Advantages of bars vesus paradas?

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• san_jose_guy

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  2 years ago

  I my opinion, the SG are cleaner living, especially in TJ. Less smoke, less alcohol. Also less beholden to anyone like bar operators.
  
  But the Bar is more conducive to that initial make out and feel up session. So it takes a little skill to set it up with SG to work as well.
  
  But I want to here from our TJ experts on this.
  
  SJG
• JAprufrock

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  2 years ago

  "But the Bar is more conducive to that initial make out and feel up session. So it takes a little skill to set it up with SG to work as well."
  
  @san_jose_guy, SGs are becoming increasingly receptive to the BAMOS, the elusive back alley makeout session.
• OPIllini96

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  2 years ago

  @JAprufrock: that's an interesting development regarding the SGs. Usually they don't want a guy to even touch them unless he's agreed to get their services. It's something I'll try in a couple of weeks when I'm there.
• OPIllini96

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  2 years ago

  @libbaicni: You don't have to be fluent in Spanish when dealing with SGs, but learning a few basic phrases helps. For example,
  
  - disculpe, senorita: "excuse me, miss"
  - hola, como estas?: "Hello, how are you?"
  - cuanto cuesta: "how much?"
  - sexo: sex
  - gracias: thank you
  - de nada: you're welcome
  
  veinte: $20
  cinco: $5
  
  This is how much most transactions with SGs cost. Hope this helps
• OPIllini96

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  2 years ago

  I would add using Google Translate is a plus with your dealings with both SGs and BGs (girls who work in the bars like Hong Kong and Adelita).
• Papi_Chulo

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  2 years ago

  ^ I think JAprufrock was being facetious in an inside-joke kinda way
• OPIllini96

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  2 years ago

  @Papi, you have a good point now that I think about it. My experience is SGs don't allow any kind of PDA. To be honest, most of them are very much businesslike - they want to get you in, get you off, and get you out ASAP, with little if any of a GFE.
• san_jose_guy

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  2 years ago

  I nominate JAprufrock for TUSCL member of the year!
  
  "@san_jose_guy, SGs are becoming increasingly receptive to the BAMOS, the elusive back alley makeout session."
  
  And OPIllini96, I am sure that up front generosity helps! Complement her on what she is wearing, like on her high heels, and tell her that you know she has expense, and then place money into her hand. Or tell her that you are buying her her shoes.
  
  I had actually asked about this before, sidewalk makeout sessions. Some said not to try it because of these self-appointed vigilantes. Very pleased to hear that it is happening!
  
  SJG
  
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• san_jose_guy

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  2 years ago

  Complement her on what she is wearing, like her high heels, and tell her that you know she has expenses, then tell her about yourself and why you are in TJ, and then tell her, "I want you to let me take care of you."
  
  And then "I am buying you your shoes," and then place money into her hands.
  
  SJG
• san_jose_guy

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  2 years ago

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