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Was my lapdance good, average or bad mileage.

Wednesday, April 27, 2022 12:14 AM
I was free to touch the pussy with hands, but no fingering. Free to touch nipples and ass, asscrack and everything. My concern is, during the dance, the dancer would grind the pussy on my crotch area, but only for maybe 20 seconds at a time, then she would switch positions and straddle/grind her pussy on my thigh while facing towards me, then switch to straddling my thigh while facing away from me. I was totally unaware and didn’t care about nutting during the dance. So I didn’t think to ask her to keep grinding me for the full 30 minutes. I just let her do her normal routine stuff. I also didn’t think to ask her, to play with my willy from outside the pants area. Now I’m thinking i got screwed and didn’t get my money’s worth. Seeing people’s descriptions on here it seems handjobs from outside the pants and LDK’s are bare minimums when getting VIP. I spent $600 multiple weeks in a row, and didn’t get any playing with my willy, nor any LDKing, and the dancer didn’t grind on my crotch for the entire hour. And sometimes instead of grinding on the crotch she would bounce the ass up and down on the crotch instead of grinding. I’m concerned I got ripped off massively. I spent over $2000 over several weeks. I don’t know if I got my money’s worth. I don’t know why I didn’t think to ask for an LDK, with that much money involved.

14 comments

  • san_jose_guy
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    2 years ago
    Focus on Front Room Make Out and Feel Up Sessions, then back room FS, then taking your girl to be regularly. Pick the girl you want and get under her skin. SJG real good! The Thrill is Gone + Summertime (BB king + George Gershwin cover) [view link]
  • rickmacrodong
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    2 years ago
    SJG, i dont have the skills for that. Dancers dont seem to be into making out, due to disease risks. I have received many kisses on the cheeks and head. To be honest, i dont want to be licking anything on a dancer either. I have felt up dancers in the front room. Some stuff your face in their ass or boobs, to try to sell dances. Dancers ive previously gotten dances with, do that kind of stuff for fun. I don’t think feeling up the dancers in the front room has any correlation with taking them OTC. Many dancers seem to offer feelups, in an attempt to sell dances.
  • Tetradon
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    2 years ago
    @BTE, or do what you like and ignore this broken-record cretin. Personally, I don't get dances longer than 15 minutes, because I know all her moves by then. If you want her to do something, ask. Preferably in advance. If you're not sure, get a couple dances outside before taking the VIP plunge. You only get "ripped off" if you don't get something you're explicitly promised. You learned some lessons the hard way.
  • san_jose_guy
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    2 years ago
    Oh, that hygiene stuff is just talk. You learn how to come on to them and they know they will be seeing you outside and they'll be turbo DFKing. SJG real good! The Thrill is Gone + Summertime (BB king + George Gershwin cover) [view link] George Gershwin [view link]
  • rickmacrodong
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    2 years ago
    Tetra wht do you think about the mileage level in my dance? I was so dumb, i didnt care about LDKing, so didn bother asking for an OTP handy or requesting a grind for the full duration of vip I could ask her next time, but dont know if ill go there again
  • rickmacrodong
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    2 years ago
    SJG isnt a risk to do DFK especially with a dancer or escort With the feel up in front room, i dont know if it means anything. Dancers who refuse OTC still let you feel them up, and sometimes play with Johnny in the front room
  • Tetradon
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    2 years ago
    @BTE, I think mileage is relative to what you want. Some guys here just want air dances. Some guys consider anything less than bareback fucking not to be worth it. What you described would probably miss the cut for further action, FOR ME. But my standards might not be the same as yours. It sounds like you left disappointed and threw good money after bad, which is why I said you learned some lessons the hard way. She did not "rip you off," my definition of ripping someone off is promising something, anything that they do not deliver. If you want to cum from dances (without extras), take a girl for some $20-30 lappers and make sure she grinds/jerks you like her life depends on it. You might not find them in a lot of clubs. And some guys LDK easily, while others can't at all. Not sure where you fall, LDKers are born, not made. Read my 111 Rules of Strip Clubbing ([view link] ).
  • rickmacrodong
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    2 years ago
    Tetra it seems some girls want to encourage LDKing whereas some want to avoid them? What are the reasons for this? Someone mentioned apparently some LDK you intentionally to get more business and to prevent other dancers from dancing with you?
  • san_jose_guy
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    2 years ago
    BTE, you can live like the elderly Howard Hughes, everything covered in plastic, all food and drink sterilized, and of course no one can touch him, and having to buy the Vegas hotel cause they don't want him there. I don't recommend that though. The women who dance in strip clubs are just ordinary girls, and once you realize this, things will get real nice with them. SJG The Thrill is Gone + Summertime (BB king + George Gershwin cover) [view link]
  • Tetradon
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    2 years ago
    That might be the case. I think some feel like it's a conquest, same way civvie girls feel accomplished when they make you cum in their mouth. Others think it's gross, they don't realize that if you rub the lamp enough, the genie comes out. Last girl I LDKed with told me early in the 15 minute VIP that she wanted to make me cum, and I said "OK" even though I hadn't planned on it. It's a non-extras club with the VIPs behind a sheer curtain in a well-trafficked area. She stroked and grinded right on my dick, nibbled and licked my ear and told me how bad she wanted me to cum for her, let me suck her tits, and eventually I finished. We high fived and hugged afterwards. Teamwork.
  • Eltriste
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    2 years ago
    You paid for a dance you got a dance
  • rl27
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    2 years ago
    You got a low mileage dance, with plenty of two way contact dance with very minimal grinding. Depending on how much it costs, how hot she is, this type of dance can be a good warmup dance while I wait for the high mileage dancer to be available.
  • rickmacrodong
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    2 years ago
    Eltriste there’s different things in dances.
  • gammanu95
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    2 years ago
    Don't feed the trolls.
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