Real Girls Vs Strippers
Dustyhawkins
I know I know I been posting a lot lately, literally this is my 3rd post in a row, I don't mean to be going overboard and talking too much here but I just like it the community and support how we're all into strippers and help each other out my post is gonna be pretty long but bare with me if you can read through it all
So today what I wanted to discuss is probably my biggest topic which should be a hit, which is real girls that you go out and pick up genuinely no money involved versuses strippers that you resort to and pay for their service. So about that I just wanted to talk like how it's so different, and I was also wondering if anyone here in the strip club community still approaches regular girls.
Cause for me lately I've just been at the strip clubs alot, it's been a while for me since I actually made an effort to go out and approach girls, the thing is in today's world and society it's just so fucked you know, like how everyone in this world is so weird and uptight and can get you in trouble or how people are always trying to cause a scene, like especially approaching girls or starting to talk to them today out in public or anywhere you are and run into a hot girl you wanna talk to, it's way too hard in today's world none ever talk anymore, they just ignore completely or they will talk very little but are so defensive and make you feel weird or bad for trying to talk to her.
I used to approach girls alot alot when I was younger like college ages 19, 21, 22 etc. But not anymore. That time the world was a little more calm things weren't as strict you can get away with more people would actually talk and not be so crazy or sensitive over literally nothing. That time I used to go ham like hardcore, college campus was the best place to approach girls cause there was hundreds of students and of the age range young adults late teens/early 20s as long as they're 18+ obviously then you're good. But yeah back then I used to approach a lot of girls all the time every other day all week, like 20-40 girls a day, many approaches it was fun back then they would give the time of day talk more take things slow, let you make your point hear you out
But now it's like way way different, like it's seen as very unacceptable in society like everyone looks at you like your commiting a crime for literally saying hi and being friendly and non threatening to a girl like wtf lol. That's the reason I've been at strip clubs more cause at least they're cool I know your paying for it but strip club your allowed to do that. Its a service, and it's a lot more acceptable there, it's that kind of environment since the girls are naked and it's a sexual environment. At strip clubs anything goes almost you can talk to girls laugh, fuck around, say whatever, make sex jokes they don't care. Like I also go to the strip club just to enjoy the company and social aspect and semi party scene as well like talk to girls, like I always make sexual jokes and innuendos with them like I'm so horny I busted my pants, or when she asks what can I get you to drink, I'll be like a bottle of titty milk hahaha, and she'll just laugh the bartender I obviously laugh back too and let them know that I'm being playful and just using adult humor, obviously not being super creepy and like actually meaning it
Like you know what I mean I mean some strippers may still get slightly offended but most love the jokes and sex jokes and fun and all that, like you can say lovely titties or u make me hard etc like strip club u can get away with most stuff cause like I said it's that type of place they get you, and know your just fking with them not serious. Just for the laughs I know I keep repeating myself but just wanted to make sure I'm clear so you know before criticizing me.
But yeah you can do all that in the strip clubs but regular girls fuuuuuuddggeeeeee noooooooo hahahhahaha if you say any of that your done deal, your like fked at that point hahahaha. Obviously regular girls I never ever approach like that, usually I'm cool friendly light hearted, just make conversation maturely compliment on t shirt necklace etc. Just try to make female friends also someone to kick it with it's not always about sex.
So yeah basically I was just getting everyone's take on this subject of how it's so different cause strippers require money and your set you can get any dance, vip whatever she'll love you and be cool and let you do whatever, but outside girl she doesn't care about the money, you have to actually genuinely pick her up through game, seduction all that, I mean maybe you need a little money still but it doesn't matter as much. Maybe just like 20-$35 bucks get some ice cream or small food together hahaha.
Also to add to this subject I heard before and learned that you can also pick up strippers without money too there's even like books specifically for the stripper version how to not fall into the customer trap and be seen as the different high value man. I still don't mind paying for the stripper and her service but it would be pretty fking cool to have that skill to get her actually hahaha, you'd have to be like advanced expert level for that. I think it's basically just like regular game your normal pickup except in a strip club
Cause I even see it happen all the time she will go with a guy sit on his lap for an hour without even him purchasing anything and they'll exchange numbers then part ways. Like she'll ignore one customer then go to another guy and spend all this time and actually dance on him in the open and sit on his lap in front of everyone like she's actually into him and not just his money, so it can happen.
