Black and brown men, do y’all feel stereotyped I’m strip clubs?
WavvyCain
Degenerate gambler and virgin
Idk man, I feel like they make rules so we can’t come in, but the funny thing is, we’re the ones willing to come inside and actually spend money. Girls spend time with us and say that bs like “ damn you’re different” I’m like wtf u thought this was?! They think we gonna set them up in a drug deal or some shit idk wtf be going on in these places but it’s annoying sometimes. Girls ask me what I do for work and always think I’m a drug dealer 😂, I’m like damn wtf, I can’t at least do some other shit? One of my friends at tattletales, told me A lot of the black guys stopped coming and she’s mad because the old white guys are cheap but the black guys that got stereotyped etc by managers were the ones actually spending money.
I know follies has a lot of Indian dudesAnd black guys in there getting play. Follies was like the only club I’ve been to where I felt comfortable, they didn’t judge at all in there.
I’m not making this about the black strip clubs, I’m talking about the non black strip clubs. We’re not treated fair and this gotta change. We treat the women better than the white boys do. I went to oasis some months back and girls were freaked out cause a white dude on coke stuck a fiji water bottle in his ass and tried to rape a girl. We don’t even do any shit close to that, we are gentlemen.
I know follies has a lot of Indian dudesAnd black guys in there getting play. Follies was like the only club I’ve been to where I felt comfortable, they didn’t judge at all in there.
I’m not making this about the black strip clubs, I’m talking about the non black strip clubs. We’re not treated fair and this gotta change. We treat the women better than the white boys do. I went to oasis some months back and girls were freaked out cause a white dude on coke stuck a fiji water bottle in his ass and tried to rape a girl. We don’t even do any shit close to that, we are gentlemen.
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I don't really mind being stereotyped. I like good girls with bad habits.
I get middle aged and even older white men trying to buy drugs from me. Had a few try to ask me for hoes lulz
Back in the day I used to go clubbing with my white and Asian friends. I'd say 70% of the dancers would approach my Asian friend first, the other 30% had my white friend as the first approach. I don't take it personal, I know the reason. If dancers had special glasses that made it clear how much money each customer had in their pockets I know I'd get approached a lot more.
A lot of times we black guys get the short end of the stick when it comes to attention from dancers in a new club. It is what it is. We gotta be more aggressive in seeking out who we want. At least when you become a regular in a club then all the preconceived notions about us black guys are erased. Girls will then approach you as long as you've been a decent spender in past visits.
“People greet you according to the way you dress and say goodbay according to the way you behave"
It is your behavior that will erase the stereotypes and preconceptions of others.
I tell my students to always behave like ladies and gentlemans to be treated like ladies and gentlemans.
And remember and embrace this quote whenever they experience discrimination and smile and be confident and courteous.
“Sometimes, I feel discriminated against, but it does not make me angry.
It merely astonishes me.
How can any deny themselves the pleasure of my company?
It’s beyond me.”
~ Zora Neale Hurston
~ Born: January 7, 1891 Notasulga, Alabama
~ Died: January 28, 1960 Fort Pierce, Florida
~ Author, anthropologist, and filmmaker. She portrayed racial struggles in the early-1900s American South.
If others feel one way or another about me, I don't care and don't let it bother me because I'm just there to have a good time.
WTF? It sucks being profiled!
Pics or it didn’t happen.
Maybe "brown" means all non people of no color other than blacks. It gets confusing sometimes.
But I'm here to help you out. Read the first post in this thread.
https://tuscl.net/discussion/70722/
Pay particular attention to point #5 in the first post.
I know that you think that taking showers is "acting white". But trust me, if you start doing so more frequently, maybe, just maybe, you can stop having sex with goats so often.
That's the ticket.