Am I Too Big? Yes.
That seems to be the latest craze amongst the larger dancers when you decline a dance offer. Answer yes and it usually isn't taken too well.
Considering the significant number of big spending customers who seem very into big women it is a little surprising that a fair number of them feel the need to corner the whole market. I end up pointing that people have different tastes and what is fantastic to one person ain't so for the next.
Not only don't I want to buy a dance from these large women, I would be willing to pay a small premium (a large premium if I was wealthy) to see them exported to a place like Tootsies. :)
Considering the significant number of big spending customers who seem very into big women it is a little surprising that a fair number of them feel the need to corner the whole market. I end up pointing that people have different tastes and what is fantastic to one person ain't so for the next.
Not only don't I want to buy a dance from these large women, I would be willing to pay a small premium (a large premium if I was wealthy) to see them exported to a place like Tootsies. :)
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I wonder if taking the 5th would work? ;)
On the issue of not just weight, but overall looks, I am constantly amazed how many women below 6 on the looks scale will actually get into exotic dancing.
Much of this derives I believe from the Oprah-like (same on THE VIEW) syndrome which sees all women as "beautiful" - yet of course God help any man should he have a bald spot and isn't making at least 500k a year - he's a LOSER baby
Walmart is an excellent place to see large women. I just don't see the appeal and they're abundant. It is not like there is some shortage of big women. And, generally the guys going for that don't seem to care about other aspects of looks so really any large female should do just fine.
David, you know the saying along the lines of "all women are beautiful given the right amount of alcohol" and the comeback that goes like this: " and all men are handsome given the right amount of money". This centuries-old wisdom drives me nuts and the only thing I CAN do is to drink more and refuse dances - it'll teach'em! :)
Exactly, and even though some guys get turned-on by big women, who needs to go to clubs for that? Most guys in clubs want something a bit out of the ordinary, and while these heavy girls may be nice people and good citizens- most shouldn't be working in exotic dancing in the first place
It seems like these big women in the club are generally nicer even when they're getting the attention and money, which never ceases to amaze me. The hot shrimps don't have the nice personalty as often. When one does, I think what the hell is wrong with you--don't you understand you're smoking hot? I'd love a strip club filled with hot shrimps who have the personalties of the big friendly women----of course, I'd still need a low pricing.
I am very discriminative when it comes to who I will buy dances from.
They really have to sell me on... I do not even know what it is half the time... things just have to click and the looks is just the first step in the selection process.
Appears some people aren't reading the manifesto which clearly states that looks are irrelevant! That's right behind money is god and dancers never tell the truth.
I think you're over simplifying a little. I've met hot young girls that want to become BIG mommies because they see men that they like such as rappers who love the BIG mommies. So if you're a young woman and you see men perfectly happy with lard butts, then why not be a lard butt since it is usually easier to get blubber than to stay fit.
It is like the woman who gets fake tits and then learns that many men prefer natural small or medium to fake of any kind. I meet so many women that think fake tits are the greatest. A hell of a turn off to me. I'd almost rather have a lard butt with a ton of tats. I'm probably in the minority, but I don't like the fake tits even the well done ones.
I don't pay money to go to strip clubs to see the everyday fat girl. Guys who like fat girls have it made because they are all over the place and don't even have to go to strip clubs.
Did the same to a pair of Jehova's Witnesses that came to the door yesterday. "Hey, we're talking to people about what they think about death. What do you think happens after death?" the guy opened with. "Oh, that's easy. Jerks like you disappear and I'm left free of bigots and idiots to enjoy my time in paradise. Bye."
My brother refers to them as "waterbeds without frames." Although I admire his resourcefulness (you will have a lot more women to fuck in our society if you fuck the size 12s rather than the size 2s), I find myself unable to share in it.
I have not found this to be the case.
To the contrary, I have found that when a fatter young woman smells even the slightest hint of interest from a man, she treats him much worse than the more attractive skinnier women might. In general, a fat girl gets very few chances to act like a princess, relative to a hot skinny young blonde girl. So, the fat girl milks it for all it's worth.
To me, that's the world-view difference between the overweight people of North America (male or female) and the less rotund. The larger ones "milk it for all it's worth" often; the fit ones think in terms of snippets and snatches of experience, rather than fulsome and thorough-going exhaustion of opportunity before moving on.
I guess I've just described the Fifth Deadly Sin, haven't I? ...
I've always assumed it was true because they seem very available and very nice, but I've also never been tempted to find out what happens if you are interested. If you're interested, then perhaps act fairly disinterested but talk about the kind of woman who are interested e.g. independent, generous, not shallow, generous, intelligent, generous, adventurous, generous, . . . get the hint? ;) Make her the huntress and provider of sex and goods. I'm joking, but does seem like the man should be amply compensated for being with a plump female just as women are compensated for being with all manner of males.
OK, so I did her again for old times' sake, but then I _had_ to lay the law down to her.