What annoys ME the most!!!
Professor906090
There are things that are annoying but, in moderation, they are usually OK. However, there is one thing that annoys me the most. It is imability to carry a conversation on a single topic for more than the time that I spent in the club.
I could think of two dancers that are habitually drunk so that " they can get through the day" or "because we get bored". If I was to text or come in the next day, they would usually forget what we have talked about 24 hours ago, and I would have to start all over again! True that is not the point of being there, but, somehow, and while it sould not, it annoys a hell out of me!!!! Agrrr!
I could think of two dancers that are habitually drunk so that " they can get through the day" or "because we get bored". If I was to text or come in the next day, they would usually forget what we have talked about 24 hours ago, and I would have to start all over again! True that is not the point of being there, but, somehow, and while it sould not, it annoys a hell out of me!!!! Agrrr!
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Professor- perhaps your expectations are a bit high. Dancers in busy clubs meet and chat up a lot more guys in one shift than you may realize. And if they are any good, you may walk away from the experience thinking that you made a "connection" of sorts. That is what a good dancer does. The dancer however, is walking away looking for the next customer. She's already got your money.
Unless you have an established rapport with a dancer, it's a little unrealistic to expect that A) she will remember the details of every conversation she has with every guy she chats up from the previous day and/or B) that you said anything that is really worth her remembering. Nothing personal, but these girls have heard more stories, tales of woe and heartache, promises of riches, jokes, nasty comments and plain old bullshit than most therapists and bartenders combined.
Chances are pretty good that she is on auto-pilot when it comes to conversation with you and most guys. The chat is what sets up the reason she is there. And that is to get you to put your money into her hand( or between her tits, whatever--lol).
Listen to Chandler-- especially his second suggestion. Very good advice.
As far as other annoyances, when I polite turn down a dancer's invitation for a lap dance, it annoys the hell out of me when they keep returning with hope and asking again.
There is one particular dancer at Bugsy's Speakeasy that does this. On my next visit there, if that dancer is there again, I'm going to ask my ATF to step-in and explain that when a customer turns her down for a table dance, not to bug them anymore.
What else annoys me in a club? Those 'Cosmopolitan' dancers, you know the nines and dimes, that think their 'shit' don't stink and keep asking for high prices lap dances! Sure, a cute face is nice, but a talented and skilled dancer can make ALL the difference in the world.
I have trained myself in remembering names, and can remember conversations pretty well too, I really hate when I have those old pothead moments and it takes a few minutes for the light bulb..
It does surprise me sometimes how much some customers remember about me, or our conversations, and sometimes even after a good while....
Bones, let me know, and we'll get it taken care of..
See when I know someone doesn't care for me or my dances, I remember that, and leave them alone, its your money and it shouldn't be made painful to spend your money where you want...