up to their level of comfort. I'm not sure why they feel the need to share their disdain for the higher-action girls, other than to perhaps cause us to question if we REALLY want to associate with the supposed filthy girls.

Non-extras girls "hate us because they ain't us". They shame extras girls, thus why it's difficult to run into girls who are extras friendly at clubs like Coliseum. They scare the customers away bitching about extras. I've heard about so many guys asking at Coli, but haven't had anyone approach or ask me. 😒

Haha, you're never there when I go to Coli, BubbleYum!

It's odd to me there are so many negative posts about Cubans. From other dancers, I get it, but to me as a PL, they're God's gift. Generally, with American dancers, the more wild they are, the more depressing/destine for misery they seem. Whereas the Cubans tend to be both super wild, and to have their act together.

I believe the anti-Cuban sentiment is driven by their aggressiveness. Ironically, PLs like to go for the sure thing, yet when Cubans are aggressive, some PLs get scared, rather than thanking the Cubans for making visits easy.

In my experience, dancers in clip joints tend to be overly aggressive/annoying. Cuban or not.

Has nothing to do with strippers. Women in general can be extremely insecure and many feel threatened by other women (especially attractive ones). Back when I co-ran the IT department at a law firm, there were a ton of fine attorneys, legal assistants and paralegals that worked there. They would try to outdo each other with how tight/short their skirts could be. They would compete to see who could get a response from their tickets faster. And I have walked into an office where two or three women were in there chit-chatting and laughing at each other’s jokes. When I get there to work on the ticket, the other two left and the attorney who’s ticket I was there to work on began to start talking about the other 2 that just left out…

They would spread rumors about each other sleeping with partners or whomever and just talk bad in general about each other all under the guise of being “friends”. Some of them actually did hang out and do happy hour after work occasionally. Eventually, there were some blowups and HR got involved and the whole 9. So all of this is just to say that I think it’s just what some women do, regardless of profession.

That's very uncalled for, comparing strippers to lawyers.

You always have a slick remark for everything. Go back to stalking dancers online.

From my experience it is true a lot of dancers do look down especially on other dancers who work at other clubs but like anything it is survival of the fittest and just with anything within each club there is a click of girls who don't like another click of girls but that's the way it is and it's hard for a newbie to come in because now she's caught between two or three sets of girls who are eyeing her up and trying to figure out you know whether or not she looks like she belongs to one of their groups kind of like a sorority...lol...

I have never been an extras girl and I think most of the clubs I worked at weren't extra clubs but there may be some shenanigans going on I mean I can't be everywhere and know what everyone is doing in a bar in a dance room in the manager's office... And honestly working at Philly I worked at the craziest go-go bar in the city no matter what club I went to soon as I would say where I worked they were like oh that's a dive that sucks the girls are horrible just some of the comments people would make I would just so in essence they kind of look down on me but of course then when I got to their bar audition and got hired at their bar they kind of changed their tune either a little bit about liking me more or they were just totally distressed that they couldn't believe that somebody worked at the crazy bar could actually work at an "upstanding" bar like theirs... Unfortunately for some of these girls who didn't like me any I was a crowd favorite and the bartenders usually loved me because all my nights off or if I worked at other bars and finished early those patrons would follow me to whatever other go-go bar I wanted to frequent usually because I was friends with other dancers and other bars so if I had time I would go see my girlfriend's dance and so I would just bring along the crowd if I could sometimes it was only one or two people sometimes I could bring five or six people so bartenders got to love that along with the girls of course especially if it was a slow night

But in my last 8 years of working I worked three bars that were only a few blocks from each other and a lot of the girls also worked all three bars you know some may have only worked two bars but a lot of us interchanged bars so we were pretty tight knit group... We all hung out drink had picnics together kind of knew each other's family or had at least met some people within their families slept over each other's houses so I would say that's a pretty tight group and instead of us looking down on each other we would play off each other

Like at my one club if I'd be up on stage and you know just dancing and you know looking out at the crowd and saying hello to Joe schmo and trying to have a conversation across the bar you know maybe I'd see you know my girlfriend dancer you know coming up to the bar to get a drink or whatever and I'd be like why don't you come on up here girlfriend and of course you know depending on what she was doing you know she may come up come on the stage with me and you know we may do a little cute two girl dance then of course you know the guys were crazy about that and then we were all done we go down and get tips you probably got more tips cuz that's what guys want to see

And not only that a lot of girls really got to appreciate me since I was ready older than most of them in fact I probably was older than any girl working at the club when I started later cuz already I was then 35 so there may have been some who may have been in there early 30s but you figure I work till I was 50 sometimes they would look up to me as I would say they're older aunt and they would ask me questions and you know what should they do you know like with their scenario that they needed help with and I would just try to give him my best guess you know or give them some different possibilities of what they could do and I wasted stress to the younger girls that this is not a career you know it's good for the money good temporarily but why you're doing this you got to look to go to get back to school so you can have a little bit normal life cuz there's nothing normal about being a stripper unless you have a really good head on your shoulders

And the only reason I had a really good head on my shoulder is cuz I danced for a few years when I was younger so of course I was like a wild child doing whatever I did going wherever I went spending all kinds of money not paying attention to what I'm spending it on I probably lost a lot of money cuz I wasn't paying attention to what my bookkeeper was doing with it but when I started back being 35 I was already pretty well versed in the world... I tried to get a lot of the girls to start a savings account because honestly fast money spends fast and if you don't have it on the books of like how much you make and how much you're spending you don't have a recollection of anything cuz at least if you had the books you could say oh man I really need to save more spend less but of course that's an any business

But not always easy to do because there's always stuff you need and of course with dancers you sort of have to keep up with the times you need your hair and nails done you have to keep having new clothing new shoes cuz you don't want to keep wearing the same stuff especially if you work at the same club for long periods of time

So anyway that's my rant for now

My fav who is 30 has been dancing since she was 18. The younger dancers call her "OG" or "OG mom".

I had another fav who would invite her regulars along when she was getting together with other strippers. But she didn't consider whether the other dancers wanted customers there. Awkwaaaaard . Especially if any of the dancers brought their SOs. I mean, it never got ugly or anything. I would ask her if she was sure everyone was cool with customers coming. She would always assume, since she was cool with me, everyone should be. (Yes, overbearing tendencies.)

Since most of the girls all worked the same bars within like a 5-mile proximity we all pretty much knew all the customers from all the bars at least all the regulars anyhow and in any event more customers mean more money for the dancers and the bartenders and the bouncers and the DJ...

Lawyers are the same way. Always bad mouthing each other. Everyone fighting for the same business is the commonality.

It truly is survival of the fittest these days... And whatever business you're in it's whoever's willing to do the most and go the furthest to get ahead of everybody else..