Getting "nasty" vs. sugaring

Dec 31, 2021, 4:07 AM

Sometimes you just don't see it coming. This (paraphrased) was the pre-dance and post-dance discussion I had with a newish day shift dancer, single mother of 2, at my go-to club in Minneapolis today.

Pre-dances...

Dancer: I wish I had some regulars like these other girls here. Me: It takes a while to develop those connections. Dancer: I wonder what nasty stuff they do back there (pointing to VIP rooms) to get them to be regulars? Me (thinking in my head): They don't do anything...this is a topless club in Minneapolis.

We do three table-side dances which included a flash of pussy near the end of the third song....something I've never experienced in this club.

Post-dance...

Dancer: Do you get sex on a regular basis? Me: Not really. Dancer: What do you think of sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangements? Me: Ah, it's not really my thing. Dancer: Well, I'm not in a relationship now and I think I fell too much in love with my last sugar daddy. But I'm available if you're interested. Me (internal thoughts): Can this get anymore awkward? Dancer: What time is it? Me: 5:30 Dancer: Shit, I gotta go pick up my kids at daycare right now. Happy new year!

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Warrior153 years ago

I like OTC a lot. But I'd get scared away from that last part.

Icee Loco (asshole)3 years ago

She's direct that's good.

CJKent_band3 years ago

@grand1511

I will play along and comment on your discussion.

If you are interested in OTC with this MILF, you can suggest the P4P method of sugaring.

You: If you are available we can try OTC to see if we have the right chemistry and go from there.

Since she already mentioned that “I fell too much in love with my last sugar daddy” you can said that is better to keep it Pay Per Meeting and keep your distance so neither of you “falls in love”.

It is up to YOU, how you want to approach her.

She appears to be interested in YOU for some reason, (your wallet) but consider yourself lucky that she told YOU she is available. It might just be “love at first sight”...

You decide if you are interested in her as a girlfriend, sugar baby, “escort”, future mother of your kids, kept woman, 🏆 trophy wife, one night stand, etc etc etc

Just remember:

“Nothing ventured, nothing gained”

A sexual/romantic/business pursuit often require to “risk” one of two situations:

pursuing when interest is not reciprocated (resulting in rejection)
failing to pursue when interest is-may be reciprocated (resulting in a missed opportunity).

And remember Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.