I'm sure theres ways and it's possible you gotta know how to stand out and own up don't fall into the traps or be so easy. But like I said that's not that big of a deal to me anyway, I'm totally fine still paying for it I don't care. My main subject was from earlier about how strippers and girls you pick up outside is so different and how it seems like so risky or trouble to do it, anyone experience or in the same boat as me? Let me know thanks again guys for listening and reading my stuff, I appreciate you all, much love and best luck in the strip club world
So today what I wanted to discuss is probably my biggest topic which should be a hit, which is real girls that you go out and pick up genuinely no money involved versuses strippers that you resort to and pay for their service. So about that I just wanted to talk like how it's so different, and I was also wondering if anyone here in the strip club community still approaches regular girls.
Cause for me lately I've just been at the strip clubs alot, it's been a while for me since I actually made an effort to go out and approach girls, the thing is in today's world and society it's just so fucked you know, like how everyone in this world is so weird and uptight and can get you in trouble or how people are always trying to cause a scene, like especially approaching girls or starting to talk to them today out in public or anywhere you are and run into a hot girl you wanna talk to, it's way too hard in today's world none ever talk anymore, they just ignore completely or they will talk very little but are so defensive and make you feel weird or bad for trying to talk to her.
I used to approach girls alot alot when I was younger like college ages 19, 21, 22 etc. But not anymore. That time the world was a little more calm things weren't as strict you can get away with more people would actually talk and not be so crazy or sensitive over literally nothing. That time I used to go ham like hardcore, college campus was the best place to approach girls cause there was hundreds of students and of the age range young adults late teens/early 20s as long as they're 18+ obviously then you're good. But yeah back then I used to approach a lot of girls all the time every other day all week, like 20-40 girls a day, many approaches it was fun back then they would give the time of day talk more take things slow, let you make your point hear you out
But now it's like way way different, like it's seen as very unacceptable in society like everyone looks at you like your commiting a crime for literally saying hi and being friendly and non threatening to a girl like wtf lol. That's the reason I've been at strip clubs more cause at least they're cool I know your paying for it but strip club your allowed to do that. Its a service, and it's a lot more acceptable there, it's that kind of environment since the girls are naked and it's a sexual environment. At strip clubs anything goes almost you can talk to girls laugh, fuck around, say whatever, make sex jokes they don't care. Like I also go to the strip club just to enjoy the company and social aspect and semi party scene as well like talk to girls, like I always make sexual jokes and innuendos with them like I'm so horny I busted my pants, or when she asks what can I get you to drink, I'll be like a bottle of titty milk hahaha, and she'll just laugh the bartender I obviously laugh back too and let them know that I'm being playful and just using adult humor, obviously not being super creepy and like actually meaning it
Like you know what I mean I mean some strippers may still get slightly offended but most love the jokes and sex jokes and fun and all that, like you can say lovely titties or u make me hard etc like strip club u can get away with most stuff cause like I said it's that type of place they get you, and know your just fking with them not serious. Just for the laughs I know I keep repeating myself but just wanted to make sure I'm clear so you know before criticizing me.
But yeah you can do all that in the strip clubs but regular girls fuuuuuuddggeeeeee noooooooo hahahhahaha if you say any of that your done deal, your like fked at that point hahahaha. Obviously regular girls I never ever approach like that, usually I'm cool friendly light hearted, just make conversation maturely compliment on t shirt necklace etc. Just try to make female friends also someone to kick it with it's not always about sex.
So yeah basically I was just getting everyone's take on this subject of how it's so different cause strippers require money and your set you can get any dance, vip whatever she'll love you and be cool and let you do whatever, but outside girl she doesn't care about the money, you have to actually genuinely pick her up through game, seduction all that, I mean maybe you need a little money still but it doesn't matter as much. Maybe just like 20-$35 bucks get some ice cream or small food together hahaha.
Also to add to this subject I heard before and learned that you can also pick up strippers without money too there's even like books specifically for the stripper version how to not fall into the customer trap and be seen as the different high value man. I still don't mind paying for the stripper and her service but it would be pretty fking cool to have that skill to get her actually hahaha, you'd have to be like advanced expert level for that. I think it's basically just like regular game your normal pickup except in a strip club
Cause I even see it happen all the time she will go with a guy sit on his lap for an hour without even him purchasing anything and they'll exchange numbers then part ways. Like she'll ignore one customer then go to another guy and spend all this time and actually dance on him in the open and sit on his lap in front of everyone like she's actually into him and not just his money, so it can happen.
I'm sure theres ways and it's possible you gotta know how to stand out and own up don't fall into the traps or be so easy. But like I said that's not that big of a deal to me anyway, I'm totally fine still paying for it I don't care. My main subject was from earlier about how strippers and girls you pick up outside is so different and how it seems like so risky or trouble to do it, anyone experience or in the same boat as me? Let me know thanks again guys for listening and reading my stuff, I appreciate you all, much love and best luck in the strip club world
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I go to civilian women for relationships and real connections. I go to dancers for convenience and superficial fun.
