Not Sugar Babies. Never liked that term. But Mistresses, in the European model. I shall be having them regularly in TJ. It will be part of how I expand a business across the boarder and adopt to a new culture and langauge.
In Mexico's macho society, mistresses are so prevalent that they're called la casa chica, "the little household." It's common for married men from auto mechanics to bank presidents to maintain one or more mistresses...
I asked about Mexican men keeping mistresses. He was puzzled.
"European idea" "not a wife but not a hooker either"
Finally I just said it straight out, "La Casa Chica".
That registered immediately. He was not just interpreting my Spanish. It was an expression he recognized immediately.
But, he was not really attracted to that. He works for a conservative Mexican family. He does not have the life goal of becoming a womanizer, does not look up to womanizers.
Human beings follow natural instincts regardless of the culture and times
The only reason some Americans and some Mexicans are “confused” about sex and sexuality is because they grew up in an over sexualized culture that at the same time is sexually repressed.
We ask the girls/women to be sexy, desirable and at the same time to be pure. Which is it?
The Greek view of the role if women in the classic age is defined by Demosthenes (384 – 12 October 322 BC) Greek statesman and orator of ancient Athens.
“We have courtesans for the sake of pleasure,
Concubines for the daily health of our bodies,
And wives to bear us lawful offspring and be the faithful guardians of our homes"
In the USA and Mexico as in all over the world, in all “civilized societies” the view is the same for those that can afford it, now days we have:
1. High end escorts, models, centerfolds, pornstars, actresses/movie starlets, etc that provide PSE/GFE for the sake of pleasure.
2. Mistresses, Concubines, Sugar Babies/Strippers ITC OTC; etc, for the daily needs of our bodies.
3. Wives and trophy wives to bear us lawful offspring and to be the faithful guardians of our home
4. Realistic Sex Dolls/Gynoids/Fembots, Internet Porn and Instagram/Onlyfans “Models”, for kicks-and-giggles”
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SJG
Bill Evans '64 - '75
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uco5FNbj…
Who hasn’t?
In Mexico's macho society, mistresses are so prevalent that they're called la casa chica, "the little household." It's common for married men from auto mechanics to bank presidents to maintain one or more mistresses...
Probably just means woman of the house, like kept woman.
SJG
Means she comes with the house I think.
The world is full of kept women.
Only in the US do people not understand this and instead talk about Sugar Babies.
SJG
I asked about Mexican men keeping mistresses. He was puzzled.
"European idea" "not a wife but not a hooker either"
Finally I just said it straight out, "La Casa Chica".
That registered immediately. He was not just interpreting my Spanish. It was an expression he recognized immediately.
But, he was not really attracted to that. He works for a conservative Mexican family. He does not have the life goal of becoming a womanizer, does not look up to womanizers.
SJG
Frigid Pink
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ttrHU9Py…
The only reason some Americans and some Mexicans are “confused” about sex and sexuality is because they grew up in an over sexualized culture that at the same time is sexually repressed.
We ask the girls/women to be sexy, desirable and at the same time to be pure. Which is it?
The Greek view of the role if women in the classic age is defined by Demosthenes (384 – 12 October 322 BC) Greek statesman and orator of ancient Athens.
“We have courtesans for the sake of pleasure,
Concubines for the daily health of our bodies,
And wives to bear us lawful offspring and be the faithful guardians of our homes"
In the USA and Mexico as in all over the world, in all “civilized societies” the view is the same for those that can afford it, now days we have:
1. High end escorts, models, centerfolds, pornstars, actresses/movie starlets, etc that provide PSE/GFE for the sake of pleasure.
2. Mistresses, Concubines, Sugar Babies/Strippers ITC OTC; etc, for the daily needs of our bodies.
3. Wives and trophy wives to bear us lawful offspring and to be the faithful guardians of our home
4. Realistic Sex Dolls/Gynoids/Fembots, Internet Porn and Instagram/Onlyfans “Models”, for kicks-and-giggles”