Was my lapdance good, average or bad mileage.
rickmacrodong
I was free to touch the pussy with hands, but no fingering. Free to touch nipples and ass, asscrack and everything.
My concern is, during the dance, the dancer would grind the pussy on my crotch area, but only for maybe 20 seconds at a time, then she would switch positions and straddle/grind her pussy on my thigh while facing towards me, then switch to straddling my thigh while facing away from me.
I was totally unaware and didn’t care about nutting during the dance. So I didn’t think to ask her to keep grinding me for the full 30 minutes. I just let her do her normal routine stuff. I also didn’t think to ask her, to play with my willy from outside the pants area.
Now I’m thinking i got screwed and didn’t get my money’s worth. Seeing people’s descriptions on here it seems handjobs from outside the pants and LDK’s are bare minimums when getting VIP.
I spent $600 multiple weeks in a row, and didn’t get any playing with my willy, nor any LDKing, and the dancer didn’t grind on my crotch for the entire hour.
And sometimes instead of grinding on the crotch she would bounce the ass up and down on the crotch instead of grinding. I’m concerned I got ripped off massively. I spent over $2000 over several weeks. I don’t know if I got my money’s worth. I don’t know why I didn’t think to ask for an LDK, with that much money involved.
My concern is, during the dance, the dancer would grind the pussy on my crotch area, but only for maybe 20 seconds at a time, then she would switch positions and straddle/grind her pussy on my thigh while facing towards me, then switch to straddling my thigh while facing away from me.
I was totally unaware and didn’t care about nutting during the dance. So I didn’t think to ask her to keep grinding me for the full 30 minutes. I just let her do her normal routine stuff. I also didn’t think to ask her, to play with my willy from outside the pants area.
Now I’m thinking i got screwed and didn’t get my money’s worth. Seeing people’s descriptions on here it seems handjobs from outside the pants and LDK’s are bare minimums when getting VIP.
I spent $600 multiple weeks in a row, and didn’t get any playing with my willy, nor any LDKing, and the dancer didn’t grind on my crotch for the entire hour.
And sometimes instead of grinding on the crotch she would bounce the ass up and down on the crotch instead of grinding. I’m concerned I got ripped off massively. I spent over $2000 over several weeks. I don’t know if I got my money’s worth. I don’t know why I didn’t think to ask for an LDK, with that much money involved.
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SJG
real good!
The Thrill is Gone + Summertime (BB king + George Gershwin cover)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFEIJSXL…
Dancers dont seem to be into making out, due to disease risks. I have received many kisses on the cheeks and head. To be honest, i dont want to be licking anything on a dancer either.
I have felt up dancers in the front room. Some stuff your face in their ass or boobs, to try to sell dances.
Dancers ive previously gotten dances with, do that kind of stuff for fun.
I don’t think feeling up the dancers in the front room has any correlation with taking them OTC. Many dancers seem to offer feelups, in an attempt to sell dances.
Personally, I don't get dances longer than 15 minutes, because I know all her moves by then.
If you want her to do something, ask. Preferably in advance. If you're not sure, get a couple dances outside before taking the VIP plunge.
You only get "ripped off" if you don't get something you're explicitly promised. You learned some lessons the hard way.
SJG
real good!
The Thrill is Gone + Summertime (BB king + George Gershwin cover)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFEIJSXL…
George Gershwin
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixdJLXDT…
I was so dumb, i didnt care about LDKing, so didn bother asking for an OTP handy or requesting a grind for the full duration of vip
I could ask her next time, but dont know if ill go there again
With the feel up in front room, i dont know if it means anything. Dancers who refuse OTC still let you feel them up, and sometimes play with Johnny in the front room
It sounds like you left disappointed and threw good money after bad, which is why I said you learned some lessons the hard way. She did not "rip you off," my definition of ripping someone off is promising something, anything that they do not deliver.
If you want to cum from dances (without extras), take a girl for some $20-30 lappers and make sure she grinds/jerks you like her life depends on it. You might not find them in a lot of clubs.
And some guys LDK easily, while others can't at all. Not sure where you fall, LDKers are born, not made.
Read my 111 Rules of Strip Clubbing (https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=58034 ).
I don't recommend that though.
The women who dance in strip clubs are just ordinary girls, and once you realize this, things will get real nice with them.
SJG
The Thrill is Gone + Summertime (BB king + George Gershwin cover)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFEIJSXL…
Last girl I LDKed with told me early in the 15 minute VIP that she wanted to make me cum, and I said "OK" even though I hadn't planned on it. It's a non-extras club with the VIPs behind a sheer curtain in a well-trafficked area.
She stroked and grinded right on my dick, nibbled and licked my ear and told me how bad she wanted me to cum for her, let me suck her tits, and eventually I finished.
We high fived and hugged afterwards. Teamwork.