Also, I'm self aware enough to know that if I approach a smokeshow hot civilian woman in her 20s for anything except perhaps directions, it's probably not going to work out as planned (unless I wake up some morning with George Clooney's looks and bank account).
When it comes to sex, women have to be careful. If they say or do the "wrong" thing, they'll likely be judged harshly, with harsh consequences. So it's a guessing game what they really want in their heart of hearts. My best guess is that, on average, they are less thirsty than men. When they're attractive and also thirsty enough for NSA sex, they're in a position to be picky. Some pick gym rats, some pick psychopaths, some pick the artsy types. But it's hard to make the cut generally, just as a nice, decent looking guy.
Strippers are not all the same. What sets them apart is, on average, they are less chickenshit than people in general. Other than that, I've not noticed and clear average difference between strippers and non-strippers.
Strippers are cool cause it's their job they know your gonna pay them or they'll get you somehow through time to pay them
Based on the title of your post, I’ll respond you can have a premeditated game plan about how to compartmentalize your life into the two groups. Many guys struggle with that as the girls they get in real life don’t look like the strippers they pay and the strippers come with more baggage or don’t commit like the civvies.
Or, you can live your life as it comes, enjoying strippers but keeping your options open for civvies. You’ll likely have the same risks as above but you’ll have a different approach.
If you fuck it up, divorce is always an option.
I’ve been operating under the assumption strippers are real girls, at least the strippers I’m playing with are.
makes sense. men lose a lot of their assets due to the way the laws are structured. staying hitched would be the safest play.
but my question is this: do women regret it eventually as they suddenly over time realize that they guy they left was most ideal to be with overall? generally speaking they're usually left with options that are usually worse off.
I’m guessing by your response to my post, you’re not well versed in sarcasm
LOL
To your point of sensitivities in/out of the club. The club is a place of business entertainment, with the entertainment being women who figure out what you want and cater to that fantasy/need. Then we pay them. With that transaction comes objectification, which makes it "ok" to make direct observations/compliments on the womens physical attributes. Objectification outside of the club is frowned upon, even though we ALL know we're doing it every time we see a "fine girl."
Yeah strip club u make it whatever fantasy u want, most are down for anything hahahah
That said, he interest in you is only in your money. It's different than a genuine connection.
You can tell when it's fake like heyyyyy babyyyy I love thoooseeee glasses, ur cuteeee, omg ur my favoriteeeeeeee obviously there's a difference u can tell hahahahah
They’re paid to be your “friend”; it’s a job and a transaction, nothing more. Accept that for happiness.
https://youtu.be/WXBHCQYxwr0
I will play along and comment on your discussion.
Remember All activities, sexual or not, in our capitalist society have a cost in money, time and effort.
With respect to relationship with women in general you can call them civilians and or strippers if you want ; I would refer you to Demosthenes (384 – 12 October 322 BC)
Greek statesman and orator of ancient Athens.
1. We have courtesans for the sake of pleasure.
2. Concubines for the daily health of our bodies, and
3. Wives to bear us lawful offspring and be the faithful guardians of our homes
In this list is the Greek view of woman in the classic age.
And in all ages and times.
All men want that, but only some can afford it...
In today’s world Demosthenes would say:
1. We have high end escorts, centerfolds, actresses, models, Strippers (ITC OTC) etc that provide PSE/GFE for the sake of pleasure.
2. Mistresses/Sugar Babies/; etc, for the daily health of our bodies.
3. Trophy Girlfriends/Wives to bear us lawful offspring, and be the faithful guardians of our homes.
4. Realistic Sex Dolls/Gynoids/Fembots, and Internet Porn and Instagram/Onlyfans “Models”, for kicks-and-giggles”
Remember
“In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.”
~ Cuban refugee Tony Montana (Al Pacino) in the movie Scarface.
If you have the money and can afford it, buy it and enjoy it, if you don’t have the money or you can’t afford it economically, mentally, morally, emotionally, physically, intellectually etc etc etc then don’t buy things you can’t afford…
But yeah gotta just enjoy the journey there will always be nice and rude mean ones. Just spend your money or time on the good sweethearts, and I'm sure everytime you visit the club the same bitch girl will come up and say want a dance, or talk a bit and try to get you to spend but you will keep saying no, and then she'll learn over time why you are saying no to her services and it's because she was that brat with the messed up attitude. Cause if you say yes and still give her a chance she's not gonna learn she's gonna keep being a brat and screw everyone else over
If you say no and don't give her the satisfaction she will learn her fucking lesson not to be that way and change so she can make money haha haha man it's all good!!! :)